Jesy Nelson #7 same old same old…

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She can continue to raise awareness now without putting videos and photos of them on SM because she is a 'celeb' herself and the media will print in/ put it online.
 
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Exactly. She's using those children and it's horrible. Wonder if Dad has allowed an opinion on it all?
 
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I don’t condone her putting the kids out there, I find it abhorrent. For some there is an over-reliance on SM, highlighting or exaggerating the most mundane banal ‘events’ for clicks.

25years ago, would you show strangers photos of your kids?

It’s over over sharing.
 
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I’m so happy they’re addressing it. People commenting, why bring it up when she’s going through so much 🙄 Not only did Jesy do a whole documentary milking it, if she hadn’t her children to exploit she’d still be banging about her hard time in cryptic posts trying to stay relevant. There isn’t enough spoken about regarding friendship break ups, they can be as bad as romantic break ups.
 
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I’m so happy they’re addressing it. People commenting, why bring it up when she’s going through so much 🙄 Not only did Jesy do a whole documentary milking it, if she hadn’t her children to exploit she’d still be banging about her hard time in cryptic posts trying to stay relevant. There isn’t enough spoken about regarding friendship break ups, they can be as bad as romantic break ups.
Also wasn't Leigh going through "so much" with being pregnant with twins when the whole Nicki Minaj thing happened?. Jesy didn't care then. Just because someone is going through something difficult doesn't mean they can get away with everything!
 
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Good for Perrie. They were work colleagues at the end of the day, and Jesy has far too big an expectation of all the other girls after her behaviour.
 
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Also wasn't Leigh going through "so much" with being pregnant with twins when the whole Nicki Minaj thing happened?. Jesy didn't care then. Just because someone is going through something difficult doesn't mean they can get away with everything!
Exactly, she was sitting there laughing in the video like a brain dead idiot, as Queen of the P*dos was bullying young girls, about a situation she knew nothing about. All the other girls come across so lovely and genuine. She’s always been as fake as her tan.
 
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Someone's commented on one of the Great Company posts - ETA it's the reel about Jesy on their instagram.

Well done Perrie for speaking out ❤ Worked with them for years and the girls had to constantly put their wants and feelings aside to manage Jesy's ever changing emotions.

Clicked on their account and they're actually followed by Leigh, Sairah, Zack - one of LM's stylists, and one of the old Little Mix dancers.
 
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I also never got people’s obsession with band mates staying besties. It was done with the Spice Girls too. Media making up fake rifts. Are you still close friends with people you worked with 20 years ago. It doesn’t necessarily mean you dis like them but people move on. It’s not a bad thing
 
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Apparently this is on her sister’s instagram stories, her account’s private so no way to check.

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Apparently this is on her sister’s instagram stories, her account’s private so no way to check.

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I understand why her sister has posted that but the line that leaps out is “the minute she tells her truth”. Jesy seems to have done nothing but tell HER truth, at what point are other people allowed to tell theirs?
 
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Apparently this is on her sister’s instagram stories, her account’s private so no way to check.

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So only Jesy is allowed to speak her truth and the girls must stay quiet? Her family don’t help and I feel like they drove a further wedge into LM with her mums views on them too. 3 people and a whole team of people can’t all be unanimously wrong and let someone down compared to 1 person who is apparently the only one telling the truth in the whole situation. I know they family and love her but come on.
 
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So only Jesy is allowed to speak her truth and the girls must stay quiet? Her family don’t help and I feel like they drove a further wedge into LM with her mums views on them too. 3 people and a whole team of people can’t all be unanimously wrong and let someone down compared to 1 person who is apparently the only one telling the truth in the whole situation. I know they family and love her but come on.
There seems to be a bit of a theme sadly, this was also her just after the Nicki live.

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Apparently this is on her sister’s instagram stories, her account’s private so no way to check.

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The thing is a therapist absolutely would tell you to manage your friendships in a way to protect yourself first. You need to put your oxygen mask on yourself before you can help someone else. And there’s a lot of cases where it might be advised to let that friendship go- if behaviour is becoming a cycle, if it’s becoming toxic, if it’s simply not serving you in ways that are helpful to your life or if you’ve tried picking them up multiple times but they aren’t learning from it or doing things to help themselves.

Good on Perrie for speaking out cos saint jesy the perpetual unsupported victim has done nothing but get her jabs in wherever she could regardless of what the others were going through.
 
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The thing is a therapist absolutely would tell you to manage your friendships in a way to protect yourself first. You need to put your oxygen mask on yourself before you can help someone else. And there’s a lot of cases where it might be advised to let that friendship go- if behaviour is becoming a cycle, if it’s becoming toxic, if it’s simply not serving you in ways that are helpful to your life or if you’ve tried picking them up multiple times but they aren’t learning from it or doing things to help themselves.

Good on Perrie for speaking out cos saint jesy the perpetual unsupported victim has done nothing but get her jabs in wherever she could regardless of what the others were going through.
It’s not going down the way her sister thinks, lots of people are not sticking up for Jesy this time which is wild as her fans are a bit tunnel vision.

where were her family? They were at home profiting off of her job telling her to stay. Those girls were there for her way waaaay more.
 
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It’s not going down the way her sister thinks, lots of people are not sticking up for Jesy this time which is wild as her fans are a bit tunnel vision.

where were her family? They were at home profiting off of her job telling her to stay. Those girls were there for her way waaaay more.
I’m genuinely curious what her sister thinks of their brother who in Jesy’s own words told her to stay in the group to make money even though she was deeply unhappy.

No one is saying Jesy didn’t have a hard time of it, with trolls etc. but there seems to be absolutely no acknowledgment of how anything ever affected the other three aside from “yeah I was bit a miserable and felt sorry for the other girls”, that isn’t the accountability people are looking for - it’s the black fishing, brutal cutting off of contact and the Nicki situation. It takes me back to when she basically just said “but she handles it better than me” when the topic of Leigh and racism was brought up in that interview.

I’ve also just remembered she had the nerve to criticise them for wanting an advocate/therapist present for a discussion after attempt on her own life, that she put down to being in the group.
 
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