Jesy Nelson #7 same old same old…

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Wasn’t it around this time as well that Perrie suffered one of her losses? I can’t remember if it was the early or late loss but it’s just so distasteful of Jesy.
They both (and Sam and Sairah) basically got pregnant exactly when she left because they were all due in the August/September after… 😂

Perrie’s first loss was the early one and was anytime 2017-2020 because she’s only specified it was with Alex and before Axel.
 
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WOW zion was wayy too young. What did he do in college? Also does her mum live with them and why is she sorting her daughters runners out? Bit too early to call it a Cheryl and her mum situation?
 
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WOW zion was wayy too young. What did he do in college? Also does her mum live with them and why is she sorting her daughters runners out? Bit too early to call it a Cheryl and her mum situation?
It said at the beginning her mum and sister both live with her which I wasn’t aware of either. By the seems of it her mum does everything for her and looks after her house/cleans for her etc even before she was pregnant. Probably makes sense for them, especially now. Jesy comes across as having serious codependency issues where she can’t be alone.
 
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Is she doing a separate documentary on the SMA? Just asking as there wasn’t much mentioned about it in this one apart from at the very end. I’m assuming this one that’s just been released was the documentary she was talking about filming when she was pregnant.
 
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It said at the beginning her mum and sister both live with her which I wasn’t aware of either. By the seems of it her mum does everything for her and looks after her house/cleans for her etc even before she was pregnant. Probably makes sense for them, especially now. Jesy comes across as having serious codependency issues where she can’t be alone.
I thought her sister was married???
 
I’m watching now, I think I her problem is fame and no little mix. Her family are blaming everything on that really but the issue is fame and that won’t ever change. The issue will remain for however long she wants to remain a public figure.
 
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I’m watching it now - I don’t think her mum is actually helpful for her. Like when the doctor is telling that they may not survive and she was trying to be strong with Zion and her mums in the background absolutely sobbing while her sister is trying to like calm her. She mollycoddles her wayyyy too much you can tell her mums internal panic makes her worse.

Edit: Zions mum was talking to him in such a positive way and not panicked all the time worried. Just why do you feel this way, let’s talk about it - let’s be strong while her mum is worried too much about how Jesy will react to x y z
 
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Was anyone shocked at the guy using the chopstick curler on her hair which she claims is natural 🙄😂 I don’t know why she’s obsessed with that hair style. Is it a safety blanket? I think it looks terrible. I get the sense she’s always been obsessed with black culture and black artists so much she tries to imitate it almost but it comes off as awkward, offensive and cringy. Even right from the beginning looking at her Xfactor audition, the outfit was wild. Even in hospital she’s led in giant T-shirts with rappers on. When filmed at home she’s still dressed crazy with OTT hats on. It doesn’t come off as authentic to me either and must be exhausting trying to look edgy and different everyday. You never see her in a plain outfit without the tonged hair 😂 I guess she has the time to do it considering her mum is doing everything else though.
 
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Was anyone shocked at the guy using the chopstick curler on her hair which she claims is natural 🙄😂 I don’t know why she’s obsessed with that hair style. Is it a safety blanket? I think it looks terrible. I get the sense she’s always been obsessed with black culture and black artists so much she tries to imitate it almost but it comes off as awkward, offensive and cringy. Even right from the beginning looking at her Xfactor audition, the outfit was wild. Even in hospital she’s led in giant T-shirts with rappers on. When filmed at home she’s still dressed crazy with OTT hats on. It doesn’t come off as authentic to me either and must be exhausting trying to look edgy and different everyday. You never see her in a plain outfit without the tonged hair 😂 I guess she has the time to do it considering her mum is doing everything else though.
nothing will ever stop her from cosplaying as Jade 😅
 
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I'm already sick of seeing her face on the TV/in the media. I understand why she's campaigning about the SMA but I'd have more respect for her if she did this through a spokesperson and focused on the kids whose health she's sharing. I wonder if some of it is a bit of guilt too as it was her Mum that noticed something wasn't right ...
Honestly. The doc just made me realise how much I dislike her. Zion was very nice. Just a shame they didn't work out
 
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I get the sense she’s always been obsessed with black culture and black artists so much she tries to imitate it almost but it comes off as awkward, offensive and cringy.
She has. I rolled my eyes so hard at her mum explaining she lovvvved missy elliot and "that kinda music" trying to get sympathy from us

I have many white friends who liked "urban" music and never blackfished.

Jesy Nelson is a culture vulture. Point. Blank. Period.
 
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Binged a lot of the doc and it has been done and put together really well. I’ve noticed even when she’s coming across well though how much she contradicts herself throughout it. One point she’s saying another member wanting to leave the band shocked her and she never wanted it to be over and she was heartbroken. Then the next she’s saying she struggled all the way through and didn't want to do it anymore, even on the podcast she said she wanted to leave straight after xfactor. Then it’s the whole thing about hating filming videos it was the worst part for her then she’s talking about her solo career saying all she could think about was the video and how excited she was 🙄 then the fact she had never thought about going solo at all which we know is bull as she had wrote and released a solo song and video under a year after leaving. She’s also making out like she gave up on a successful career because of the pressure but she attempted a music career multiple times and failed.
 
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She has. I rolled my eyes so hard at her mum explaining she lovvvved missy elliot and "that kinda music" trying to get sympathy from us

I have many white friends who liked "urban" music and never blackfished.

Jesy Nelson is a culture vulture. Point. Blank. Period.
Yes totally agree. She takes no accountability either and you can tell she still doesn’t get it. Seeing the clips from when she was promoting in the ‘bad boyz’ era and how dark her tan was and how huge the curly wigs were really reminded me of how bad it was 😩 the fact she admits to having full control over the video and promo etc says it all.
 
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I don't really like how she's like well Perrie was going to leave first. Imo Perrie would've at least tried to finish out any tour/promo duties they had and spoken to the other girls about it, and maybe Leigh and Jade at that point would've wanted to end with all of them being together.
 
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That last scene in the last episode tho...awful sad...and it didnt even say they broke up. My heart goes out to all four of them.
 
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I don't understand why Jesy acts like having a therapist in the room was the worst thing in the world.

A thrapist can keep the conversation safe, prevent blame, help everyone express what they’re feeling without blame.

They probably were angry, but didn't want that to be the centre of the conversation so asked for a mediator
 
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Whoever called her a walking contradiction is BANG ON

Talking about never going back into music because the "music industry is dark" "putting out music isn't fun"

Girl... you only thought this after we all hated Boyz and you're little come back music video after.
 
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