Slightly different but, thought I’d add this anyways. My ex partner always had a fantasy of having a threesome with him, me and another guy. I made this fantasy a reality for him as a birthday gift one year (whatever happened to socks and pants for your birthday
) Anyways, it all went smoothly etc and I did enjoy it (other guy was hot) However, it opened a can of worms. He wanted it more and more and any time we had sex, all he fantasised about was me and other guys. It ruined our sex life. I got so bored of the same talk over and over, despite telling him to stop.