I really enjoyed reading that discussion by
@colouredlines and others. For me, the Patreon stuff was never the thing that really pissed me off about JM. It’s the epic scale gaslighting of her audience: her followers are required to believe and accept a whole host of utterly contradictory things about her, and never question her, only give her adoration and encouragement. Her deliberate use of triggers around things like SA and self harm, purely to get attention or get critics off her back, are unforgivable too.
These are tactics used by abusers and maybe it triggers me for that reason. She absolutely knows what she’s doing.
As a child of the pre internet age, the 80s and 90s when the tabloids and TV delighted in punching up, I have a real problem with the idea that there are certain public figures or sacred castes that must be universally adored and can never be questioned because bigotry/bullying. It’s crazy-making, suffocates the capacity for critical thought and is totally against the UK’s rich history of protecting democracy through the use of satire and mockery of the arrogant. (We have been doing this since Chaucer, and probably before.)
It’s ok to point out that the emperor has no clothes and to point and laugh at his spotty arse.
Sometimes these threads focus on subjects I don’t like or don’t feel comfortable discussing so I just sit them out. I mean, we’re on thread 400 and something, it’s a bit late to decide that certain things are off limits
I think we’re a lot more polite and measured than some of the other stuff on here.
I didn’t crow about Jack dropping out of the Cardiff gig, but I absolutely had a problem with the idea that she was speaking on the subject in the first place. It’s like when Scotland briefly had a male menstruation officer…stick to your own wheelhouse mate.