Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #127 Get a job before your kids do Alice!

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Me, too. I'm mostly a sahd. Today has been particularly thankless - The HUB returned from work and got all the love and I got to carry the giant rucksack full of crap water/snacks/wet clothes from where they leapt into a nearby fountain (I live in a v hot country) and was mostly ignored because they 'love him bestest'.
*seethes silently*

In topic, Alice needs to also be in a body of water.
 
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Ok now bloody Vardy has got what she deserves I’m here for Alice to go down (not like that. Ew.) and the media to actually read the court papers and out her for the scheming narc abuser she really is. Photoshopping her eyes ffs tells you it all. She couldn’t be trusted to breathe without lying, blaming B, or scarring those poor kids some more. Absolute baggage of a woman and I hope she ends up on a PRO with visitation only and is court ordered to get a job, any job. The prick.
 
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Welsh actress, she was in that Welsh soap opera that IG was also in. Presumably at the same time but I can't say that for certain.
it looks like they overalapped a year

Her acting career obviously hasnt been as great as Ioans. But she is a well established name in Wales and gets regulary roles on TV to this day. Is doing presenter jobs in Welsh radio & TV. Is doing theatre stage work (Ioan appears to have attended her latest work) and is involved in local politics along the way. I'm definitely not looking with judging eyes over to Alice.
 
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What rug will she wear to court? Will it be clean? Will she use actual shampoo and brush her teeth?
And which Crayola marker red lipstick will she choose? Which late-night eBay purchase that looks like Year 10 textiles coursework will she wear? HOW WILL SHE PHOTOSHOP HER EYES IN REAL-TIME???
 
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Breaking News, turns out I need new glasses. That DOESN’T say stubbley-cock.
Anyone know Alice’s optician??
 
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I wish Alice would just stop all the theatrics and accept the following:

1. Ioan will get 50/50 custody. That's what they planned for early on.

2. The girls will spend time with Bianca. She can't control who Ioan is involved with or marries. Bianca will very likely be their stepmother so making peace with her will be good for everyone.

3. The prenup will be upheld. Now is the time to accept any decent settlement offer that goes beyond the binding prenup.

4. The DVRO is happening. If she can commit herself to stopping all abuse and harassment and stay off SM it might help the length of it.

5. She has to move. The house is not hers to keep. Now is the time to find something modest and affordable.

6. She can't afford Gloria, nor will she be able to moving forward. Nannies in LA are expensive and she will not be getting much for spousal support (DVRO and prenup) nor child support (not with shared custody). She could either try to work something out with Ioan that they share Gloria so she can work, or she can hire a housekeeper once a week to clean and work from home. And she has to create income for herself. She isn't eligible for disability and it's very little money anyway.

At the end of the day, this is all happening. If Alice continues down this path of destruction she could end up with nothing. That's the reality. Pitching herself as the Norma Rae of single SAHMs is failing her. And it won't pay the bills.
 
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I'm so sorry you were doubly betrayed & so sorry you lost your baby as a result.
I don't think you compare to Alice at all. You were betrayed so badly, blind sided, treated appallingly & had extra tragedy on top. I think most people can relate, I certainly can, your whole world had exploded so don't beat yourself up about your behaviour. xxx

A huge well done to you for everything you did to turn your life around & you should feel very proud.
I really hope you have since found real happiness. xxx

Don't feel bad for your initial sympathy, it was understandable, no reason to hang your head in shame. A lot of us felt the same, me included as she fooled a lot of people early on using other women's genuine pain to get sympathy knowing so many would relate. It took awhile to realise she hadn't been betrayed/blind sided & wasn't grieving a broken heart, it's her narc rage at Ioan escaping her abuse/control & losing her $$$ machine & Hollywood link. You're a good & decent person. She's always been an abusive cunt who loves drama & I doubt she sees her behaviour as self destructive at all.
 
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I used to enjoy them as a kid too, in case I came over all judgmental!

But I mean, in that trekking clip, when Ioan was saying in a really bored tone that he’d ‘just come down there’, obviously refering to the steep bit, who would even think of turning that into an innuendo?! Not even 13 y o boys I shouldn’t imagine. Just pervy Alice. But then I just thought the Carry On crew would have too. Sorry for taking everyone off on a tangent!
 
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With this speculation on what Alice might wear, here’s a throwback to how I imagined her turning up to court … remember the gunt?

 
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Serious question: IF Abuser does show and at some stage goes off verbally and refuses to shut up, what happens?
 
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That is probably the most miserable wedding photo I’ve ever seen. I mean, no one looks happy do they. And there’s the blushing bride, fag and booze in hand. Yikes.
The only one even attempting a smile is the Bristol Chris Evans.
 
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True, did not think of the girls, which I should have. Embarrassed & ashamed
Don't feel embarrassed or ashamed. A part of me would love them to be made public so that even more people were made aware of what Alice really is as a video recording cannot be denied. Rather like the Heard tapes. The downside is the potential harm to the girls which I also wouldn't want.
 
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It doesn’t sound like you were being an Alice. It’s sounds like you went through a massive amount of trauma in a short space of time, and you were grieving multiple losses at once. The thing about grief is, no-one can tell you how to do it. However it comes out of you, is the right way for you. I’ve been in a similar position of loss and can relate so much to the rage and anger. I didn’t have the capacity for anything other than lashing out, I was furious at everyone and everything. I hope that you can look back on that time of your life with compassion for yourself. You should (as non-patronisingly and sincerely as possible) be really proud of yourself for moving past such an awful time in your life. I’m so sorry that happened to you, but I’m very glad for you that you were able to make such positive changes. Love to you
 
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Serious question: IF Abuser does show and at some stage goes off verbally and refuses to shut up, what happens?
funny enough there is a guidebook from the Judicial Council of California for how to handle self-representing parties in Family Court, this is one of the examples

btw the judge got admonished because they didnt give this person the chance to respond to the contempt. Basically the lesson here is that a judge should not lose their cool and do the proper procedures if somebody acts like a complete loon.
 
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Serious question: IF Abuser does show and at some stage goes off verbally and refuses to shut up, what happens?
I’m curious about this too. Can you be held in contempt of court in a hearing? Can you be in contempt on Zoom? I wonder if any of the wonderful legal minded on here might know.

(Mental image of her spouting off so unrelentingly that law enforcement is sent to her house to unplug her laptop (imagining it to be covered in bling and beads a la the Evans Creations handbag line)…we last see her being dragged from her chair kicking and screaming about CORRUPT OFFICIALS!!!111!1… a door slams and silence falls upon the room. A pair of big round eyes appear in shot, and Emma carefully blinks out a plea for help in morse code. End scene)
 
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