Personally the toilet issue isn't what bothers me the most. What bothers me is the right to be seen as the exact same as women, new words like cis female, essentially denoting women to subcategories of their own gender, the insistence that trans women are the exact same as women. They're not. We cant even say that women have periods now as women has become a word that doesn't belong to us women anymore.YES i would feel safe, there is no reason to feel threatened, tell me what could possibly happen? chances are you probably have already used a female toilet which a trans person has used as well and you didn’t even notice, people already judge them a lot for unfortunately being born in the wrong body and now they can’t even use their toilet because their body doesn’t match? (pretending a female born with a male body) that persons mentality is of the gender they truly are so i think the chances of your privacy being destroyed? is very low. Your telling me the safety of a toilet is based on the people who go in there? There are past criminals who have probably used a public toilet same time as you, should we ban all criminals and send them to a different toilet because perhaps they can’t be trusted? No.
In relation to the bathroom issue also, not all trans people experience gender dysphoria. As mentioned here, there are men who fetishise being a woman and they're insisting they be allowed into our private spaces.