Momof5intheStates
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we have all boys and then our rainbow baby turned out to be a girl. (she's 8) Thats when everything changed. She is so jealous of our daughter it's sickening. Honestly, I want nothing to do with her, and neither do her Brothers. My husband doesn't say much, either. He's fed up with her drama.Yes, but it nearly ruined him financially (court case to see his own kids!). We just did our own thing, for many years planned our life around when we could have his kids, to make sure they had a relationship with their younger siblings (we have 2 together) as well. It mostly worked out ok, despite her trying her best to poison them against us. And yes, no need to feel bad about it if it didn't work out - I know from our experience you can do everything possible to be there for them, and they choose not to take it (we had over a year without seeing his son at one point, despite the court order). Hopefully your h's daughter might see things in a different light one day.
I can see murky meagain being just as manipulative, hateful, selfish, etc........