Of course, my father gives us money but very carefully monitors what we spend it on (used to check our bank statements, until I made a huge fuss and went paperless and he stopped). He is very tight with money though, he hardly spends on anything unless it’s an investment/education. He buys designer items but only in charity shops and eBay, never retail. My mother wears some logos, but day to day dresses very simple. I’m probably the flashiest out of everyone in the family lol
Our lifestyle is normal on a daily basis. But we do have a cleaner who comes once a week, we go on multiple family holidays a year (not now), usually a multi city trip, staying in 5* hotels. But what you don’t see is my father meticulously planning every detail to make sure we get it for the cheapest price possible, cheapest flight time, date, company, often ringing the hotel asking for offers/deals. I recall once we were on holiday and I was extremely thirsty in the mall, I wanted to buy a drink but my dad refused to let me spend more on a drink in the mall. He made us walk 25 mins in blistering heat so I could get my juice for £1 cheaper. Even though it was my own money
You could never tell my family has money, unless you saw where we lived. My parents drive nice but normal cars, not flashy at all. None of us get birthday presents either, we get “investments” I.e. a house bought “for us”, which you don’t have access to yet (which is great but when you’re a kid all you want is a new phone or some trainers. Hope this answers your question