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Libertine1975

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I mainly agree but remember Allen hasn't been convicted of any crime (unlike Polanski). Allegations have been made against him but not proved. I'm not saying that he hasn't done anything questionable but the world should not be a kangaroo court for people outside of the law to decide who is guilty or not.
The Dylan Farrow allegations he has not been convicted of and whilst technically not illegal the way his relationship with his current wife started was messed up. He and Mia Farrow had been in a relationship for years and had a child together and he still had an affair with her adopted daughter. It doesn't matter if he didn't raise her she is legally his son's sister.
 
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gukkies

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Someone has convinced you that your womanhood and women’s spaces are in jeopardy because 1% of the popular have the right to live how they please, with the dignity and respect everyone else receives.
Such a crazy concept that people should be afforded the right to live in a way that makes them happy and doesn't actively harm anyone else in the meantime, right? The hatred spewed on this particular forum is part of the reason why almost HALF! of young trans people in the UK attempt suicide.
Excuse me but you're talking absolute crap like most of the people spouting this vile and hateful nonsense.

In no way are trans people erasing gay and lesbian people that's hilarious. It's not a competition!! I'm pretty certain most LGBT people stand united they certainly wouldn't side with your outdated and small-minded views.

I feel sorry for some of the people on here. I hope you get well soon. The confusion and fixation on trans people is bizarre to me.

Trans people are literally just trying to get on with their lives they aren't trying to attack or take over anything. These are the same narratives that supposed "feminists" use time and time again.

Transpeople will not be erased, they have always existed and their voices will be heard.

This thread reeks of white supremacy and entitlement.
They think they speak for all LGBTQ+ people when they do not. This community is meant to be inclusive, and this is coming from a lesbian who is often erased in the community. However, that won't stop me from fully supporting the trans community and making sure they know they belong, and that they aren't invalidated or erased by rotten souls like this.
 
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Platypusfattypus

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On rare occasions you get hermaphrodites. It is rare and has nothing to do with gender dysphoria.

Why? How can you possibly be ok with men and women wanting to disfigure their healthy bodies? It is mental illness to want to be castrated or to have your breasts removed.

Many trans people have severe mental illnesses. Why shouldn't this be talked about?

As someone who has struggled with eating disorders it is not ok to sit back and indulge it or encourage me to not eat. It's also fucked up to say it's not a mental illness simply so it doesn't offend me...jeez
Quite the massive leap there to eating disorders which are classified as a mental illness which have nothing to do with my post.

Many trans people have mental illnesses as a result of their gender dysphoria and feeling unable to get access to a body they feel happy with.

Read about turner's syndrome, triple x, kilnefelter etc. Rare doesn't mean it doesn't exist. And these have nothing to do with gender dysphoria. I was simply showing that biological sex isn't binary.
 
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Alfies_Boy

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My son is trans (FTM) and thankfully we've not really had any huge hiccups in terms of his acceptance. His friends are great, our family are great. His bio dad... not so great, but he's not in his life anyway. He finds it hard that there are some 'activists' out there that ARE taking it too far. He couldn't give a rats ass about a lot of the issues being brought up by these people. The phrase 'women menstrate' doesn't bother HIM but he says he knows others that it does bother. but he thinks there's bigger fish to try.

Anyway re: the bathrooms. He looks like a boy, but he does opt for unisex bathrooms if there is one. If not, he will go to the women's bathroom because he worries what people would say if he uses the mens. Personally I don't think anyone would even notice but it's his choice. He'll go in the mens if he's with his brothers but otherwise he goes in the female. It doesn't bother him that much right now if he really needs the bathroom, but he usually tries to avoid going in public to save the hassle of trying to decide. Does he go into the male and risk people calling him out for not being a cismale? Or does he go into the female and risk being called a boy?

I think unisex bathrooms are a useful solution for that dilemma (alongside a female/male bathroom, not instead of) but I also don't really personally see the issue with letting transwomen use female bathrooms, and vice versa. But obviously I have factors that could make that opinion biased.
You are such a lovely mum and your children are lucky to have you. Fantastic woman.
 
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boredjess

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I love Harry Potter, Rowling? Not really interested in her..

But thinking of books, I've realised Enid Blyton, Roald Dahl are the ones I grew up with.

Wonder if Rowling will ever come up with another good story other than HP related
 
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FamHam

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Yeah I loved harry potter, it's just a shame she has become a role model and she could be spending her time being far more productive.

I've got no time for her faux feminism or her trying to tell people how woke she is.

So many people should just give up twitter and do other things instead.
 
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ShowMeYourFeline

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To be honest though, I think JKR put him on the spot by drawing attention to him liking her tweet. It would have been better to show her gratitude discreetly via dm.
 
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Oohthedrama

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Surely if your not being transphobic & neither is JK then why be scared to be public with your views.
if you choose to hide your feelings when not on an anonymous forum, maybe you should think about the other point of view
it just makes no sense why,
with everything going on right now, and so many people hurting, she felt it necessary to drag this argument/conversation onto a public platform, with such a large audience, is there not enough going on right now.

as the author of the most successful series for young adults/kids,
it’s inciting hate. Regardless of where you stand on the topic.

what does she gain from doing it,
my issue isn’t even with the conversation it’s with her, and her desire to be in the public eye for controversy.

Katie Hopkins 2.0
She is one of the dementors she writes about, life sucking.
 
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Sunflower91

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For god's sake that's not what she saying, stop twisting things. She was saying people who menstruate are women, not that all women menstruate.
Implying you can't be a man if you menstruate.
I’ve not twisted anything. I’ve stated what she said and the sentiment of why people are upset. People wanted to know why this was an issue.

This is how her tweet has been understood by 100s of people and rather than clarify her intentions she chose to escalate and toss more fuel to the fire.

And not saying this to escalate with you- I just want to share the side of the trans community - but a trans male could disagree. There are plenty of F to M trans people who still menstruate because of where they are in their journey. They identify as male but are still in a female body. Physically you are correct. But sex and gender identity are two different things.
 
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jewelkitty

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Sure, she can think a certain way, but if she’s creating a hostile environment at work because of her refusal to refer to someone with their preferred pronoun, and it’s against company policy, then the company ultimately have the right to choose not to renew your contract. This is what the judge said:

"It is a core component of her belief that she will refer to a person by the sex she considered appropriate even if it violates their dignity and/or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment," he continued.

So I personally don’t see how somebody can stand with Maya and also have support for the trans community, which JK claims to do. She was deliberately misgendering people and it just seems very cruel.
Thanks for the clarification. I definitely wasn't intending to be misleading. I genuinely had read on news sites that it was because she refused to back down from saying that biological sex is real.
 
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Given the theme of HP and how much of it came from her mother’s death, I can understand not wanting to leave that world. I mean look what she created, it’s beyond any authors wildest wildest dreams.

I loved the first FB film, the second was okay but not as good, felt too long. I loved the play, FWIW. Again, LONG, but really moved me. Mind you, it’s hard to be objective about a series you’ve loved for 20 years!
 
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Handerton

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Horrible author who in many ways ruined children’s fiction for generations to come with her pointless and derivative overblown writing. Plus it’s mega weird she married a bloke who looks like Harry Potter
 
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KateESJ

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An article she chose to retweet with a bitchy comment.
She knows what she’s doing,
She strikes a match, throws it and watches the flames, it’s not the first time she’s done it.

I’m not touching the topic, not my beef, not my chicken not my tofu.
Do what you want and call yourself what you want 🤷‍♀️ None of my business.

I’m talking about her personality and I stand by what i say about her. She’s a bitter woman with a nasty personality
this is what I feel too.

Even if she has that belief the way she said it was just bitchy and she knew exactly what she was doing by saying it. The topic isn't one I fully understand myself so I don't want to give an uneducated opinion on it but the comment was definitely bitchy and unnecessary. It was clearly written just to start something
 
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Bitofthebubbly

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bull shit. (No hate 😂🤣)
We’re in a pandemic with protests happening world wide right now.
she wrote a frigging series about Voldemort and seemed to miss the whole fucking point of her own series.

before it became a primark range.
Ok you have your view I have mine🤷🏻‍♀️
 
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