I know 99% of us hate Spencer (can’t blame us, he’s a massive wet wipe) but I genuinely worry about their whole situation. Anyone with an outsider’s perspective could see how fucked their relationship is, and how toxic Imogen is in general. I know we laugh a lot (as well as voicing genuine concern) at the before and after pics of Spencer before and after marrying Gobshite, but I hate that he will probably never see how psychotic she is and how damaged he’s become as a result of that. He is literally a shell of who is was in the 2017-18 pics we’ve seen. Any kind of controlling and coercive relationship is horrific (growing up in a police family this has been drilled into me) but it’s so much worse when you think their babies will never know any different. The likelihood is they’ll grow up as spineless as Spencer who’s been completely isolated and is Imogen’s doormat, or they’ll be as narcissistic and dangerous as their mum. Either way the entire family is fucked and Imogen needs serious help and time away from her girls to think seriously about what is best for her, them and Spencer too. I might be overthinking but my brother (with two kids) has just left his highly abusive and deluded wife and seeing how fucked up things have become for him and my niece and nephew makes me see the parallels between his relationship with his ex wife and Spencer and Imogen’s relationship. The way she parents and actively excludes Spencer from O and R’s lives when this time is so key developmentally for them both is so damaging and it genuinely makes me sad. Just dumping my thoughts but as much as I think Spencer’s a wet lettuce I hope one day he sees how toxic and dangerous she is and takes the girls before Imogen does too much damage to them. I know we keep things lighthearted on here (sorry lol) but then I think of those poor girls, they’re literally babies that can’t help themselves and are reliant on Spencer to remove them from the situation. I hope someone who can see how damaged they all are/are becoming intervenes, regardless of who that is.
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Oh she’s fucking unbearable
So after a few recent posts my view on his has actually changed (in terms of his relationship with O & R not her being a controlling narc)
I actually think a lot of it’s for camera so Imo can get attention and sympathy for being “A bReaStFEEdIng WoRkiiNg Mum” who never gets break. She likes to make out she’s practically a single mother and Spencer can’t really help as the girls JUST want Imo,..
When in reality we can see how much nicer Spencer is with them, how much calmer they are, how they actually interact with him and don’t just sit there completely over stimulated. They’ve both made posts recently that highlight how Spencer does most of the childcare. Imo is just there with her camera on tripod ready to film those “mAgIcAl mOmEnTs”
Tbh I think Spencer spends more time with them then Imo does. Idk I find everything Imo does with the kids so performative nothing just seems natural.
i think as well if Spencer turned around and said fuck this I want to actually provide for my family and went and got a fuckin job it would solve so many of their problems. I do think imo is a controlling twat don’t get me wrong and I feel so so sorry for those poor girls. But I also think Spencer has an easy ride in terms of he has a big house in Brighton his wife pays for, nice holidays his wife pays for (or are gifted), travels / goes to events his wife gets invited too, his “work” is just standing there while Imo sets up her camera and dances like stick insect around him… he just has to be a stay at home dad which is probably what every single one of us (with kids) here do on top of working an actual job.
I think a lot of him looking like a corpse is because he has issues with food. I’ve said it previously but I think it’s part of the reason Imo stays so skinny because he prefers it. The portion sizes he eats for a guy who does a lot
of exercise is ridiculous. Imagine going for a 5k run and playing football and your dinner is a small cereal bowl of pasta. But I think that side comes from him as he does all the cooking etc.
unfortunately, I don’t think Spencer will help the girls as he’s started using them as cashcows also and has no care for their privacy.. but heyyy, at least you get another free holiday hey Spence?
I completely understand the worry but also look at Imo.. she used to be normal, full of life, really pretty… now she’s this absolute unhinged weirdo who looks like a walking corpse most of the time. They’ve both absolutely drained the life from each other.