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adventureisoutthere

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Tbh you'd think she'd have 5 minutes to update her followers, assuming all is ok. Or yet again is it for engagement?
If she has had her baby, I think she has full permission to spend all of her minutes not on social alerting random people online. She may have a tough birth, she may be in her baby bubble, she may be exhausted or loving life. Either way, I think post baby silence is allowed.

She loves the attention of sharing her life, if she could she would share right away. Plus after losing her first, she’s even more entitled to wait before sharing.
 
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I think her vlog was really good at showing the reality of a newborn: so many people just show the highlights (naturally) when for most people it’s 90% hard time and 10% magical. I had a baby in January so her vlog was so relatable to our experience in that first month
 
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Asiangirl19

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As another mum who has lost her first born, I really feel for Jazz with the comments in here. All of this is another first but in a different manner. Just because she has birthed a baby before doesnt make it her only first, this is the first baby she is taking home in a car seat. I also didn't take my baby home in a car seat but when I took my second home in a car seat that was my first. Her first birth which resulted in a healthy baby. Why do we feel the need to judge just because we don't see it as a first, she does and that's her way of coping. Stop with the making her feel guilty. How awful would you feel if you lost a baby and was constantly judged as to if u remembered them or not. Of course she remembers him. She's a mum. When someone asks me how many children I have I have to say one because it's too hard talking about my loss that doesn't mean I forgot my first child. So yes she put first because she doesnt want the questions. You dont no what shesbfeeling on a day to day basis. Leave the girl alone. It's hard enough without facing comments like these.
This - why do people have to comment on her grief or loss. It’s up to her how she feels comfortable addressing it 🤔
 
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Readuwroteu

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I think the issue those of us have with the situation is the usage of the word "first" every time. Does she need to bring up the loss? No, of course not. But titling a video "Shopping for baby!" instead of "First time baby shopping!" is the perfect way to acknowledge to those that know about the loss without opening it up for questions to those that don't.

You can keep things private without just straight up lying.
 
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anything at all

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I do find it odd too!

They don’t even have to mention their first pregnancy but surely anyone that watched her then is still watching now and must find it odd too?
It just feels like they’re acting like they’re new to everything ?
 
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anything at all

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Really? Surely that’s not normal
I’ve not done that for either of my boys, I’ll squish something between my fingers if I’m worried but I’m not gonna chew something and spit it back out for them. They’re not baby birds 🤣
 
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Nat11

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Yeah I really think at the end of the day even though she has put her life online etc, she shared her first pregnancy so obviously had to address what had happened. I thought at first it was strange how she deleted all the pics and videos, however I kind of it get it now. I can understand not wanting to focus on that and just focus on her current pregnancy at the time. Completely up to her how she chooses to deal with it. Iv never been through that so who am I to judge. So happy to see her and nick have a lovely healthy boy now. I do think they will be good parents
 
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Wills315

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I like Jazzy and her baby is gorgeous but I really thought she would have more sense and not post bathtime pictures online. A massive No no in this day and age.
 
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FlipFlop0706

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There’s no way she’d go quiet and then come back with an ovulation test if she wasn’t pregnant especially after the sad loss she had. Lovely news for them both.
 
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em884

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He is absolutely gorgeous and looks so tiny 😍 I think she looked incredible all the way through her labour!

Cuddling my 1 year old right now repeating to myself 'you don't need another baby yet' 🤣
 
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FlipFlop0706

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Watched it this morning and cannot praise her enough for sharing what is no doubt one of the most horrendous moments of her life. Seeing their excitement broke me.

Heartbreaking.

I hope they are both getting all the support they need to get through this and wish them all the best going forward ♥
 
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alwaysconsistant21

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So birth vlog is live…

I have thoughts, there is no way she went through any of this to deliver her ‘first son’ & we don’t need to know. Jaz & the baby need their dignity kept.

She didn’t get the birth she wanted, but I did shed a tear, birth is not easy & she might have been whiney but that is understandable & her baby was born healthy and that is all that matters. We will be given more details when she’s ready to tell us..

Lastly, I had a feeling they knew the gender but kept it to themselves, rightly so. Having another boy may and probably will have brought up some trauma.

Last lastly, he’s beautiful.
 
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pecan

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I wonder if the video / ig post were still getting comments and she was being frequently reminded. Obviously it’s not something she’s going to forget, it’s absolutely heartbreaking. It just makes me wonder if she didn’t feel it was healthy to have it at the forefront of her mind all the time while she is healing and moving forward, especially if they are trying again or have conceived. I imagine she would want to aim for a positive headspace as much as she can. It’s such a painful and personal thing, she could have been advised by a therapist or anything. We’ll never really know. Maybe she simply changed her mind and felt it was too private / raw to leave online despite wanting to help others.

I do hope they will have a family if it’s still their intention. I don’t watch her content much these days but she’s harmless and deserves to be happy. They seem like a well matched, loving couple in their interactions we’ve seen.
 
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Hagrid20121993

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Her latest vlog, cancelling a colour analysis session because she couldn't film it.
Not everything has to be on camera, I'd hate to live my life that way!
 
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I’m glad she posted the video, I really respected her saying that she didn’t want to just pretend none of it had happened.

that baby was clearly so wanted and so loved, broke my heart watching it.
 
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spongey

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Sorry to be that guy (actually I'm not...), but what does she do with all those Halloween costumes?! It's just so ridiculously wasteful. Do they just get worn once then thrown away? She seems to get a new batch of 7 or 8 costumes each year, purely just for a mildly amusing video.

It's 2021, surely it's about time influencers started taking responsibility and addressing what happens to their purchases. It might make them think twice and maybe prevent young impressionable viewers from being wasteful too. One of the costumes was literally a suit made out of bubble wrap, I mean come on 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I think Jazz is great, and she is by no means the worst offender, but I just feel let down by that costume video and the lack of awareness of what is going on in the world.
 
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Life88

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I know everyone heals differently but I am curious about them going down the route of acting like it's her first pregnancy.
Even with the ovulation tests and asking people questions about it, she did 6 months of ovulation tests before and multiple pregnancy tests, same as Nick asking what the positive test looked like and Jazz talking/asking about symptoms and everything as if it's her first pregnancy. Don't get me wrong, they don't have to mention the other pregnancy, of course not, it was more the acting like it's her first pregnancy and has no idea what is going on 🤔
I agree it very odd. It's like she's pretending it never happened.
 
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cushtybert

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She harmless but always has and will always probably be a drama queen. Where most people just get on with things she has to repeat what she’s doing countless times then says she’s nervous and then over the top dramatics. Good luck Nick 😂😂
 
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