Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #230 You don't wanna mess with me. I know where I live.

[ohcomeon99]

I’ve followed all this for so so long now and for me, it always comes back to how abusive Alice is and this can be traced back since they met. There are so many “highlights” to this behaviour that it’s ridiculous, from forcing his fan page to shut because they said something mildly critical, alienation from his mother to the recent events of doxxing, parental alienation etc.

I work in the courts and parental alienation is starting to become a “thing” over here. It is pretty rare (mum stopping contact over a row and calling the dad a dick isn’t really it”) but I can honestly said this is truly a case of that and is incredibly horrifying to watch. The amount of court involvement and investigation (and I wouldn’t be shocked if Child Protective Services have had a hand due to extreme parental acrimony and the impact on children) means that, by now, if there were serious issues and safeguarding as to why the children may not want to see dad, or all the terrible things Alice hints at, we would know. There has been nothing identified, rather court ordered reconciliation therapy. This is incredibly telling.

I think Alice just assumed she would always be the victim because her husband left her for a younger woman. She could have kept the sympathetic role by keeping her mouth shut, maybe doing one interview, but no, the narcissism is strong and her own actions and behaviours have shown her to be spiteful, unbalanced, obsessive and just generally unpleasant. None of this has been a good look.

She’s spend years harping on that he’s left her and the kids with nothing when in actual fact, it likes like most of what he earns goes to her.

Oh and a side note Alice - it is not your ex-husbands job to fund YOUR lifestyle, nor for her him to provide for your JOINT children 100%. Have some self respect and get a fucking job. Might do everyone the world of good.

 

[Hiraeth]

All this smacks of desperation, doesn't it? They've put out so many false narratives that contradict each other, without a shred of evidence, and no one cares any more. They get no engagement and they're just flailing about to hide the fact that their Alice Regina was just outed to us and to at least 27,000 followers on IG as encouraging the illegal exposure of others' private information. Not a good look, as AFE likes to say.

 

[M33L4]

They’ve scheduled it on the 29th so we can only celebrate once every four years, right??

 

[Ally Pally]

Lovely ain't she

 

[Hiraeth]

I’m incredibly, incredibly disappointed that there was no giant dildo for Tone to crash into (in a Vauxhall Nova with a busted spoiler). It would have been the perfect mishap for such a shattered wreck of a man. I confess that I had no idea he was busily doxxing some poor woman - what is the consensus of the Reddit claim re: threats to the wee girl? Do we think M***T is a fantasist, or is there verifiable proof that I’ve missed (in which case I send my apologies to the aforementioned)? It wouldn’t surprise me that Tone, as an offshoot/symbiotic personality/clone of Alice would be capable of such behaviour, though. He may be full of hot air, but he’s unbelievably nasty and unpleasant - his comments re: Bianca’s condition were abysmal.
I predict that Malice will try another round of legal abuse over the next thirty days - claiming to be unwell, breaking the DVRO and dragging poor Ella out for yet more paparazzi pictures. @Hiraeth: how long can she drag this out before being sanctioned by the court? (I really hope that you’re on the mend - flu is so rotten - and that Mr H. is well.)

Spoiler: Kitten Query

My little round bear went to the vet yesterday as he was spooked so badly by a gust of wind from the chimney that he crashed his head into the underside of a table, and I was worried he’d concussed himself: the vet says he’s 2lbs overweight. He’s on special, very expensive food - two packets a day - and weightloss munchies which he adores (the trills, prips, meeps, chirps and spinning when the bag comes out are epic). He only goes out once a day, and does sometimes come back with chips or cheese from God knows where, but he’s not getting extra food from neighbours; and he gallops up and down five flights of stairs many times every day while playing. He’s a Bengal, so everything is a toy. Does anyone else have Bengals/weight loss suggestions? ******* is in beautiful condition, with glossy fur and bright eyes, but he’s beginning to look like Tom Kitten sans jacket, and it’s worrying me.

Spoiler: Autisteuse

Thank you for the kind words, my dear, I'm feeling much better today and Mr. H is hanging in there. Your kitten is positively gorgeous. I've raised many cats since I grew up on a farm, and I wouldn't worry too much about his weight, he seems to be an active guy and doesn't mind exercising. It usually all works out as they get to adulthood, and a slight bit of poundage is not cause for concern. (Sympathies on the broken items, I had a cat once that would look right at me and then bat breakables off shelves, but I'm incapable of getting mad at my babies, haha.)

Alice can't get out of the upcoming hearing (because only her lawyer is required to be there) or the trial (unless there is a truly life-threatening emergency and she is going to be called to the stand as a witness). We may hear about any recent shenanigans ("illnesses," paparazzi photos, DVRO violations) at this status hearing on Wednesday, and the judge may caution her or make further court orders to manage her behavior, but I think everyone knows that further attempted delays will do no good. My sense is that she's keeping Bernal because he's her last chance at legal representation--I think no one else will take her case after breezing through more than 5 attorneys and with the reputation she has in the legal community for being exceedingly difficult.

Weather won't affect things unless it's truly dire, since attorneys can appear in court remotely by Zoom or phone. I checked the L.A. court website and there's no notifications about weather delays. So I think we are good to go for tomorrow's hearing.

 

[House of Tea]

Alice and Ioan were not a good match. She craves excitement and the high life. Ioan seems a nice guy but comes across as solid, dependable and sensible. When you first go into a relationship with someone, you overlook the fact that you are coming at the world in completely different ways. Sometimes it works, other times it doesn’t. What seems charming and different in the beginning, palls very quickly.

Alice couldn’t get OP to commit. I think he is bisexual and did absolutely the right thing not promising her anything. Ioan would also not commit until Alice threw an ultimatum. If you have to do that with a guy, you are on the back foot from the start.

Alice thought Ioan was a Prospect. Good looking, getting work. I genuinely think that the both of them thought they would fly to Hollywood and take the town by storm. They quickly found out that the film industry has gazillions of Ioans and Alices to pick from. When the big league didn’t arrive, Alice got bitter. She took it out on Ioan. They should have returned to the UK, and carved out a bigger career, and then tried Hollywood again. But Alice feels she is too big for the UK. They ran before they could walk. They kept going after the jig was up.

Ioan has still had a solid career, he has earned good money, he is well liked in the industry. Most actors don’t get anywhere near that level. Alice was clinging to his shirttails- her career has never amounted to much there, not helped by her hard personality. Despite her being the clingon, Alice lorded it over him as if she were the successful one. You can see that in some of the interviews- he was being interviewed but she took over as if she was the one in the spotlight. She said she was slayed in that famous Lorraine interview- and I truly believe she was.

She could not comprehend that Captain Sensible had got himself out of there and left her. She doesn’t miss Ioan, she misses the person she thought she was, she thought she was unleavable, the one who left, not the one left behind. Her ego couldn’t allow her to move on. She left OP for IG, and she feels aggrieved she made that decision. But OP was never going to commit, so all the looking back with rose tinted glasses is pointless. That is why it has got so grim. She cocked up but wanted someone else to pay. It is her kids that are paying the ultimate price.

 

[Loveu2]

She must not have noticed this yet.

 

[Chilli pepper 19]

This sounds plausible.
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By the way, still waiting for the note to be posted. I won't hold my breath.

And what is with the Evans siblings and toilets?
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I can see the note now.

"Your sister is smart and gawjus and the bogan is a whore. Signed the Rozzers"

 

[barre19]

Tone wrote his own notes to get himself out of PE lessons, didn’t he? “Dear Miss Teacher, please excuse Tone from PE today as he has a sad toe. Signed, Mum. xx”

 

[Hiraeth]

Alice's agency doesn't have a domain.

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They're like the Bernal of agents (Bernal of the yahoo email address).

I'm mightily trying to talk myself out of appearing at the hearing tomorrow. Risk of doxxing versus hilarity. It's a tough choice.

P.S. If anyone is interested in reading the court order which struck off Bernal some years ago, I can post it.

 

[welp]

Apparently I'm flying too

Spoiler

I booked for my parents a connection flight to a Greek city called Ioannina where my grandma lives, but it looks so funny to me now LOL

 

[ThisishowIlivenow]

There is a giant dildo is Brizzle.
We just don't know where he lives.
No matter how much he tries to convince himself we do.

 

[Old Soak]

Just for fun (and nightmares!) a terrifying montage of Gobs Akimbo

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I don’t say this lightly but this is more terrifying than her collage

 

[BessieNessie]

I believe the girls are acutely aware of their situation. They know their home is untidy and unkept and that they themselves are untidy and unkept compared to others. They are kept out of sync with the world and they can see that. She can’t even manage a decent thanksgiving dinner. They know they’re different and that she’s unwell. They know Ioan did the homely stuff while she whined/wined in bed. They see other divorces and know their mum is blowing hers up with her paranoia and hatred.

Alice calls it being sick but they can see something is off with her as well as anyone. Everything triggers her hysteria and her histrionics. They absolutely know she’s not right in the head. They’re playing along with it so she won’t be put in a facility (or unalive herself) or whatever she told them would happen if they don’t ‘have her back’. I don’t belive they don’t see how unhinged she is. They’ve lost their dignity, their childhoods and their dad to it. They know it better than anyone.

 

[Hiraeth]

This is what a loving parent-child relationship looks like.

 

[Diamonds60]

So Alice is caught out asking for illegal activity to take place. Slow clap

 

[welp]

I love that all her abuse apologists rotate for 2 years the same screenshot around that shows nothing but the fact that they have the reading comprehension of a 3 year old

 

[Hoopla]

Maybe she's upping her attempts to expose Tattlers because she's about to be exposed for her socks abusing IG and BW?

Just a thought.

 

[taybridge]

Same outfit and dated 6th June 2000, so she was nearer to 32 than 21.

 

[marjorytrashheap]

I feel like Dupee's report isn't going down well in some areas...

Regardless of how this turns out, I feel like I & B are in a really good place mentally at the moment. Once all this is finalised I'll be interested in the path Ioan chooses for his work. And B too. And he gets to lay down the huge financial burden that is Alice now - that will be so freeing.

Like many wise people have said, Alice has only fucked herself. Ioan will continue to do his best for those girls at a distance I'm sure, and of course he loves them, but she's been sabotaging his relationship with them since they were born and long before divorce was even considered. Like many have said, the time may have come that he has to walk away. Two years ago I would have been outraged to agree with this, thinking it would be a triumph for Alice! But there are no winners here. She was always going to damage these girls by dint of being herself. Poor girls have just had the terrible terrible luck of having her as a 'mother'.