Jesy Nelson #7 same old same old…

[jiggy_girl]

Hate for what??!

She said “I just want to be their mum, not a nurse” and lots of people are criticising her for that. Also lots of people saying she should be doing more to raise awareness and make changes, but she’s just a first time mum doing her best. My heart breaks for her

 

[Dancing_in_the_dark]

I do actually feel for her, this sounds like a pretty hard thing to go through. Like yeah it’s private and don’t get why she needs to be all over the internet with it, but also wouldn’t wish any harm to her or the babies.

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

She just hates the fame so much she’s signed a deal with Amazon Prime for a show

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

I wonder if any of the girls will reach out. I don’t think I’d be able not to regardless of everything that happened

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

I followed them on Twitter. They really have all the stories. Poor Rebecca couldn’t even go to her Nanny’s funeral if I remember correctly.

Olly Murs couldn’t go to his twins wedding and they still don’t speak because of it

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

The part with Madame Tussauds made me remember when Jade went with her family, and her brother “accidentally” stood hiding all of Jesy when they took photos

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

So Crazy . I mean Alexandra Burke did it better like 15 years earlier. Do you remember the introduction videos she did at the start of her solo career. They were along the lines of her saying 'nobody is gonna expect this'.

Do you remember when Alexandra said she brought the term elephant in the room to the uk lol

 

[thequietone]

I feel for her and I feel absolutely awful even thinking this, but it’s just too icky. The setting the camera up to look sad and bewildered. The going on tv to talk about it. The constant updates. Some might say she’s doing it to raise awareness but from we’ve seen of Jesy, I’m skeptical. Can she not just have this scary time in private seeing as she was so desperate for it? It’s all just too orchestrated for me. I just can’t imagine the mindset of going through something like this and wanting to document/monetise it.

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

Verifying Device

I wonder if he just CBA with the hard work that's ahead, so left her as a single parent.

I just don't think they would have split if the twins were in perfect health.

No I don’t believe that about him.
When Jesy was in hospital and they had the issues before the twins were born he was still studying for his degree, running that marathon to raise money. I think he would have gone then if he couldn’t handle it

You could say that perfect health comment about any couple. This would put a strain on the best of relationships

 

[GalaxyGirl70]

It's a very rare condition though. Only 70 babies a year in the UK are born with it. Screening is a huge NHS resource, though I appreciate that if your children have it you would feel angry that it isn't screened for. Even with early intervention, the long term prognosis is very poor.

 

[Tangerine Dream]

Feeling genuinely very sorry for Jesy after seeing the story, it's the most heartbreaking situation. Hope she is being well-supported.

 

[thequietone]

Please don’t misunderstand me, I’m of course sure she’s absolutely devastated her babies are so poorly etc but she seems to be revelling in another reason to be in the spotlight. She’s not relatable at all with the full glam and constantly talk about the other girls. She’s her own worst enemy and just can’t keep her gob shut. She must be draining to be around!

 

[doejane]

It’s the DM.

https://archive.ph/F5Jli

‘So much time has gone by now,’ one associate of Jesy’s tells the Daily Mail. ‘You’d think by now that the other Little Mix girls would be nice to her.

‘It feels like, because there are three of them against one, there is some ganging up going on here. It doesn’t feel right.’

The three of them remain close friends, often gushing over each other in interviews and supporting one another at gigs - but they have certainly made it clear they still have lingering animosity towards Jesy.

Sources tell the Daily Mail that, following Jesy’s exit from the group, there was an ‘obvious PR campaign’ to ensure that the trio emerged on top from the fallout.

In 2021, Leigh-Anne accused her former friend of ‘blackfishing’ [trying to appear black through hair and makeup] in the music video for Jesy’s solo hit Boyz in leaked messages with influencer NoHun.

It blew up into the biggest showbiz scandal of the year, with friends of Leigh-Ann, Perrie, and Jade stirring up a media backlash against Jesy.

‘There’s poor Jesy out on her own; she has always felt like the odd one out and it has been hard for her,’ said the source.

‘With what has happened to her babies, you would think that the others might want to bury the hatchet. Sadly it seems like that’s no longer a possibility.’

This sort of stuff is why I'm never going to hold it against the other girls for speaking out. They were pretty generous about letting Jesy spin the narrative for years, and she's still out here profiting by talking shit about Little Mix; it doesn't shock me that one of the girls finally reached their breaking point with it. Jesy is going to spend the rest of her life hiding behind her children's disabilities and using them to solidify the fact that she is always the victim in every situation ever, and that makes me so sad for her little ones.

 

[milk-no-sugar]

I think it’s disgusting that the other LM girls haven’t offered their support. Regardless of what’s happened, 3/4 of them are mothers themselves!

 

[veevee04]

Didn't like her myself, however wouldn't wish SMA on my worst enemy I understand her campaigning. The diagnosis was delayed until the twins were 6 months old 90 percent of the motor neurones die by 6 months you can't grow them back even with the gene therapy if there was newborn screening her babies might have been able to walk now they are needing Bipap at and NG tube Jesy herself said they might never be able to lift up their own heads they are severely affected by this and it's both babies. Just awful the sooner they do the newborn screening the better.

 

[youwhatdahlinn]

While I genuinely wish Jesy and the babies the best, it’s worth noting that she previously expressed a strong desire for privacy, even dedicating an entire BBC3 documentary to the pressures of public scrutiny..

Now it feels like she’s trying to put herself on the same level as the other Little Mix mums, probably hoping for some opportunities to get back in the spotlight once the babies arrive. But let’s be honest her popularity isn’t what it used to be.

I get that she might want to connect with other parents going through the same thing, but a quick Google search shows plenty of TTTS support groups. There’s really no need for the constant updates. Also, why is her boyfriend staring directly into the camera like that? It’s giving performance.

 

[GalaxyGirl70]

People don't even really remember Little Mix these days. Jesy left 5 years ago and the rest stopped just 2 years later. Time moves on, it's not like they were Abba.

 

[Jennytea]

Only just remembered Zion is almost a decade younger than Jesy. It’s likely he isn’t mature enough to deal with everything and also be a good partner (judging by what we‘ve seen). It realistically was a fling that ended up resulting in a pregnancy. He’s young and it’s evidenced by the way he behaves online. It must be such a shock for both of them. I hope the babies just get a lot of love from them both even if they aren’t together.

 

[NowIsGood]

Maternity ward... Are you ready?!!

She will be absolutely loving all this attention, but I think it's going to be a massive shock for her when she actually has 2 babies to care for (let's face it he isn't going to hang around)

 

[Jennytea]

yea I think a lot of people have just jumped to the conclusion that he’s a dead beat because they broke up not long after she announced the twins condition

Def think there’s a lot of assumptions and I didn’t get bad vibes at all from him after watching the documentary either.. Jesy is the only one who makes me raise my eyebrows but it’s like no one is allowed to say anything about her now and she’s seemed to have gotten a pass for all her bad behaviour because of the circumstance she’s now in.