This is a comment from reddit thatI found very interesting about JJ
"Iām in a Bravo FB group and someone that is friends with James Blake (her bf) has horrific stories of Jameelaās emotional abuse and gaslighting of James. Iāll never look at her kindly.
*edit* some of her comments:
For example: just googled if she and James Blake were still dating, and the first article that popped up was about how their ārelationship is filled with so much mutual supportā... yāall, she is so withholding with him that he *genuinely* believes he *canāt digest food* if sheās not around him. She has him so twisted, itās actually sad.
She constantly accuses him of cheating when heās on tour, and will withhold all physical affection from him when he returns, until he ādetoxesā from all the things he did while he was away from her (food he ate, things he touched, etc.)
i want to believe her activism is genuine, but I also know she engages in negative self-talk about her own body, and makes unnecessary comments about othersā bodies all the time. I get itās hard to love yourself *all* the time, but at least *try* to practice what you preach, ya know?
One that comes to mind was an interview - with Seth Meyers, I think - where she talked about getting ready to audition for The Good Place, and how she accidentally grabbed a vibrator instead of a curling iron because sheād never curled her own hair. The only part of that story thatās true is that sheās never had to curl her own hair... she didnāt even have to audition for that show. They wrote the character for her. Itās based ON HER. Like, how terrible her character is, is based on her"