Jason Arday

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It's the calling the police on a journalist for me...when apparently allegedy worse stuff happened to him that he didn't report. From the information I've seen/heard this week it sounds like he is a pathological liar whose 'achievements' were useful PR for Cambridge, etc. He's stolen a space from a person who could be a wonderful academic (of any race and background). He's committed fraud but I imagine he'll be allowed to hide and resign and let time make us forget, rather than be charged for lies and wasting police time. And I think he's probably such a fantacist that he won't understand what he's actually done wrong.
 
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Plus apparently he was a poor supervisor of students (from the latest Telegraph article). Quelle surprise!View attachment 4080245
So there were plenty of opportunities for him to be pulled up on his inadequate support of students and nothing was done. Hmmmm. Those students pay so much to get tuition and Cambridge have let them down.
 
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A primary school classmate speaks out

How come none of his classmates or anyone from his primary school have come out before this? I remember when he was on This Morning and it gave so many parents of non verbal autistic kids hope. What a crappy thing to lie about.
 
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I still wonder about the diagnoses he claims he received at age 3 (autism and GDD?), followed by 3-6 hours a day of speech therapy 6 days a week. That seems a little unlikely for the late 1980’s. And I don’t think there’s ever been that level of speech therapy support available on the NHS.
This is fundamental to his whole “story” so I imagine there must be a nugget of truth in there somewhere - but you have to wonder.
I've never heard of a child receiving any kind of specific therapeutic intervention (music, play, speech, art) for longer than one hour a day. And that area is my job. Its like saying you went to counselling/therapy from 9-5 every day. Even intense speech therapy for post stroke patients isn't offered at that level, and if it was, it wouldn't be clinically effective.
 
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It's the calling the police on a journalist for me...when apparently allegedy worse stuff happened to him that he didn't report. From the information I've seen/heard this week it sounds like he is a pathological liar whose 'achievements' were useful PR for Cambridge, etc. He's stolen a space from a person who could be a wonderful academic (of any race and background). He's committed fraud but I imagine he'll be allowed to hide and resign and let time make us forget, rather than be charged for lies and wasting police time. And I think he's probably such a fantacist that he won't understand what he's actually done wrong.
He had no problem with a masked knife-wielding madman running around... but he draws the line at checking his lies.
 
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How come none of his classmates or anyone from his primary school have come out before this? I remember when he was on This Morning and it gave so many parents of non verbal autistic kids hope. What a crappy thing to lie about.
Maybe they hadn’t heard what he’d been up to, maybe they didn’t realise how bad it was, maybe they didn’t want to be piled on, maybe they know he’s a vindictive a, maybe they did but nobody listened.

The Salt Path was the same. The boss with cancer she stole 90k from and only returned in exchange for an NDA had died soon after. His wife said “I’ve been waiting for this call” when the journalist got in touch. She didn’t know if she was allowed to speak up. Estranged family members called the publishers, nobody wanted to know.
 
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Chatty Patty 🤣🤣 also top marks for teeth sucking

Also who was going to listen to some random he went to primary school with when this was all confined to academia? I’ve seen people I went to school with who have become successful exaggerate their back stories (not to this extent) and who am I going to tell? A couple of mates. I’m not going to call a journalist. They wouldn’t care.

But now journalists are interested. And I bet they’re crawling all over Clapham and that school he taught at in Richmond trying to discredit even more of the back story.
 
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Maybe things went full circle - the man with the knife was one of the people who beat up the young Jason and turned their life around ... they studied hard ... earned a ton of qualifications ... they applied for the same position as him ... and got turned down because their story wasn't as fantastical as his.
 
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His schoolmate has several valid points. If you're doing tit like this, you're not looking to hype up your area and old schoolmates. You move quietly and away from people who have always had your number.

I mean before it blew up the way it did, I'd never heard of him either and I read the Guardian daily. My neurodivergence is new, to me, so I'm not keyed into who has what and how from years ago. No kids to see this guy as a beacon of hope (infuriated for those affected). Not in academia and so on.

The focus has been amplified thus shining a massive light on his lies and falsehoods. So I fully appreciate and understand the tiktok guy laughing. Not only was Arday not mute, he was singing. What a miraculous transformation.
 
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A primary school classmate speaks out

Chatty Patty 🤣🤣 also top marks for teeth sucking

Also who was going to listen to some random he went to primary school with when this was all confined to academia? I’ve seen people I went to school with who have become successful exaggerate their back stories (not to this extent) and who am I going to tell? A couple of mates. I’m not going to call a journalist. They wouldn’t care.

But now journalists are interested. And I bet they’re crawling all over Clapham and that school he taught at in Richmond trying to discredit even more of the back story.

Yeah, I think now that this has hit the mainstream media a) journalists are going to be all over every single person who was ever within 10 feet of him, & b) there's a market/audience for these stories now. As you say, when this was all sniping amongst snooty academics, who was going to be interested in a story about a professor very few people have heard of whose stories about primary school don't quite pan out?
 
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Maybe things went full circle - the man with the knife was one of the people who beat up the young Jason and turned their life around ... they studied hard ... earned a ton of qualifications ... they applied for the same position as him ... and got turned down because their story wasn't as fantastical as his.
If Arday had thought of that particular twist, it would definitely have made it into the book! :D
 
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Another TikTok from that same guy

This has the ring of truth, and it was inevitable that of course his back story is a complete lie. More will come out, and this fella is right about making it harder for other folks from the same background to succeed. Awaiting the weekend media with maybe a few grainy videos of him singing or whatever.
 
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Awaiting the weekend media with maybe a few grainy videos of him singing or whatever.
That wouldn't be at all surprising at this point.

I was mostly non-verbal until I was about 3 (I very vaguely remember it) although my family joke I've not shut up since. My understanding (I don't claim to be an expert, obviously) is that much after like 5 the odds of someone just randomly starting to talk are quite low.
 
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I think these people genuinely don’t think of the future, in that one day what they say may be questioned..I think they just say the first thing that comes out their mouth to make themselves look good and for attention
 
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