Anyone else here not give a tit about pronouns?
Pronouns are for other people’s convenience. They're not for the person being talked about, and they have nothing to do with respect. They don’t exist for the subject’s own validation.
It’s nobody’s business what other people think, and forcing others to validate your fantasy self-image is intrusive and demanding. Pronoun demands are like an honorific.
Choosing your own pronouns is a privilege, not a right. I only kowtow to them when I have to avoid trouble.