Omg. I am only 8 minutes into the video and I can't watch anymore!!!!
Does she actually believe the stuff she is saying??? I honestly can't believe how someone has such a lack of self awareness.
She has made this a big deal! She has made her lips a big thing. I feel like she is ashamed that she has had lip fillers because she keeps saying "why does it make me less of a person?" When nobody has even said that!!! She is projecting her own thoughts on it.
Imogen, instead of crying over people asking you if you have had your lips done (which is just a question) you need to look inside yourself and think why am I so embarrassed/ashamed/scared of/upset about by this question? Why can't you respond with a simply yes like 99.9% of other people would??? What is making you feel so bad about it? You need to self reflect on why you can't own it and be like yeah I have, so what?? Not have a meltdown when people ask you. If you cant handle the attention that big lips give you then you will need to stop getting them done tbh.
The only person who cares you have lip fillers is you. Yeah people leaving comments saying 'sausage lips' isnt nice... but at the end of the day you obviously like that look or you wouldnt keep paying to have it done, so why arent you owning it and saying how much you love your lips??
People respect honesty and transparency. You avoiding questions, deleting questions, saying that you havent had lip fillers (when we have seen photos of you from your teenage years with very different and thinner lips) all these things make you look deceitful. Naturally it makes a person wonder what else you have lied or twisted.
Instead of getting your viewers to all shut up and to only send you kind comments, why dont you use the opportunity to self reflect and to grow as a person? To admit that you lied because you felt worried/embarrassed/didnt want to encourage cosmetic procedures- whatever the reason is! Just own the situation!!!
There is a difference between victimisation and victimhood. You are choosing to be a victim. Why? Why cant you own up to your actions and behaviours which have encouraged the constant comments about your lips? If you just answered truthfully years ago it would be old news by now.
Asking "do you have lip fillers?" Is not an offensive question. It is a curious question. It requires a simple yes or no answer. You are the one making it mean something bad.
You are always going to get negative criticism, that is just life! Why even view it as negative? Why dont you view it as constructive? Why don't you view it as something to learn from? That it pays to be honest asap? That basing your whole Instagram on selfies of yourself and photos of yourself is going to open the door to questions about your looks.
If you cant handle it then turn the comments off on your Instagram and YouTube.