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i feel its more gloating on carys side. i think elle is just being honest. carys is just trying to one up or seem betterHow funny is it that Amber is magically sleeping through just after Elle announces that Saint is now waking in the nightHaha those two are ultimate frenemies!
This is EXACTLY my point. Two people could eat the EXACT same food, both non smokers, both teetotal, both exercise the same amount and yet one could be bigger than the other. This is because despite what diet culture and other misinformation is sprouted in the world, your size is NOT 100% determined by what you do or do not do. 70% of your weight is determined by GENTIC factors!
Everybody is out here pretending theyâre not fatphobic and saying âoh but if you just eat better and exercise a bit more youâll be a size that society approves ofâ
But itâs not at simple as that as to suggest otherwise is completely ignorant and problematic.
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I'd love to see some sort of study or proof of somebody eating healthy food within their calorie limit and regularly exercising and being seriously overweight. I just don't believe that's possible.
Who decides what the calorie limit is for each person? What is the scientific definition of âseriously overweightâ?
At no point have I said if you ear better and exercise youâll be the size that society of approves of. However, for the MAJORITY of people if they eat a better diet and exercise they will lose SOME weight. Itâs calories in vs calories out.
Nobody here is saying that everyone should be the same size. Nobody is saying itâs bad to be be a bigger than average. It is without a shadow of a doubt irresponsible to promote sitting on your bum all day and eating mukbangs full of junk food but itâs ok cos we are body positive.
Body positivity is a good thing. But so is exercise and eating healthy. If you genuinely do all those things and you are still morbidly obese thereâs probably another health issue at play.
Again size is not 100percent A direct result of what is eaten and how much you move. But you canât deny Itâs a large part of it. The majority of people who are obese and morbidly obese have a bad diet and donât exercise enough. It doesnât make them bad people. Itâs just a fact of science.
Calorie limit for each person if youâre talking in terms of how much you âgenerally needâ is based on expenditure. If you donât want to gain tonnes of weight you need to be eating the amount thatâs right for what your body is burning off. Of course everyone needs different but if you just look at the RDA for men and women and stay around there you wouldnât go far wrong.
I think this thread has been derailed.
Back to weaning time?!
Back to weaning time?!
Itâs not weaning time right now itâs just awake
Time. No doubt when Amber is walking it will be active time
and when sheâs potty training it will be potty time I canât wait till Amber drops naps and âsleep timeâ is lessItâs not weaning time right now itâs just awake
Time. No doubt when Amber is walking it will be active time
This is not true at all. Yes studies showed that if you and your family is obese you have a higher potency to have proopimelanocortin receptor, leptin or leptin receptor mutation which cause leptin resistency and cant regulate your apetite the way you should but this is on its own will not make you overweight, it just makes easier to eat way more and gain weight for you. But if this is the case it is shoild be affect you from your childhood, not from your twenties. So maybe there are factors which can be hereditary with a healthy balanced diet and lifestyle on its own wont make you fat. There are some cases when you are right and its determined in your chromosome and you can say thats genetic but that syndromes are not that common and I think no one of us speaking about them like Prader-Willi or Bardet-Biedl syndrome for example. And in those cases when there are no chromosomal syndrome and it "seems like" the weight is determined by genetics because mom and dad also obese usually the main causes are the lifestyle they live and their eating habits.
Stop including EVERYONE when it was one persons comment/opinion and get yourself a camomile tea to calm down.
Maybe start a general thread on weight and diet in advice to stop this going offtopic?
Hey guys I'm new here but just wanted to let you know I've just finished my weaning time, going to pick my kids up from their awake time at school and probably see some mum friends there, then get my mum uniform on and go to my mum job! Can't wait to put my hair in a mum bun and stick my mum pyjamas on ready for sleep time!
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But whatever the problem is, Carys has just gotten fatter and lazy. I started following her for the fitness. But I dont like the way this 'trend' is going on, where its ok to be overweight and happy, because later on in life, you will not be happy when you are getting ill. I have it first hand with my sister and family. But its Carys and James who are are focusing on, nobody else here. They just piggies, when they wasnt. Simples heh
She such a f**king lying piece of s**t and I messed her saying the same I thought amber slept through the night as she said she was an amazing sleeper and now she admits she wasnât. Just like with her weight she said she loved being that weight and lifestyle but now sheâs says it was a very unhealthy relationship she had with her body I guarantee you that in a few years she would admit that she had PPD and had bonding issues with amber.
I wish sheâd just shut the duck up to be honest I hate that every paragraph is like âdonât worry, dont be hard on yourself if your child isnât doing this or thatâ who does she think she is 
I hate that every paragraph is like âdonât worry, dont be hard on yourself if your child isnât doing this or thatâ who does she think she is 
At the end of the day, why does anyone else actually care if Amber sleeps through the night or not?
She's so self serving and insensitive to other mums. Imagine opening Instagram and reading that post after getting a grand total of 2 hours of sleep with your baby.
Carys love, go DIY yourself some bleeping compassion.
She's so self serving and insensitive to other mums. Imagine opening Instagram and reading that post after getting a grand total of 2 hours of sleep with your baby.
Carys love, go DIY yourself some bleeping compassion.
So them uploading 3/4 times a week just means their usual hour long weekly vlog split into 3 vlogs?
3 ridiciously long vlog.. who hate their own life as much as they have 3 hours/week to watch their boring life?So them uploading 3/4 times a week just means their usual hour long weekly vlog split into 3 vlogs?
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