Joel will never go for an open relationship. He's ready for the whole thing to blow up, setting up his old bed at mum and pop's house. He already is crying to mum with his weekly facetime calls from the Dunkin parking lot (so he can whiiiiiiine about his horrible boooooooyfriend).I see he is talking about porn and finding other men attractive, I know he has been cheating for a while, but maybe this is the slow steps to announcing an open relationship.