Hollie & Josh Wright

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I don't see the issue with him not walking.... tons of babies don't walk at his age and are absolutely fine, he is a fast crawler so it will delay his walking. From what I've seen he's pointing which is actually a bigger "milestone" in terms of development.
 
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I don't see the issue with him not walking.... tons of babies don't walk at his age and are absolutely fine, he is a fast crawler so it will delay his walking. From what I've seen he's pointing which is actually a bigger "milestone" in terms of development.
i think it's more the nit walking combined with other things. He always looks quite vacant / squinting the rare pic she has posted of him standing holding on to things he always seems to be on tiptoes
 
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Babies can point from around 8/9 month.
It's not an age thing, if you are suggesting autism or communication issues, pointing is a big thing. I hope there isn't an issue with him, wouldn't wish that on anyone, even if they are sh*t parents!
 
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i think it's more the nit walking combined with other things. He always looks quite vacant / squinting the rare pic she has posted of him standing holding on to things he always seems to be on tiptoes
yes i noticed about the tip toes too
 
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The lack of care given to the little premature baby when feeding him a bottle, just shoved in his mouth one handed whilst lying there unaided so they can record a video with the other hand. Preemie babies are so precious, he deserves better
 
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It's not an age thing, if you are suggesting autism or communication issues, pointing is a big thing. I hope there isn't an issue with him, wouldn't wish that on anyone, even if they are sh*t parents!
Off course i don't wish there's a issue with him but when people share/exploit their kids on line for a living...people can't help but notice things with their kids.
 
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Off course i don't wish there's a issue with him but when people share/exploit their kids on line for a living...people can't help but notice things with their kids.
I didn't mean you personally, I was replying to your post around pointing. Very true, they are exploiting him. I find it very sad how he is clearly needing some extra support but they have just moved on to the next baby, if it were me I'd have waited longer to have more time with Josh
 
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I didn't mean you personally, I was replying to your post around pointing. Very true, they are exploiting him. I find it very sad how he is clearly needing some extra support but they have just moved on to the next baby, if it were me I'd have waited longer to have more time with Josh
I agree and I really hope they can get some extra support for him if needed (and for themselves as it's tough as a parent.) I think the trouble with having such overbearing in-laws / family is that even if any concern was voiced I feel like it would be "oh mine never walked until they was this age.." they Come across so dominant don't they. Hopefully her sister with the older baby will be able to offer some guidance if it's needed.
 
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I've never commented properly on things like this. I have 4 sons my 3rd one is severe autistic and has a lot of learning difficulties etc. Unfortunately- and I hate to say this, but little Josh reminds me so much of my boy. The delayed walking, very vacant bless him. Obsessed with certain shows; mickey mouse clubhouse was my boys favourite - he was obsessed with it for years. I notice a lot of similar traits. I had my boy diagnosed by 3 years old and he's in a specialist school since 4 years old with statementing and ehcp. I have this weird kind of "autism radar"" I really wouldn't be shocked if the little cutie was diagnosed - bless his little heart. I really hope I'm not offending anyone. I'm just speaking from experience as my son is 15 now. The sad thing is the wright family are so vacuous, materialistic, competitive, vain, self absorbed - and lets be frank here, not the brightest sparks - I worry they would be in compete denial and its not fair. The way they cart that prem baby about in pubs as a mascot says it all really.
 
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It was nice to see they took them to a park and a fair, rather than a fancy restaurant stuck in front of an iPad!
 
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I've never commented properly on things like this. I have 4 sons my 3rd one is severe autistic and has a lot of learning difficulties etc. Unfortunately- and I hate to say this, but little Josh reminds me so much of my boy. The delayed walking, very vacant bless him. Obsessed with certain shows; mickey mouse clubhouse was my boys favourite - he was obsessed with it for years. I notice a lot of similar traits. I had my boy diagnosed by 3 years old and he's in a specialist school since 4 years old with statementing and ehcp. I have this weird kind of "autism radar"" I really wouldn't be shocked if the little cutie was diagnosed - bless his little heart. I really hope I'm not offending anyone. I'm just speaking from experience as my son is 15 now. The sad thing is the wright family are so vacuous, materialistic, competitive, vain, self absorbed - and lets be frank here, not the brightest sparks - I worry they would be in compete denial and its not fair. The way they cart that prem baby about in pubs as a mascot says it all really.
I fully agree with you.

And sadly i think they would be the type to try and hide/deny if josh has special needs.
 
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I've never commented properly on things like this. I have 4 sons my 3rd one is severe autistic and has a lot of learning difficulties etc. Unfortunately- and I hate to say this, but little Josh reminds me so much of my boy. The delayed walking, very vacant bless him. Obsessed with certain shows; mickey mouse clubhouse was my boys favourite - he was obsessed with it for years. I notice a lot of similar traits. I had my boy diagnosed by 3 years old and he's in a specialist school since 4 years old with statementing and ehcp. I have this weird kind of "autism radar"" I really wouldn't be shocked if the little cutie was diagnosed - bless his little heart. I really hope I'm not offending anyone. I'm just speaking from experience as my son is 15 now. The sad thing is the wright family are so vacuous, materialistic, competitive, vain, self absorbed - and lets be frank here, not the brightest sparks - I worry they would be in compete denial and its not fair. The way they cart that prem baby about in pubs as a mascot says it all really.
I completely agree. It seems as though they have quite a few babies around the same sort of ages around them so hopefully there will be some guidance / help if needed. Although it is also hard trying to offer help as an "outsider" without offending isn't it. Hopefully her family are on the ball unlike the Wrights.
They don't seem to be able to just stay in and chill so they - constantly out and about.
 
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I completely agree. It seems as though they have quite a few babies around the same sort of ages around them so hopefully there will be some guidance / help if needed. Although it is also hard trying to offer help as an "outsider" without offending isn't it. Hopefully her family are on the ball unlike the Wrights.
They don't seem to be able to just stay in and chill so they - constantly out and about.
I think Hollie just goes along with anything big Josh says. The fact she named baby Josh after him just further proves she tries to keep him happy 🙄 I don't think it would be Hollie denying it, it will be Josh. He'll want to believe he has the best looking/ "little footballer in the making" son 🙄.
 
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Jess’s story from this morning where her son is stood doing his silly laugh and interacting with everyone in the room and walking around and poor josh is crawling and sat on the floor like an 8month old bless his heart
I think he may have delays due to circumstances of been left to watch a tablet and be sat in a high chair since he was tiny
He definitely is behind just hope his parents are aware and will go down the right routes to help him instead of going on another holiday and expect him to sit around the pool all day
 
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Jess’s story from this morning where her son is stood doing his silly laugh and interacting with everyone in the room and walking around and poor josh is crawling and sat on the floor like an 8month old bless his heart
I think he may have delays due to circumstances of been left to watch a tablet and be sat in a high chair since he was tiny
He definitely is behind just hope his parents are aware and will go down the right routes to help him instead of going on another holiday and expect him to sit around the pool all day
I fully agree with you...

I seen the story but didn't want to be the one to keep bringing it up in here,
but the poor soul is in a world of his own with his cars, he has not moved on for what looks like since he was eight months.

I reckon they will be away ✈ again in a few weeks sat round the pool in the blazing sun.

I said it before but old leather face must see the difference between Viz and Josh but won't say anything as not wanting the risk of Holly taking offence/huff.

Paddy McGuiness's children are Autistic and Josh seems very similar to his kids at that age.
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Josh seemed bewildered with the laughing and never joined in.
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Jess shouldn't have filmed josh in it.. if I was Holly i wouldn't be happy.
 
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Makes me wonder that the Wrights don’t see it, as surely Jess wouldn’t have posted that video if she did?
He was born at 36 weeks, would that be connected in any way?
 
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I thought that was very insensitive of Jess to post. Carol was saying "show Josh your laugh" as if she is trying to help him along. I'm
Hoping he's just delayed and he'll come on all of a sudden. He needs support though which is just is not getting with his parents, all they care about is posting photos and being in the sun. It's sad.
 
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Makes me wonder that the Wrights don’t see it, as surely Jess wouldn’t have posted that video if she did?
He was born at 36 weeks, would that be connected in any way?
37 weeks is considered full term now,so one week before full term shouldn’t effect his milestones,and wouldn’t explain the lack of expression ect
Poor wee boy I hope he get’s support he needs if he needs it or just the the care and attention to catch up
Was a little insensitive of Jess to post publicly as she would be feeling disheartened if it was other way around especially with carols comment of show Josh how you do your silly laugh
When josh is the older one
 
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I do think Jess is coming across well as a mother, the sun suits and protective hats while they were away. She also seems to do a lot of posts about being exhausted etc / showing up for your baby when you're ill. Makes me think maybe Josh and Hollie get a lot of help with their two / she doesn't agree with some of the things they do maybe?! I noticed Hollie done a question and answer the other day and someone asked if it's hard being a mum /! If she'd have more babies and she said along the lines of "Yes they make me so happy I love it" just thought that was a bit of a naive answer after the pregnancies she's had. I get being grateful for your children but let's not lie it can be challenging. I also think if Jess sees them not putting in the work with Josh (if it has anything to do with that) she might think well I'm proud of what I've done with Vis. Totally brainstorming hwre.
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Also to sum it up shorter - it was crazy to see baby Josh exposed so much in the sun with Vis covered up next to him. So maybe it's a case of how can they not see what's right in-front of their faces. And Jess is thinking I'm doing things correctly I should be proud.
 
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