So far, so good.
It's so scary and awful that some men think they have a right to target women and do this. How awful for that lady to go through such a horrendous ordeal. Women have to be so careful about men they meet who could present themselves as decent but secretly have such dark intentions.It happened to a lady I used to work with. I'm a bit hazy on the details, as it was twenty odd years ago and I'd already left the place then - it was a friend who still worked there who told me.
She was a married lady, probably I'd say in her early 40's (everyone seemed old to me back then) attractive, really outgoing and bubbly. She and a few friends had been involved in the filming of a TV show and were back at the hotel laid on by the TV company. Pretty sure it was in London and not too shabby. They'd all had a really great day and ended up drinking with a bunch of guys. I think her friends all drifted off, at different stages, to bed but my ex-colleague carried on drinking with them. I believe her next memory is waking up naked in a hotel corridor.
Rape kit and DNA tests confirmed she'd been gang raped by several men. I don't believe anyone was ever prosecuted. She's now remarried and lives in another country.
I don't think the thread starter was expecting this to happen - from her "amazing" experience to pretty much every single subsequent post being a horror story. Not sure what they were thinking to be honest - my first thought was rape when I saw the thread title.
Agree, there are some right shits out thereCan't say I have ever been spiked. My mum always taught me to watch my drink like a hawk and I do, and ladies let me tell you I've run into several men who have noticed and some who have even joked about not being able to r*pe me to my face since I watch my drink so closely. I've done this forever and even more after some guy at a college party my sister took me too loudly said he was planning to r*pe me (I was so innocent and didn't understand completely) thank god my sister happened to walk by and hear him and save me, I was 16. Years later a former friend who drank way too much didn't take me seriously when I told her to get her alcohol intake under control. She passed out drunk in this assholes bed who had been leading her on and he did exactly what you think he did. (no clue if he spiked her but wouldn't surprise me). I've been told I hate men, when I don't but there are a lot of bad ones out there and you don't know which ones are bad.
Yes stay safe, you can't control everything but you need to control what you're able to like how much you drink.Agree, there are some right shits out there
This was my exact experience in Zante too over 10 years ago.On holidays in Zante a few years ago. I was in such a state, my friend had to carry me back to the hotel. No memory of the night past a certain point which isn't like me. So glad my friend was there to keep me safe.