Will we be able to see how much she has withdrawn? Would the total amount raised drop?
No, they may have the whole lot withdrawn already and we won't see no numbers changing.
And the updates are annoying the hell out of me
working with go fund to withdraw,
You don't have work with anyone, you literally press a button and it lands in the bank account they have linked. Seconds the same as if was 2 bank accounts,
If they working with go fund me they keep saying is true it means go fund me are holding it which means they suspect fake/fraud or whatever.
But once you set up a go fund me you link it to the beneficiarys bank account and every donation can be withdrawn as it lands in go fund. You can set it that it withdraws to your bank at end of everyday without you doing a thing.
Or you can take manually.
You never have to work with go fund after setting up and verifying identity unless something is wrong.
From someone who uses go fund within work I know this as fact not Chinese whispers.