Jesy Nelson #7 same old same old…

[GalaxyGirl70]

People don't even really remember Little Mix these days. Jesy left 5 years ago and the rest stopped just 2 years later. Time moves on, it's not like they were Abba.

 

[Jennytea]

Only just remembered Zion is almost a decade younger than Jesy. It’s likely he isn’t mature enough to deal with everything and also be a good partner (judging by what we‘ve seen). It realistically was a fling that ended up resulting in a pregnancy. He’s young and it’s evidenced by the way he behaves online. It must be such a shock for both of them. I hope the babies just get a lot of love from them both even if they aren’t together.

 

[NowIsGood]

Maternity ward... Are you ready?!!

She will be absolutely loving all this attention, but I think it's going to be a massive shock for her when she actually has 2 babies to care for (let's face it he isn't going to hang around)

 

[KINGAA]

Def think there’s a lot of assumptions and I didn’t get bad vibes at all from him after watching the documentary either.. Jesy is the only one who makes me raise my eyebrows but it’s like no one is allowed to say anything about her now and she’s seemed to have gotten a pass for all her bad behaviour because of the circumstance she’s now in.

This!!! Jesy is hard work, she always will be. Their relationship was never solid and they only got back together because she was pregnant. He seemed lovely and very caring, if it was neee strong before the stress of the twins would of been incredibly hard to deal with along side an already fractured relationship.

 

[Jennytea]

I would have to read the details again, but I’m sure Lucy Spraggan was involved in some kind of exposé because of the SA whilst she was competing, and the suddenly her Simon are besties, and he walked her down the aisle. All very stange

Yes it was kept quiet at the time (not to protect Lucy either but the show). She was sexually assaulted by a hotel worker who went into her room whilst she slept. The producers then convinced her to leave the show basically and pretend it was about something else Thankfully the person who did it was caught and went to prison. It was very strange how years later her and Simon were suddenly close. I think he gave her money or something personally years after when she realised what they did was wrong and he tried to help her relaunch a career then too! Sorry to derail!!

 

[GalaxyGirl70]

I have a feeling that Jesy does exactly what Jesy wants, and her family are the ones enabling it. If she is dating, shame on her. Her poor Mum must be run into the ground.

 

[Apocaleksa]

Life can be so bastard cruel. I hope they've got lots of emotional support, they must be utterly devastated.

 

[Diddikins]

I actually think the other girls stayed quiet for far too long and it allowed Jesy to spin her poor me victim narrative and have everyone buy into it without getting the other side(s) of the story. What Perrie said was long overdue.

There is only so much you can do for someone else if they aren’t willing to take accountability and start helping themselves.

I think @maytoseptember hit the nail on the head with the term emotional vampire. I’ve spent time with quite a few of those types of people and it’s exhausting because they suck the life and energy out of everything and everyone.

 

[GalaxyGirl70]

There's a woman keeps showing up on my FB account whose son is disabled. He's terribly unwell, I get her frustration as she's being bounced from one hospital to another with him but she's posting his entire and complete medical history online - and it's just not right. There are photos of him clearly upset and in distress. There has to be protection for these children - no one under 18 should be having their stories told online by their parents regardless. I hope Jesy doesn't go down the road of exposing those two girls of hers to any of this but I have a feeling she will.

 

[SpellingBea]

I’m glad the media are spreading awareness of SMA - but I really hope Jesy doesn’t use the media attention she’s got to try and relaunch her failed career for the 100th time. Personally I think she should be staying away from it all and focus on being with her children. I understand doing anything work related that involves helping her children and other parents suffering but if she tries to release more music or tries to get a reality show I will be shaking my head.

Unfortunately i think she might be looking to make as much money as she can as i assume the twins ongoing care might be expensive... I wouldn't begrudge her for trying to make more money for that but it's important that she continues raising awareness and maybe try to raise money for SMA related charities alongside her own needs

 

[Jennytea]

Anyone confused why the DM are claiming they were together 4 years? They weren’t together anywhere near that long and they were broken up already when she found out she was pregnant and then they got back together. It’s all very sad but they likely wouldn’t have stayed together regardless without all the trauma on top. He has always come across as very childish. She was in hospital on bed rest and he was more concerned with making Tik Toks jumping around like an idiot and is still concerned with making Tik Toks. I just find it bizarre. No idea whose choice it is but regardless it isn’t a surprise. Hopefully he will still be there and won’t continue to try and make content from the sad situation.

 

[forgotmyacc]

They are fed with a NG tube, so can only have liquids. When my youngest had an NG tube with RSV, they were very specific about how much liquid at a time but they do sometimes use pumps overnight. Given how strict the community pediatric nurses usually are, I'm just surprised at how chunky the twins are. It won't be helping them move around at all, if they even can. Their faces look very bloated.

There's a million reasons why their little faces might be bloated. They are seriously ill. They are being monitored daily there is no way they are being over fed

 

[Windermere]

These celebrities need to stop showing that they are away from home. Shes been posting that shes in Cornwall with her whole family all week. Its a silly move

 

[Jennytea]

Of course

Someone said on here the other day she doesn’t want fame… Oh please her music career has failed over and over. Now she is using her high risk pregnancy as a way to get a reality show. ‘Raising awareness’ suppose you’re doing it for free then Jesy? Or donating the cheque to charity? Didn’t think so

 

[memeee]

It is great that the girls reached out to Jesy following hearing about the twins, it was the right thing to do but I do also hope Jesy reached out to Perrie when she heard about her losing her baby, that was devastating too and compassion works both ways.

 

[BugglyWuggly]

How the fuck does she have the headspace to want a relationship?

Because her mother is doing all the work.

 

[redstraw16]

It’s not going down the way her sister thinks, lots of people are not sticking up for Jesy this time which is wild as her fans are a bit tunnel vision.

where were her family? They were at home profiting off of her job telling her to stay. Those girls were there for her way waaaay more.

I’m genuinely curious what her sister thinks of their brother who in Jesy’s own words told her to stay in the group to make money even though she was deeply unhappy.

No one is saying Jesy didn’t have a hard time of it, with trolls etc. but there seems to be absolutely no acknowledgment of how anything ever affected the other three aside from “yeah I was bit a miserable and felt sorry for the other girls”, that isn’t the accountability people are looking for - it’s the black fishing, brutal cutting off of contact and the Nicki situation. It takes me back to when she basically just said “but she handles it better than me” when the topic of Leigh and racism was brought up in that interview.

I’ve also just remembered she had the nerve to criticise them for wanting an advocate/therapist present for a discussion after attempt on her own life, that she put down to being in the group.

 

[Jennytea]

I’ve just come across her on TikTok. She absolutely does. My head in all she does is fetish on black men and culture. She is a fucking culture.Vulture
It’s scary that she will be having mixed race children God knows how she’s going to bring them up
Sometimes I see pictures of her and she’s literally darker than me
Don’t know why she can’t be a little bit more natural and be more true to herself she needs to realise she’s not black get over it

If it makes you feel better at all her kids are likely to come out white. I hope they’re the whitest kids to ever grace the earth. That’ll really piss her off

 

[Justmechan23]

This is the problem with updating people in real time. Now there is pressure to provide an update and it may not be a good one. She mentioned raising awareness but surely that could have been done some time in future when the outcome is known and mental health/well being isn’t affected by todays opinions. For someone that had a horrible time with social media which has affected her mental state in the past, this should have been kept private with her close ones nearby. I’m surprised she’s still so active in between social media breaks. Hoping she and the babies are doing fine.

 

[Pivot]

Just watched it. Those poor little girls, actually heartbreaking all the stuff they have been through and will continue to go through. They are such happy little souls too.

So the Zion thing was pretty much glossed over other than Jesy felt they were handling things differently. So from that I take it that Zion was struggling and she felt he was bringing the situation down. Interesting though her mum also seemed to be taking it hard(who wouldn’t be) but Jesy didn't seem to have a problem with that. There was no mention of how much he helps or when/if he has the girls. Seems like she wanted to give the impression she does it all with her mum and whatever other family help they have.

Her mum needs a medal tbh. And I can't help feel that it's not fair on her at all. Looking after one child with complex medical needs is alot but two? She seems like such a lovely woman who clearly would never say no to helping Jesy but when she said about not getting time to eat i was like wow! I know Jesy said she doesn't want help but even if not help with babies she could get a mother's help/au pair who could help round the house and maybe cook so they can actually have proper food. Her mum is almost at pension age and not getting any younger even if Jesy doesn't want to think that and if she doesn't look after herself she won't be any use to anyone.