Cacacoisfarraige
Chatty Member
I’m not making apologies for Alice,
I was smart, looked reasonably attractive had a very successful career. I was a pretty terrible housekeeper but paid someone to do all that.
Roll on - late forties, at home due to my kids diagnosis - I’ve realised I have ADHD and perhaps ASD (at least characteristics). Due to lockdown and peri menopause I’ve put on weight and I’m losing some hair. I’m no longer a prize, it’s okay to speak up when you’re reasonably attractive but you need to tone it down when you’re looking rather awful, it’s the aging game.
But it’s no-ones fault, most definitely not my husbands, my kids, random peoples, I’ve just got to suck it up and find a way through and be kind to myself, while focusing on the kids and the supports they need so they’ve not sitting feeling like this in 30+ years.
I love my kids, so I protect them, they’re not mentioned on SM, they’re my life. She is lashing out and hurting her kids, that I can’t forgive. She is so angry, but does she care what she’s doing to them. She just wants to hurt IG and anyone else is just collateral damage,
I was smart, looked reasonably attractive had a very successful career. I was a pretty terrible housekeeper but paid someone to do all that.
Roll on - late forties, at home due to my kids diagnosis - I’ve realised I have ADHD and perhaps ASD (at least characteristics). Due to lockdown and peri menopause I’ve put on weight and I’m losing some hair. I’m no longer a prize, it’s okay to speak up when you’re reasonably attractive but you need to tone it down when you’re looking rather awful, it’s the aging game.
But it’s no-ones fault, most definitely not my husbands, my kids, random peoples, I’ve just got to suck it up and find a way through and be kind to myself, while focusing on the kids and the supports they need so they’ve not sitting feeling like this in 30+ years.
I love my kids, so I protect them, they’re not mentioned on SM, they’re my life. She is lashing out and hurting her kids, that I can’t forgive. She is so angry, but does she care what she’s doing to them. She just wants to hurt IG and anyone else is just collateral damage,