Agreed-that podcast about the drug ban was really good and changed my assumption of him that he was just a knob,the whole thing must have been really hard on him. But like you say,my opinion has changed now with the fair points podcast even though I did enjoy them all in the first few eps.Same with Sonny. To be fair I only know of him through James but Sonny did two podcasts with James about his drug ban. Came across pretty well, mature for his age and I felt bad for him because he spent so much trying to fight the ban etc. Then he comes along and says stuff like he would sleep with a woman and then dump her if she didn't wear matching underwearI swear SM and the Fair Points podcast brings out the kid in them.
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I swear that Instagram knows the influencers that piss me off and decide to have their reels at the top of my explore page-first Callie Thorpe and now bloody Felicity 
What is ‘SM’?Same with Sonny. To be fair I only know of him through James but Sonny did two podcasts with James about his drug ban. Came across pretty well, mature for his age and I felt bad for him because he spent so much trying to fight the ban etc. Then he comes along and says stuff like he would sleep with a woman and then dump her if she didn't wear matching underwear
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Ah I thought ferris seemed quite sweet from what I’ve seen, I’ve only watched the first podcast and found it interesting as they all seem to have been friends before James fame so assumed the ones he lives with etc aren’t hangers on. I do find sonny a bit boring on the podcast though and had to fast forward him a bit!
Nobody tell Jayde, he’ll get ideas.... 
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I think Sonny is adorable.
I follow him too and he comes across as a lot calmer than the others, doesn't need to try as hard. Seems a decent guy to me and we probably share the same humour as he makes me laugh. Jayde is an absolute tool but I don't know enough about Ferris to comment. Seems ok.
He said if a woman burped or farted in front of him even in a long term relationship he would dump them. Same as “no excuse for mismatched underwear”I think Sonny is adorable.
He’s a tool lol
It's an incredibly sexist view, like women should conform to a certain standard. I don't know much about Sonny, but as soon as I saw that comment, my immediate thought was that this guy must think he's God's gift.
Imagine the pressure you put on a partner, but forcing them to wear matching underwear, it's honestly ridiculous, makes me irrationally angry.
I don't think i know anyone who would wear matching underwear...I don't even think i own matching underwear.
A few weeks ago he had to shave his legs for a video or something. Said how much hassle it was and he didn't know how women did it. If he expects matching underwear then he almost certainly expects women to be hairless from the shoulders down
oh to be a man these days.
You can tell he is a really unhappy, insecure guy that just comes across as a bleep. Think he needs to work out what he is doing as he is some bullshit “growth coach” or whatever it is, but has the most off putting social media/advertising ever. Last person I think anyone would want advice from
wonder if there is a rich mummy and daddy behind him...Another coach I follow on Instagram said the other day that James Smith reminds him of the kind of man that still hangs outside of the college (might have said uni) gates with a backwards cap on, desperately trying to hold onto his fleeting carefree youth 
He reminds me of a mate I knew 20+ years ago at uni, who had failed his first year so was working in a call centre for a year before doing resits.Another coach I follow on Instagram said the other day that James Smith reminds him of the kind of man that still hangs outside of the college (might have said uni) gates with a backwards cap on, desperately trying to hold onto his fleeting carefree youth
Because he had a posh accent, all his workmates thought he was so clever and would tell us this constantly when we socialised with them. I think he started to believe this more and more, and would sometimes talk down to us, even though we weren't the one who had failed the year and been kicked off off our course.
He still lived the uni social scene with the rest of us, but tried to give it the big I am as he had more disposal cash than the rest of us. He was also from an affluent background so had a much more relaxed view about money and his future as he had a safety net of his parents.
He wants a fit, white, blonde girl who will put up with his terms and conditions.
She wants someone fit who she can cling on to for followers.
They aren't that different, in that respect...
I would take the term ‘couple’ very loosely with those two
Probably just says that for his family
although....he seemed pretty serious about Ramadan.I know a lot of people who adamantly don’t drink but do take drugs. He could be one of those especially with James pushing the “soul enlightening“ DMT - it may appeal to his religious outlook or upbringing, like transcending levels or something (I don’t know enough about it only what James said on the podcast) and it seems like if the rest of them seem to be on it he is either monumentally strong or may be peer pressured.
He seems like he has a good head on him though and I know a lot of totally sober people who are the life of the party and do bring themselves up to a party level when others are partying, but without the messiness.
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He said in a podcast once that if his mates are drunk he mirrors their behaviour to fit in
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