Jesy Nelson #7 same old same old…

[redstraw16]

...Has she even actually apologised to them though? Its alright saying 'we probably see things differently now' but I think if she's banking on a reunion (which I think she will want eventually, as I can't see her solo career going anywhere now), then she has to actually take accountability for some of the problematic things she did.

Even the “we probably all see things differently now, we’re all mums” angle is random to take. Leigh’s twins were barely a month old when she jumped on that IG live with Nicki, but she was already a mum at that point and they’re not even 5 yet!

It’s like it’s taken something sizeable to happen in her own life for her to actually reflect.

Also just realised this documentary comes out a week before Leigh’s album release, when Leigh’s likely to be on the promo campaign trail.

 

[GalaxyGirl70]

I wonder if she's been told to ditch the fake tan, she's looking scarily caucasian these days.

 

[ToxicPony]

Honestly, probably once a week I think about her text messages like 'this might be CRAZY but like, I wanna do a song about liking bad boys? Like tell me if I'm mad?'

It's like my roman empire.

 

[levitating]

Costs 36p if given in bulk to add SMA to the heel prick test

 

[GossWhore]

I don't understand why Jesy acts like having a therapist in the room was the worst thing in the world.

A thrapist can keep the conversation safe, prevent blame, help everyone express what they’re feeling without blame.

They probably were angry, but didn't want that to be the centre of the conversation so asked for a mediator

 

[Jennytea]

Christ when somebody said she is wearing her scholl uniform I didn’t notice how bad it was…..it’s giving when your mum got it two sizes too big to last the year.

It’s like she’s always in ‘character’ with the random outfits and the fake tonged curly hair (which she tries to pretend is natural). I wish with all that’s going on she would just be authentic. I’m surprised she’s still trying to play this part.

 

[Jennytea]

These radio interviewers... it's the Kelly Brook thing again!

I don’t even get why they are asking her about someone else’s children? Like wtf is that all about. Ask Jesy about it I don’t get what it’s got to do with an ex band member who she’s no longer close with.

 

[boatofbubbles]

Their TikToks shows they got engaged on their Cornwall trip two weeks ago or before but waited until today to post it…

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Don't want to offended anyone but... this scream council estate teens! ( i was one but never this cringe)

 

[maytoseptember]

Equally, as this is a condition that requires both parents to carry the gene, it's really sensible to have genetic testing done pre-pregnancy. My daughter's friend has just got married and her husband has got cystic fibrosis. They're just going through genetic testing to make sure that she doesn't carry the gene.

The problem is, you don’t know what you don’t know. It’s likely that we all unknowingly carry a gene for some sort of recessive genetic condition. Should we all be getting ourselves a full genetic screen before having a baby?

Not to mention that a large percentage of pregnancies are unplanned, as Jesy’s was IIRC.

It’s not really the same thing as knowing you carry a gene for a particular genetic condition, because you actually live with that condition. Of course in that scenario, the sensible thing is to check that your partner doesn’t carry the gene also.

 

[Jennytea]

This is the video I was talking about the other day. What a dismissive attitude.
The video at the bottom where she mentions Leigh-Anne

She’s completely self involved and thinks she’s the only person whose feelings matter. She has proved it time and time again and that’s why she is always the victim in whatever happens.

 

[Diddikins]

I said the same earlier in the thread. Had a feeling she had ended it but she was quite happy to let people bash him all over the internet for being a crap dad and abandoning them when that clearly wasn't the case. Just awful.

It feeds her victim narrative if she allows people to believe that. “Poor Jesy left to look after her poorly babies all on her own”.

 

[ElaineDublin]

All these X Factor kids feel like the world owes them something because the were on a tv show. They haven’t grafted to get record deals the way many artists would. It leaves them in awkward positions in the music industry, even if they’re super talented there’s a bias against them. Some people don’t make it. Move on or go back to college. They’re all young enough. I’m so bored of all these influencers and Z list celebs getting shows. It’s so lazy. I don’t care what they’re doing, between this attention seeker & borebag Molly Mae.

 

[Jennytea]

Please don’t misunderstand me, I’m of course sure she’s absolutely devastated her babies are so poorly etc but she seems to be revelling in another reason to be in the spotlight. She’s not relatable at all with the full glam and constantly talk about the other girls. She’s her own worst enemy and just can’t keep her gob shut. She must be draining to be around!

I have to agree. I feel like it’s hard to criticise someone who’s had such awful news recently but I just find it so strange how childish she still comes across and how she’s constantly in her full cosplaying get up even with everything that’s going on. Uploading selfies constantly and being obsessed with posing and solo photo ops is just strange to me.

 

[redstraw16]

Some of her fans genuinely think Perrie is shady and selfish for having her wedding in June… because Jesy’s birthday is in June.

I think I’ve seen about 50 footballer weddings so far this month.

 

[Twinkle6]

With what has happened to her babies, you would think that the others might want to bury the hatchet. Sadly it seems like that’s no longer a possibility.’

You would think SHE wouldn’t punt out a documentary talking shit about them considering.
Does she honestly believe she’s not responsible for this

 

[Be More Pacific]

shes getting so much hatred on TikTok on the video that this morning has posted and I just don’t get it. She’s in an absolutely awful situation and people have no grace!

Jesy has a tough decision to make now. Does she continue to share her severely disabled twins on social media, when they can't consent (and possibly make money from them) or hide them away and risk being accused of being ashamed/embarrassed by them?

It's a Harvey Price situation all over again.

I do feel for her.

People on TikTok are just cunts.

 

[July81]

Its like she feels she's allowed to speak, do documentaries but yet the girls are not allowed to speak about it or discuss their feelings on the matter. Perrie was not disrespectful she just explained how she felt which was long overdue. Jesy likes to play the martyr and its embarrassing

 

[Pivot]

Glad he's put a statement out, the comments online since that has been released are awful.

 

[redstraw16]

Of course

When she signed with Off Limits I had a feeling this was coming. Wish her and her babies but the best but she really should just focus on them, and then do a reality show once they’re safely here if she’s set on it, not sure why you’d add to your stress levels when you’re at such a vulnerable and sensitive point.

 

[Sunflower91]

She comes across as the type of person that has really high expectations of the people around her in terms of support. But without the awareness that sometimes people can get frustrated supporting people with mh problems, that sometimes they have to put on their own oxygen mask before being able to support someone else and sometimes people recognise when they are not the best person/ trained psychologists so are unable to help. Just because the others seemed to tolerate and handle life much better doesn’t mean they’re able to always take on her emotional load.