Jess Redden

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I guess when you are an influencer you open yourself up to scrutiny... unfortunately when you do not know anyone it’s the only thing people comment on.. and then when you are selling products clothes etc... it’s going to happen...
 
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And I’m sure she’s a lovely person and daughter and fiancée etc, but she needs to understand her behaviour has consequences and she’s very influential! Just in case that doesn’t come across. You can be lovely and still be damaging in your behaviour I suppose is my point.
 
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I think exercise seems to be her coping strategy. Some people use drink, drugs or food. For Jess it looks like exercise.
She was skin and bone before her father died it has nothing to do with grief
It's the dishonesty I can't beat she's blaming it on her father's passing
Her ED was around long before that
 
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She was skin and bone before her father died it has nothing to do with grief
It's the dishonesty I can't beat she's blaming it on her father's passing
Her ED was around long before that
Its maybe not just about her father though. She said herself she gets very stressed during exams for her finals and things like that. All I’m saying is it’s maybe something she uses to cope, not need to come through the phone at me.
 
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I’m beginning to think that she mentions the weight loss because she quite enjoys it… in the way any anorexic person does.

As previous posters have said, her acknowledging her low weight doesn’t mean anything if she continues to glorify it by posting images like those of the last few days.
 

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I think she should definitely keep the exercise/gym and food off her Instagram totally. She is contradicting herself all the time, saying about her low weight but then showing her exercise routines the following day 🙈 I think it would help her if she kept these topics off Instagram altogether. I suspect she gets loads of praise from randoms via insta messages saying how well she looks doing her exercise routines and it’s just fuelling the fire even more 🙈
 
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I’m beginning to think that she mentions the weight loss because she quite enjoys it… in the way any anorexic person does.

As previous posters have said, her acknowledging her low weight doesn’t mean anything if she continues to glorify it by posting images like those of the last few days.
That picture is actually shocking 😳
I agree, I think she likes the attention/validation and because of her grief, I feel like no one is intervening and saying anything but that is just beyond. I'm actually horrified at the picture, her arm for christ sake she's skinnier than ever 😯
 
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I remember reading an article about a girl who previously suffered from an eating disorder and she said there was no greater compliment than being told you are “too skinny” . By people telling her she was too skinny she felt she was achieving something others couldn’t and that people were secretly jealous.
 
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I loved her in Australia and she took ownership of her issue but she's really leaning in to the eating disorder now. I wonder why going home has made her regress.
 
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I dont understand all the food photos ? Is it been eaten or just for instagram.
I couldnt eat all that in a week even if i tried. Is it not worse for her taking photos of it and putting it on instagram ? Baffles me
 
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I dont understand all the food photos ? Is it been eaten or just for instagram.
I couldnt eat all that in a week even if i tried. Is it not worse for her taking photos of it and putting it on instagram ? Baffles me
It’s all for the gram. It’s like she is trying to convince people she eats it but it’s obvious she doesn’t. I think she shouldn’t post food at all. For someone who is supposedly intelligent and loves lecturing the masses she is clueless about responsible online content
 
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Can’t put my finger on this but I do agree with the other posters that she seems a bit obsessed with posting the food pics and almost trying to convince people that she eats lots of food - saying she’s aware she’s very thin and has had issues in the past with over exercising, etc…then posting all the workouts which is strange to me. I really think to retain a physique as thin as hers you have to be cutting out a fair bit of food or even food groups. And exercising a lot. It’s not a high metabolism she just has keeping her skinny.
I had a friend with a terrible eating disorder and she would make a massive deal of eating and “look I’m eating this!”…. I’d be afraid Jess could trigger someone vulnerable. And the closeup shots of her crotch and inverted belly aren’t a good look but that’s just my opinion. I preferred her in Australia, she seemed a bit healthier looking. ❤
 
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