Jesy Nelson #7 same old same old…

[Jennytea]

It's not about the twins though, she's an opportunist.
Firmly embedded in a mediocre online life so will use anything as a means to earn money and put her warpaint on for those very important sultry selfies.

I do have to agree with this unfortunately she would’ve exploited her children regardless and she had already signed up to film them and do documentaries before even knowing they would have health problems.

 

[KingOfLove]

It's not about the twins though, she's an opportunist.
Firmly embedded in a mediocre online life so will use anything as a means to earn money and put her warpaint on for those very important sultry selfies.

 

[Jennytea]

I think you could tell from that documentary Jesy did that she was DRAINING to work with. Everything seemed to always be about her and she seemed like the type they had to tip toe around. I vividly remember that scene where they are doing a photoshoot or maybe a video and everyone is constantly having to tell Jesy how great she looks so she doesn’t kick off, she doesn’t say thanks to any of them and just had a constant dirty look on her face. Didn’t ever give any of the girls compliments back either. It was like they weren’t allowed to enjoy anything around her as she was so miserable and self involved. Bizarre she then left with the reasoning of not being able to handle the fame or limelight, criticised how Little Mix dressed and said she didn’t want to have to show her body off then as soon as she left tried to launch a solo career where she constantly had bikinis on and crop tops No wonder they can’t fucking stand her. Didn’t even mention the blackfishing issue either!

 

[Jennytea]

I would love a documentary exposing The X Factor.
People like me grew up thinking 25 was old AF because of that show

Omg used to think once you hit 25 your life was over they acted like the over 25’s were has been rejects haha … I was looking forward to someone doing a documentary on ‘americas next top model’ and the awful things they did to contestants but they’ve now made one that’s coming out on Netflix but the people who were awful are the ones on there ffs!! So doubt it’s gonna expose anyone.

 

[KnickKnackPaddyWhack]

The pair of them can’t many money with their ‘music’ so they are doing PAs now and making money off their kids.

He looks very miserable!

He looks like his mum has told him to get off the x box and hold one of his siblings

and seriously, how does she find such hideous outfits?!

 

[Diddikins]

I actually think the other girls stayed quiet for far too long and it allowed Jesy to spin her poor me victim narrative and have everyone buy into it without getting the other side(s) of the story. What Perrie said was long overdue.

There is only so much you can do for someone else if they aren’t willing to take accountability and start helping themselves.

I think @maytoseptember hit the nail on the head with the term emotional vampire. I’ve spent time with quite a few of those types of people and it’s exhausting because they suck the life and energy out of everything and everyone.

 

[Diddikins]

I said the same earlier in the thread. Had a feeling she had ended it but she was quite happy to let people bash him all over the internet for being a crap dad and abandoning them when that clearly wasn't the case. Just awful.

It feeds her victim narrative if she allows people to believe that. “Poor Jesy left to look after her poorly babies all on her own”.

 

[Not Your Kind of Person]

I know this is a serious issue and it's good she's raising awareness, but why is she wearing a school uniform?

 

[July81]

Its like she feels she's allowed to speak, do documentaries but yet the girls are not allowed to speak about it or discuss their feelings on the matter. Perrie was not disrespectful she just explained how she felt which was long overdue. Jesy likes to play the martyr and its embarrassing

 

[Tangerine Dream]

She's now posted a photo of the twins saying they are in GOSH and have splints on their legs. How do these people not get called out on sharing medical information like this online, it's sickening.

There desperately needs to be a law created so parents can't do this.

You can be an advocate without creating a circus around it.

 

[MarshMallowMonster]

Wonder how much she paid for her ring.

 

[GalaxyGirl70]

Given they have got feeding tubes, it must mean their swallow/gag reflexes are affected so I would guess it was picked up quite late - although given they were born at 31 weeks it would have been hard to spot among generalised developmental delay.

 

[forgotmyacc]

I wouldn't be shocked if whoever said 'are you done now' or however Jesy worded it was when the others were trying to explain the blackfishing issue and they realised they were not being heard and understand and not the convo about her mental health/leaving the group.

I just imagine that she was difficult to work with from the beginning.
She got the worst of the bad press absolutely but I just feel she was draining to be around all the time. It's not fair on what are essentially your work colleagues to have to pander and tip toe around you 24 / 7 .
Yes your friends should be there for you if you are going through a rough patch but it gets to the point when you need professional help.

 

[Maccat123]

Na pass. Who advised her to say that? It only comes across to me as timed perfectly for her documentary. Funny that.

Jesy needs to take accountability for the way she hurt others, not play this wishy washy “we’re all mums” now card. I said before she might have a better outlook on life after becoming a mother, that was likely, but when is it time to acknowledge that her fucking around with Maga Minaj was the nail in the coffin?

The way the other two were mums when she was being awful to them before! Being a mum doesn’t erase your shitty actions and like you said there’s zero acknowledgment of her and Nicki’s behaviour towards Leigh… who was a new mum at the time.

 

[GalaxyGirl70]

I feel so sorry for her poor Mum tbh, I bet that 90% of the childcare is on her. Jesy looks like a teenager posing in her bedroom in that video... grow the fuck up, woman, you've got 2 seriously ill kids who won't be on this earth for long. Go be a parent.

 

[hol20x]

Poor babies. She probably thought they were out of the woods once they were out of the NICU and now this. It's a good thing her mum noticed.

 

[ElaineDublin]

Also wasn't Leigh going through "so much" with being pregnant with twins when the whole Nicki Minaj thing happened?. Jesy didn't care then. Just because someone is going through something difficult doesn't mean they can get away with everything!

Exactly, she was sitting there laughing in the video like a brain dead idiot, as Queen of the P*dos was bullying young girls, about a situation she knew nothing about. All the other girls come across so lovely and genuine. She’s always been as fake as her tan.

 

[KINGAA]

I hate people who use mental health to defend shitty actions and now she’s using her kids. Pathetic. Jesy is on her own because she chose that path. This is the consequence of her actions. Being bullied is horrific but it doesn’t make you a shitty person to those who love you.

She can say everything and more in her documentary yet the first time someone actually says something of substance about the situation it’s suddenly oh no poor me, they’re being mean. No, your documentary was released 3 months ago so sorry but you can’t hide behind the “so much time has gone on now” BS.

 

[banshe]

Respect where respect is due. I couldn’t make it to the one mile mark!

Neither will he once the babies are born.

 

[GalaxyGirl70]

My daughter is a 2nd year student midwife and said this isn't usually a happy ending.... it's so serious that her hospital doesn't deal with TTTS antenatal care and women are referred to a specialist out of county centre 40 miles away.