The word that really annoys me (besides panties, ugh) is flavourful, it's flavoursome not flavourful! And healthful instead of healthy. So annoying!
I was wondering if people could help me. Most people here refer to Alice as being a Narc. I'm assuming that is a condition one is born with and not something someone chooses, so if it's a MH issue should we not be making jokes about it? If she's missing an empathy chip does she have any control over that? Is it akin to someone being born without a limb or having BPD or BD? I have the same question in relation to her alleged alcoholism. If she genuinely is an alcoholic, should it be something to be laughed at? I know there is a difference between laughing at, or being mad at, something someone with those problems says or does (eg attacking BW's MS, or bullying IG) so obviously they should be held responsible for their bad behaviour, but if some of that behaviour is caused by something they can't help (as in if it's caused by a condition they're born with) should it be laughed at? If it's a behaviour that can be changed by treatment (medicine or therapy) then AE would need to take responsibility to get help, but as we know a lot of alcoholics often can't/don't get real help until they've hit rock bottom. Any help would be appreciated.