You will get there. Just take it one day at a time. Life is so very hard and painful, and no one gets a free pass from the hurt. We all have our crutches to try and make it through but some of us are genetically programmed to addictions. It’s not your fault. Definitely 100% so don’t beat yourself up, okay?Thank you sweetheart, I really appreciate those words xxxx
I'm fine really. I have known for some time that it's a problem and unhealthy, BUT, I can always stop myself to be sober enough for work the next day, I don't immediately need a drink when I get home and occupy myself with errands as best as I can. But after that it's wine time. The thing that does upset me is that my hands shake now, even when I'm sober, it's a tell-tale sign and I try to avoid handing co-workers paperwork.
I'll get there one day, I'm just not ready yet. Too much shit to deal with. In the meantime you are correct. Momma JuneBug often tells me that I'm kind to a fault, which has consistently set me up as vulnerable to emotionally and physically abusive men. Heeeeence the substance abuse.
She replied to two comments about parental alienation and linked @ palienationuk into one of them. Guess that didn't go down well with malice. Being called out by Jo Frost, well you can't get much more valedation that what your doing is just plain wrong.I missed Jo Frost's comments. What did she say?
Me too xx I love you and support you always xxI agree with everything you've said there. The horrible irony being that I'm a functioning alcoholic with a broken phone screen right now
Hey, at least I'm not Alice. I can function and work full time!
I love you backThank you so much my gorgeous Rammschister! Love you to the moon and farther.
... even though Ive never met you, but I do dangit!
You will get there. Just take it one day at a time. Life is so very hard and painful, and no one gets a free pass from the hurt. We all have our crutches to try and make it through but some of us are genetically programmed to addictions. It’s not your fault. Definitely 100% so don’t beat yourself up, okay?Btw, love love love your baby Ioan avatar.
Omfg you’re just the best of the best - you just interrupted Love Island with my cackling laughter - had to show my OH who is vaguely aware of you guys and the “alicing” (as he calls it) that I do and he was pissing himself too! Well played Pearls, well played. VERY much needed oxytocin hit!In case you needed a giggle…
All the time, totally normal...the fucking babbehs can stand up for me or fuck off to some bogan ho who won't feed them Panda Express and blue Sunny D and their cunt father who cooks them food with potatoes and vegetables and shit instead of getting Maccy's...Straw poll.
As a parent have you ever
a) called your daughter a bitch on her birthday
b) told your child’s other parent they should die
c) told your very young daughter that daddy wants you to die
d) said “the babies can’t stand up for me or they can fuck off”
I have a complicated and blended family life. None of the above.
I'd have used a bin liner to gag her by now.View attachment 1416775
Alice needs to start firing back? Stop it ladyShe's been firing nonstop for years.
CockSiblingManOne, two, one, two, three go
Clap your hands
Tweet
Wave your hands
Hitch a ride
Sneeze (piss your pants
Go for a sleep
Lets see you beg
Now tweet
Sleep
Fucko man!
Sound your foghorn voice
Ring the bell
Okay
Kiss
Comb yournohair
Wave your hands come on wave your hands
CockSiblingMan!
Wooooo
Clap your hands now you’re looking really good
Now you've got the hang of it were gonna do it one more time
We’re gonna do it again
Edited for @Hellodolly26
It's smart asking for joint custody even if you want full. Judges tend to side eye you if you go for full custody. another strategic error from herA lot of people in the Fail asking why IG does not go for full custody.
IG regularly needs to work away. Even as the primary care giver he would realistically have to share custody. To me his request seems reasonable. Asking for 100% when you cannot necessarily provide it would be counterintuitive.
As for BW not wanting the kids full-time. I was slightly younger than her when I was with a man with a 9 year old.
I did not want to be mum or have the kid who was apparently happy with his mother. I thought I was the least maternal woman on earth.
After a weekend with us, I caught my partner’s son crying. In retrospect he wanted to be caught. He said he didn’t know if he wanted to go home or stay.
Without thinking I told him both his father and mother loved him and wanted him and he was very much wanted by both.
Having said it I had to live by it. His mother was struggling and very much encouraged him to come to us.
I didn’t want kids and wondered what the fuck I had done. The reality was that it was better having him with us rather than his father worrying about him from a distance.
He had a good relationship with his mum and a very different but great relationship with me.
Thinking that involvement with the children will force a relationship apart is a myth. I actually stayed with his dad longer than I should have because I felt I had a commitment to the little one as well.
Seeing BW’s relationships with kids on Instagram and her love for her dog I suspect she would enjoy taking on some responsibility for the girls rather than resent it.
Apologies for the long post!
That happened to me once… it was like Christmas
Straw poll.
As a parent have you ever
a) called your daughter a bitch on her birthday
b) told your child’s other parent they should die
c) told your very young daughter that daddy wants you to die
d) said “the babies can’t stand up for me or they can fuck off”
I have a complicated and blended family life. None of the above.
It’s the same feeling I get when I smoke mint weed getting any reaction from UL … on a buzz
Lesley Sharples is a brilliant actress!!I love that film Marmite!
Me, waiting for Alice's proof:Wait and see seems to be a beloved phrase among the Evanses. We’ve been waiting for 18 months, people!
Ioan and his lawyers are also savvy enough to know she would go full screaming “HE’S STOLEN MY BABIES” banshee if he applied for full custody. I’m sure it’s nerve shredding for him ‘only’ applying for 50/50 custody but I think he’s played it well. He’s given her every benefit of the doubt.A lot of people in the Fail asking why IG does not go for full custody.
IG regularly needs to work away. Even as the primary care giver he would realistically have to share custody. To me his request seems reasonable. Asking for 100% when you cannot necessarily provide it would be counterintuitive.
As for BW not wanting the kids full-time. I was slightly younger than her when I was with a man with a 9 year old.
I did not want to be mum or have the kid who was apparently happy with his mother. I thought I was the least maternal woman on earth.
After a weekend with us, I caught my partner’s son crying. In retrospect he wanted to be caught. He said he didn’t know if he wanted to go home or stay.
Without thinking I told him both his father and mother loved him and wanted him and he was very much wanted by both.
Having said it I had to live by it. His mother was struggling and very much encouraged him to come to us.
I didn’t want kids and wondered what the fuck I had done. The reality was that it was better having him with us rather than his father worrying about him from a distance.
He had a good relationship with his mum and a very different but great relationship with me.
Thinking that involvement with the children will force a relationship apart is a myth. I actually stayed with his dad longer than I should have because I felt I had a commitment to the little one as well.
Seeing BW’s relationships with kids on Instagram and her love for her dog I suspect she would enjoy taking on some responsibility for the girls rather than resent it.
Apologies for the long post!
Shotty down my love!! Basking in the glory!It’s the same feeling I get when I smoke mint weed getting any reaction from UL … on a buzz
lmao
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