Grackle #2

[Missclassy19]

Grace has such a bold character her personality is very out there imo and I think for him to propose before they live together ( assuming they aren’t ) and before things other would do seems like he’s pretty set on her. She’s extremely opinionsted she’s not an easy going person.
also personally don’t think Maturity can be measured in 21 my age would suggest I’m not mature but the things I’ve been through and/or have done could make people consider me more mature than some 30 year olds and vice versa. I think unless or until it fails gotta give it the benefit of the doubt and hope for the best. She seems genuinely happy. I think some people need to modernise their requirements for marriage. Im sure her parents would’ve had their input if they wasn’t sure about it. They seem like a blunt honest family.
also some of this hostility Is coming off as jealousy the girls happy what more can you want . I’m not educated on Irish travellers but some went to my school. They leave at a young age get married and I’m pretty sure they never have a ‘normal’ job yet they’re married n some if not most are successful. You may not agree w how their marriage is run or the foundation of it but at the end of the day … she’s getting married regardless

just because someone disagrees with you , doesn’t make them ignorant . Apologies - I’ve clearly touched a nerve but there’s no need to be so defensive and rude to those who have different opinions …


And sorry if I did say anything overly critical - it wasn’t my intention to derail the rave thread . I just think she is not the most mature person and this has been reflected in previous pages in comments from others agreeing . You can like someone and also think they’re not mature . And I am sorry , but if you haven’t paid bills , worked a job where you have had traditional colleagues , a boss , and work you don’t necessarily wanted to do , I struggle to see how you can possibly be considered mature enough to get married . I don’t want to criticise her & didn’t think I was but I will now keep any comments that aren’t blowing smoke up her arse to the other thread

I’m so sorry you sound stupid and I know you’re gonna retaliate but paying bills or having a job you hate or a boss you hate doesn’t make you mature that’s the dumbest example I’m so sorry. Take this more as humour not a direct like mean thing but that’s absolute stupid. So people who are currently married and love their job or don’t have traditional colleagues aren’t mature enough … it’s 2022 most companies don’t work how they did 10 or even 5 years ago. A job n bills don’t determine your maturity level. There’s 16 year olds who are way more mature than some adults in there 30s. It’s a mental thing not external things. Again this wasn’t intended to be rude I’m just very blunt but your comment is stupid. My bf lives alone, pays his own bills, has a ‘traditional job’ etc and that boy is like a big baby granted we are early 20s I’m at Uni, even he would say I’m more mature than him lol grace is still very young she doesn’t need to be mature lol all she has to do is be happy and stable. Who’s to say she isn’t paying rent to her parents or does her own food shopping. She technically does have a boss just it’s YouTube and her viewers.

sorry for the rant but some of u are ridiculous. I won’t be commenting anymore lol I’m sure that para is enough to bore u all

 

[CalatheaLater]

Aww that's brilliant!! What did Zoe actually say please as I missed it?

She put up an ig story with vlogmasses she'd been enjoying this this year and tagged Grace as one of them!

 

[I'm not Putin]

So im so ready for all the hate im about to get

bur graces full lengh pic on instagram about her trousers she looks so skinny like i have not watched her in ages so maybe its just a shock i know shes naturally small but she looked smaller then ever

Like worryingly skinny

 

[ahtims]

Did Grace ever give a reason for her bedroom move again? Chloe and Tom always seem to be around, maybe they moved back in and needed the big bedroom Grace had upstairs?

 

[strawb]

Oh how come?

just the vibes are sad, she deleted some stuff etc. also she seemed really excited to mention him here and there but doesn't anymore?

 

[Kit123]

I think I missed it - why is Grace changing rooms?

Don't think she actually mentioned why!

 

[lokiofasgard]

Too much period talk in the last video tbh. I mean it is okay but why mention it like 5 times in a video we get it idk I'm just in a bad mood today ahhaha

 

[I'm not Putin]

I think it is just the angle, also if she had lost a lot of weight her face would presumably look slimmer too but it looks exactly the same imo

Yeah i agree i think its cause i have not watched her in a good while

 

[CabalofBolorneaise]

Idk if this is harsh but her mother really annoys me sometimes. Especially when trying the food she makes. Obvs everyone has an opinion but her dad is always like I guess the encouraging one and he’s funny af ahah but her mum seems very critical which is shown in Grace though which I kinda like that grace critiques things and has a proper opinion on what she likes and dislikes

I think her mum can be, but I thought she was really great in the latest video. I think she’s much more comfortable off camera, the one where she seemed worst to me was that date one and I think it was just because she was uncomfortable.

I couldn’t tell whether she meant she’d given the rest of these cakes to her friends or previous ones, surely they must have given away some though or they’d be sick of the sight of cake now it was a really fun video though, the dynamic between Grace and her dad is fab.

 

[Cemma25]

The fact she seems SO happy is just lovely but proves what a sheltered life she leads which is sad. She’s amazed by being somewhere that isn’t London or New York and she isn’t in a supermarket!! She looks so happy and genuinely think she is. Her wedding looked lovely.

 

[Dojacat101]

just seen this on her stories- anyone see what actually happened?

 

[orlyb1310]

I don’t think either of Grace’s siblings have had children yet and they’ve both been married a little while now. Of course that might not be their choice but they must be more lenient on contraception these days. I can’t see Grace having a baby anytime soon idk. Otherwise would they only have sex in order to conceive and never for the fun of it? Sorry if that comes across ignorant.

 

[orlyb1310]

I wonder if she’ll make her own wedding cake

 

[gisellejoly]

She would be amazing at that. I hope she doesn’t just go down the house wife road, she has so much talent and is still young, she could do so much before settling down

Sadly I think this is what she’ll do, she’s expressed no interest in using her degree at all, which is a huge shame because i remember her winning awards and being interested in product development. now she never even bakes anything skilful for fun. Now she has this boyfriend and things must be serious since she’s abroad with him (that is serious for Christians. And it looks like she’s at his relatives house), she’s most likely just going to go down the tradwife route and remain incredibly sheltered. I know that is a normal trajectory for women from Grace’s church but it’s even worse for her imo. Her sister got married relatively young, but she’s a teacher so is living in the real world and interacting with people daily. Grace doesn’t even have any interaction with anyone outside of her little bubble. I really wish she’d get a job or even start a little business. Honestly it would be more interesting to follow than the copious haul and food trying videos.

 

[orlyb1310]

has she mentioned tinder specifically? all the dating sites now are pretty much the same format, I know people on Muslim ones that are the same swipe left/right format

I seem to remember her mentioning Tinder or Bumble but could totally be making that up!

 

[emm]

I think one of the reasons is because it is an industry that centres around being obsessed with your appearance! I also recall her saying she didn't like those kind of aspects about it, e.g. when she would be told she was too thin or too big.

I also hate those pjs aha.

yeah I agree, is must have been so boring/depressing to be surrounded by that

 

[Missclassy19]

At the end of the day … is it that deep

 

[oshare]

She bought another version of her stuffed teddy because she’s too scared to take him to hotels after hearing horror stories about stuffed animals being stolen.

Yikes can she not just leave it home
That's so bizarre

 

[Whatever123]

I thought she broke up with a boy in the summer? I’m so lost. Wish her all the best though

 

[Kit123]

I actually kind of thought this tiktok came across a bit fake, the sudden not thriving combined with slime (Which seems pretty childish and sudden - has she ever mentioned slime before?). As if she wants the comments asking if she’s okay etc, which isn’t how I normally think about Grace. I think she’s also stuck in a bit of a cycle where the more she mentions being single, the more questions she gets about it.

I hope she is okay though, she’s still so young and lockdown is hardly ideal for anyone to be getting into a new relationship.

Not seen it personally. Yes, definitely. In the last few q&A's she says she gets asked constantly about relationships which must be irritating. I really hope she doesn't change if she did get into a relationship. I find her content so enjoyable and refreshing compared to others her age. I watch it for that reason!