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restingbtcface

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I’m going to sound like a right bitch now, I think all these dodgy GFM have made me jaded but someone local to me has lost his wife to sepsis. Awful, they have 3 kids.
Obvs someone made a GFM and he is constantly sharing it, even posting it in the comments of his post saying she has passed.
He said they didn’t have life insurance.
It’s only been 24 hours.
Is money an immediate thought when your partner dies? Suppose if my husband didn’t have life insurance I’d panic but I don’t know….I don’t even think I’d be on social media tbh
 
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Lurkerlurker2019

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I think the end is close. This is desperately sad. I wish they would take him to a hospice and let him go with dignity and respect. He is actively dying and it's been paraded all over the Internet. Poor little mite.
 
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Miss Pepperpot

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On a lesser scale than others but Jo Solomon from No Verbal Filter.
It was a fundraiser via PayPal rather than GoFundMe because she said PayPal took a smaller cut but the principle is the same.
Her cat was shot and had an air rifle pellet stuck in its shoulder. Jo said she would need major surgery requiring the shoulder to be fused or quite possibly amputation of the leg.
It happened three weeks after she spent almost £15,000 on a new horse lorry, she said she had no savings left, claimed she felt awkward and embarrassed to ask for help but set up a fundraiser which raised over £4000 plus she had some direct donations to her bank account. She actually hit the target within three hours of setting it up and lots of people said she should take it down but she left it up for ages citing "technical difficulties" and got a lot more donations in that time.
In fact its the second time she has done a fundraiser, the first one was a GoFundMe for her horse to have an op on its eye as it had cancer, she even went to the local paper about it.
If any of you follow NVF you will know that Jo is obsessed with money, begs and drops hints constantly about how hard her life is and all the things she wants as well as putting expensive items on her wishlist so the pretence of being embarrassed was purely for show and she could have just sold the lorry again to get the money needed.
The cat made a "miraculous recovery" and she announced within days no surgery was needed, it soon became clear that the second Jo realised that the injury was potentially serious she saw pound signs and set up the fundraiser rather than waiting for the specialist vet to examine the cat and give her verdict on wether surgery would be required which the first vet had told her would be the next step.
People suggested donating the money to a charity, some asked for their money back but Jo just deleted their comments and blocked them. Some did say that they didn't want their money back and Jo said she would use it for the horses vets bills. Again if you know Jo you know that her animals live in disgusting unsafe conditions and rarely get the care they need because Jo thinks she knows better than vets and other professionals.
She talks about the "hate from trolls" she got over the GoFundMe a lot, still insists she refunded money to those who asked and says the vet is amazed that the cat made a full recovery without surgery.
She desperately wanted to set up another fundraiser last year for another of her horses but said she didn't dare because of all the hate she got last time. If she really needs money she should sell the posh horse lorry that has hardly ever transported her horses and is mostly used to pick up hay and dump rubbish!
I don't think it will be the last fundraiser she ever does sadly.
 
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Velocinaptor2

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Christ these people piss me off. I had to have a read here after being invested in the Cash & Saf saga for so long, just wanted to say well done on another fine bout of detective work.

Can’t say I’m surprised, one of my best mates works in the community for a children’s hospital and she’s seen all sorts: from parents covering their living room with Disney tat and telling their non-sick kids to pretend they and their ill sibling are obsessed (the kid doesn’t know who Mickey Mouse is ffs) so they can convince the visiting charity team to fund a trip to Disneyland, to parents hiding life-altering equipment for their kid so they don’t improve to the point that the care and funds they receive will drop off. Way too many scammers and people making their children in to money spinners.
 
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Doherty557

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I never trusted Aria’s mum. If you scroll
Back even before Aria got sick, her whole account was dedicated to Aria despite her having three other kids. I always found it so odd how her teenage children were sidelined and forced to worship their little sister.

what happened to aria was devastating, she seemed a lovely little girl. But when you have other children you absolutely have to pull yourself together for them and continue to live life for them as well as your sick child.

She’s now posting how she is ‘nothing’ without Aria. Imagine her other kids reading that. Am I missing something here?
 
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Has anyone been reading the news about Sir Captains Tom Moore’s daughter?
She has now been forced to step away from the charity and now the charity is also no longer taking donations or making payments due to an ongoing inquiry into its finances. I truly believe Captain Tom raised money for good and with good intention - but now his daughter has destroyed his legacy with her own selfish greed.
 
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TAF I think set the bar for all these scammer’s, I mean parents to jump on the bandwagon. I hate that we all now question peoples sincerity. Aria’s Mum definitely reads here. I follow her on Instagram & what made me think woah, was when she moaned & begged for money for the Dad as his work wasn’t paying him & then later on said about sending cards to his place of work. She gets extremely defensive. She definitely saw what Azaylia’s scum bag parents done & thought I’m going to have abit of that! Shame as their innocent babies names get tarnished by their selfish/greedy parents acts!!
 
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Tofino

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I really, really can’t understand why he’s posting a picture of his legs and the legs of all the professionals with the caption “Monday meetings”. What on earth must they think when they sit there, I presume about to have serious discussions regarding palliative care and he’s sat there snapping a photo?!
 
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GalaxyGirl70

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Someone needs to tell her that these natural oncology sharks are laughing all the way to the bank and her son is paying the price, not her.
 
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Doherty557

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This was posted in March, does this mean before that he drives? 🤔
this is MAD. A normal family doesn’t have the spare funds to buy a teenager a car (especially before even passing a test!!), let alone a family that apparently have to raise funds for their sick daughter.

this thread is eye opening, I’m actually disgusted at this woman. She’s used that poor little girl to find herself, it’s sickening. Would love to see a channel 4 investigation documentary on people like this!!!
 
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Hate how if you call out people on their shitty behaviour, you get labelled a troll. Not one person here have been negative towards Aria. They have just RIGHTLY questioned about the GFM & also called out the Mother’s wrong behaviour!!
 
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raspberryjuice

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It will be for all the extras beyond what the fund provides. I don’t know if it includes a wake afterwards for example. But I agree, it seems to be the default to set up a GFM within 24hrs of someone passing.

I would hate to ask in that way. I may ask a close family member for help if I was really struggling. But ultimately a funeral is the very last thing I would ever be able to provide for my child and I would want it to come from me.
When we had to arrange my nephews funeral the Childrens Funeral Fund covered a basic coffin (choice of 4 colours), crematorium or burial fees and the funeral directors services (collection of his body, hearse and preparing his body for the chapel of rest) were free of charge. Everything else had to be paid for including church fee, flowers, family car, wake, order of service, urn and if you wanted for example a wicker basket rather than a basic coffin. The burial costs are covered but not always the plot (which you may also want a plot big enough for parents in future which adds to the cost) or headstone. Obviously some of these things are optional but as it’s the very last thing parents can do I can see why people do resort to things like GFM to fund it as you don’t get a huge amount of time to pay and it’s not usually something you can plan for.
We didn’t use GFM as we were in a position as a family to support Mum to give him the send off she wanted, but not everyone will be able to do that. We also found a lot of places would offer their services for cost/heavily discounted as it was a baby’s funeral such as the florist, the venue for the wake and the printers for the order of service but it still adds up quickly so I wouldn’t judge anyone who did resort to using GFM.
 
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GalaxyGirl70

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It's a sad update but I'm glad they're not actively treating the poor wee lad anymore. Why she had to say about being off work is bewildering though. I wish Dillon a peaceful and quiet journey. I'm glad they're in hospital with the support of the staff around them.

I never imagined wishing it but there was a point when my Dad was dying that I was just ready for it to happen because I couldn't bear another day of seeing his pain. His face changed immediately after he'd died and it was as if all the lines disappeared. Gave me huge comfort.
 
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Queeniebee

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I can’t believe that most immediate family wouldn’t get compassionate leave and need a wage funded by go fund me.
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Whatever people think of them and their behaviour I don’t agree that just because Oz can work from home he shouldn’t have time off. Surely regardless of wanting to spend time with Dillan he wouldn’t be in the headspace to be at work anyway.
I'm not saying he should be working from home my comment was purely because she said the GFM was so that none of them
Had to work. You shouldn't be thinking like that in this situation. I said it before in a previous post there's thousands of families out there going through the same thing who are probably in debt but begging for people to support there lifestyle should be the last thing on there minds. If they can't afford rent/mortgage then you downsize it's a way of life! My partner takes time off work unpaid to take me to hospital appointments so some months we do struggle but we adapt our lifestyle around that months money not splashing out on stairage organisers or cleaners
 
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GalaxyGirl70

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When my Dad was in a hospice, we were taken to one side and told how the body shuts down and how draining it can be to have to interact with visitors. They also told us to imagine trying to sleep and someone sat on a chair watching you. So we kept a rota where one of us was with Dad most of the day/evening but sat away from his bed unless he was awake, and reading a book/watching a tablet.

I can imagine that if they're being advised, she's not listening to a word of it...... I've lost a child, and know the absolute heart pounding terror that encompasses every cell of your body but I just don't understand this behaviour. It's like a form of cruelty.
 
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Queeniebee

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I’ve followed her for a while now and my heart breaks for him but this post did get to me a bit, they need money to continue to pay their bills; so to continue to fund their very lavish lifestyle large home, fancy car, designer clothes etc so they can not work and focus on Dilly, I can sympathise with not wanting to have to worry about money at a time like this but they’re always wearing the latest expensive clothes etc they could sell so much, that car is worth a fortune, they could downsize, but instead everyone else has to dig deep so they can keep it all, doesn’t sit right with me tbh
Excatly this! You sell everything you own to be able to live aswell as paying for his treatments and then you turn to GFM if not! Not live in a apartment over looking the Thames whilst begging to found their lifestyle
 
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Bb12

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Hate one for kids funerals, they are free, we had to have one. Not only that everywhere we went for the extras either did it free or at a massive discount l the lady who did our flowers charged 100, when we went to collect she gave us the little card to write on. Asked which one and I said daughter, she asked was it for my daughter and how old was she. I said stillborn and yes mine. She then said ok that’s £20, she ended up charging for just the few flowers she had to order in. All the flowers she had in stock and her time were free, the lady who did the speaking usually charged a couple of 100,. But she also did it free and said if we did pay her she would just donate it straight to a baby loss charity, and all said they would never want to profit from a child’s death.
Not everyone is so nice
We lost family member when she was 1
Funeral director charged huge amounts
No discounts for anything he
Tried to bleed them dry
 
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Cdinvoice

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Name deleted . Why . Everyone knew arias name
Bacuse it wasn’t prescribed to Aria, it was another child’s medication/
I know you knew the answer to your question btw 🤣🤣)
Also how risky! I don’t think I would have dared, were the medical team aware that she was taking it when it hadn’t been prescribed legitimately for Aria

Multiple fundraisers for supposed ongoing private medical, when in reality the drugs were given to them by parents of a child who sadly didn’t make it.

Eh?!?!? I’ve just read all that back,, have I got it correct?
 
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bumblebees19

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Totally agree Wonka 💜
I want to go and scoop him up and take him home to be snug watching films and having any treat he wants, it’s not about them and their wants at this point, stop trying to make everything “normal” it’s not …
The roid rage comments are way across the line for me. He is exhausted, facing things most of us can’t imagine, undergoing rigorous treatment. Give him some basic respect.
 
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