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Rlaw1978

Rlaw1978

mcfeez said:
I thought it was more, ultimately you can only be responsible for yourself. If a woman doesn't want to get pregnant, she can go on the pill or have an IUD fitted. If a man doesn't want to get someone pregnant, he should wear a condom, regardless of what his partner is telling him. If you definitely don't want children as a man, you can even get the snip.
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I don’t agree with the concept that you shouldn’t trust a long term partner. I can, will and do.
Contraception and children should be a conversation between a couple and a joint decision. For anyone to go behind anyone else’s back is appalling. I don’t believe the majority of people do this- despite what this thread suggests- particularly regarding getting pregnant.
To go into a relationship already having made the decision you can’t trust the other person is a recipe for disaster. Advice should be communicate with each other and don’t be dishonest.
 
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mcfeez

Rlaw1978 said:
I don’t agree with the concept that you shouldn’t trust a long term partner. I can, will and do.
Contraception and children should be a conversation between a couple and a joint decision. For anyone to go behind anyone else’s back is appalling. I don’t believe the majority of people do this- despite what this thread suggests- particularly regarding getting pregnant.
To go into a relationship already having made the decision you can’t trust the other person is a recipe for disaster. Advice should be communicate with each other and don’t be dishonest.
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I agree with you completely, in terms of long term relationships. I completely trust my partner and he trusts me.

I was just pointing out what I thought the intent behind the comment was - on it being good advice. I think it is important to teach younger men to be responsible for their own sexual health and protection early on as ultimately things like STDs do happen and pregnancy can affect both sex partners.
 
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Ruby’s mum

Long before we were married my husband, who was a key holder at work, had to go in one evening to do a security check as the alarms had gone off. I went with him and we ended up having sex on his bosses desk!
 
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Ruby’s mum said:
Long before we were married my husband, who was a key holder at work, had to go in one evening to do a security check as the alarms had gone off. I went with him and we ended up having sex on his bosses desk!
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You were lucky some cleaner didn't walk in on you, mid-act! :LOL:
 
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ChampagneBox

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Ruby’s mum said:
Long before we were married my husband, who was a key holder at work, had to go in one evening to do a security check as the alarms had gone off. I went with him and we ended up having sex on his bosses desk!
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Okay this is the kind of kinky content I’m here for on this thread 🤣👀
 
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She's back

She's back

I fantasise about disgusting grunting old, overweight, sweaty men with tiny wicks 🤢🤣
 
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I swear I am not pebbledash hahaha, my fantasy is just that, not something I would entertain in reality though I am sure miss pebbledash would 🤣
 
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Pinkblush

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Olive40 said:
When I was a little I was having a bath with my brother and I did a poo in the bath, when mum turned back to us I blamed my brother and she believed me and told him off. To this day he remembers and I still deny it. Even at 40 I won’t admit it😂😂😂

Sorry if this one is really triggering.

13 years ago when my children were little and I’d been married for 8 years, I was grape on a night out with friends by a pub landlord. I am certain date grape drug was used. I rarely went out, and didn’t know him.

I got hold of his number from a friend the next day and questioned what he did to me, he tit himself and he quickly told the town we had sex and I consented. To this day I’ve only one flashback of that night, enough to know what he did to me, just one flashback of seconds. . So the whole town thought I was some evil cheat on my husband, I ended up with severe anxiety and PTSD. The reality was only my husband believed me that I was grape and I ended up in years of therapy. My GP said it was grape and urged me to go to the police but I couldn’t face it as everyone seemed to believe his lies. So I couldn’t face telling the world I was grape as I thought no one would believe me. I was the talk of all the gossips at the school gate, no wonder I had severe anxiety leaving my house. My own mother believed the rumours over her own daughter, no wonder I always blamed myself and suffered so much.

Bit of a depressing one but that’s one huge secret I’ve never told anyone other than my husband, Gp and therapist.
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What a monster. I hope he burns in hell when he dies!!!!!! :mad:
 
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