My daughter has PMDD and has been extremely violent and aggressive to the point we have had her arrested and had the police out multiple times. The week before she's due on we're all on egg shells, she becomes vile with her words, loses her temper at a drop of a hat, smashes my house up over the smallest of things. My three younger children (my daughter is nearly 18 and I have a significant gap between her and and her siblings of 10, 13 and 17 years) have been on the at risk register due to domestic violence in the home caused by her. They are having play therapy and have social services involved due to the violence they have witnessed. They are terrified of my daughter yet social services have yet to remove her from the home. Physically when my daughter gets her period, she can't get out of bed, is in a lot of pain and this has impacted her education and social life. It's an awful condition which there is not enough awareness off. I believe I also have it, but not to the same degree as my daughter. If Helen has PMDD it would explain her erratic behaviour and possible breakdown of relationships. My daughter has unfortunately burnt bridges with a lot of her family and friends due to her behaviour. I feel deeply sorry for her if she has no one around to help manage and support her with the symptoms of this disorder (if it is the disorder behind her behaviour).
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PMDD is so bleeping brutal. I feel genuinely very sorry for her if she has that, I know the condition all too well and before I had a name and a reason for it, it really ruined my life.
That Facebook page isn’t hers- it’s not verified.
This hurts my heart so much because I relate. My children have never been deemed at risk thankfully but I can hear myself snapping or being overly nasty to people and as soon as I’ve said it I’m like “god no” but you have literally no control.
I’m due on Monday; so currently luteal first week back at work too but I’ve felt the best I’ve felt in forever so I’m either coming on today or all the exercise I have factored in has made a HUGE difference
So Helens ex fella is trying to kick her out of her house. A house she said she put money into.He said he'll buy her a smaller house outright and waiver her maintenance.
Helen had a well paid job she left for him. She would have well bought a house outright herself if she was still in coronation street. She probably would have had a good contract.
Helen had a well paid job she left for him. She would have well bought a house outright herself if she was still in coronation street. She probably would have had a good contract.
Don’t bite the hand that feeds you. That post about the nativity clearly didn’t go down well. I don’t see how Helen can be skint. She has loads of followers and surely gets good brand deals?
I genuinely think she’s very dim and makes very bad decisions so I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s skint.
I completely agree and I bet that loser she was with a while back had great fun splashing her cash.
Actors on long term contracts don’t earn the huge amounts you might expect - for many, the benefit of job security on something like a soap outweighs short term roles that might pay more but are not guaranteed. You just need to look at how many actors strike out to try and make the big time after starting on soaps and end up returning to a recurring role because they have bills to pay.
Well Scott will be aware his years as a footballer are running out and if he has any sense he will be making solid plans now for his future but should have been already doing so.
If as reported he is paying for the house and bills and she had her fella living there for a while, it for me, shows he can be reasonable and put his children first. She doesn't need such a big house and needs to learn to stand her own two feet as he needs only to house and support the children, didn't they split about two years ago?
If as reported he is paying for the house and bills and she had her fella living there for a while, it for me, shows he can be reasonable and put his children first. She doesn't need such a big house and needs to learn to stand her own two feet as he needs only to house and support the children, didn't they split about two years ago?
Not to derail but I have PMDD/ADHD and it has been horrendous.
Previous partners thought I had bipolar, it was only an ex started tracking my period & suggested they may be linked that I was then diagnosed.
Im not medically sound to advise & I can only comment on my own experience but daily supplements, not even expensive ones, have been a game changer.
Evening primrose, Omega 3 & calcium/vit D.
But that’s me,
not advising anybody else
I still occasionally get months in the run up to my period where my brain believes all kinds of negativity as fact until a few days into my period & normality is resumed & I'm sad about how wrong I’ve actually been but I understand myself so much better now & so do the people around me which is great.
As for Helen I hope she’s ok.
I expect this would be a very unpopular opinion but me personally & zero judgement here, if I was posting lingerie shots to insta for free then I’d monetise that massively to see if I could buy the ex out of the house. The content is already out there & she seems comfortable sharing it, what difference putting it behind a paywall?
Previous partners thought I had bipolar, it was only an ex started tracking my period & suggested they may be linked that I was then diagnosed.
Im not medically sound to advise & I can only comment on my own experience but daily supplements, not even expensive ones, have been a game changer.
Evening primrose, Omega 3 & calcium/vit D.
But that’s me,
not advising anybody else I still occasionally get months in the run up to my period where my brain believes all kinds of negativity as fact until a few days into my period & normality is resumed & I'm sad about how wrong I’ve actually been but I understand myself so much better now & so do the people around me which is great.
As for Helen I hope she’s ok.
I expect this would be a very unpopular opinion but me personally & zero judgement here, if I was posting lingerie shots to insta for free then I’d monetise that massively to see if I could buy the ex out of the house. The content is already out there & she seems comfortable sharing it, what difference putting it behind a paywall?
So does he pay mortgage and bills in lieu of maintenance? If he bought a house, can he legally stop paying maintence entirely? If she isnt earning at all, could that potentially put the children's welfare at risk if she has a house but no way to pay bills etc because hes not paying maintenance? She doesnt seem too bright with money so I do wonder if he pays mortgage/bills himself rather than paying her directly and hoping she will pay them instead of spending on fluffy coats and beauty treatments.
From what I've read there seems be some confusion, it could possibly mean maintenance for house (i.e paying for a plumber etc.) Rather than child maintenance. Although I'm not sure which it refers to, as it's about housing I'm leaning towards house maintenance.
I think when thy split it was with the understanding he would move out but pay for all upkeep for the house for a period of time while she looked for a more suitable home. However, she took that as she would stay there indefinitely and expect him to pay for it ongoing. She only did some decorating not that long ago which was mentioned in an article. So the ongoing house bills would be pretty high if she’s abusing it as a method of getting back at him.
It looks to me as he has the kids a good amount of time, would never see them homeless but is sick of the abuse while she lives rent free
It looks to me as he has the kids a good amount of time, would never see them homeless but is sick of the abuse while she lives rent free
Yeah it looks like he has them 50/50. I know his parents help out too, like hers.
If Scott pays child maintenance when they have the kids 50/50 then I think that’s really decent. My high earning ex husband made sure he got 50/50 so he didn’t have to pay a penny. Decent he ain’t!