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The non binary stuff still persists though, FFS

I wonder if some 'trans', spotting the recent backlash will flock to the non binary identity as a 'middle ground' 🤷‍♀️🙄 like a way of still saying they are not men or women without blatantly saying they are trans. I still think there will be mileage in the 'i am neither sex' category because then they can still mutilate themselves and parody womanhood or manhood.
Just another bloke who gets his kicks out of putting on a frock


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I’ve been reading Cosmopolitan magazine for years on and off. It went downhill a while ago but I like something mindless for just skimming throug in the evening. I won’t bother anymore as thanks to their Pride month feature I was greeted with several more or less naked men claiming be woman or something, I didn’t bother reading. The whole section seemed to only concern trans, nothing about homosexuality and bisexuality. Closed it, won’t download an issue again.

CSD was in my town also this weekend and their chosen slogan from this year roughly translates to „we are queer, we are loud, you are taking our right away“. Which rights? Unsure, there wasn’t any answer to that. And even my bf, who is not exactly terf-y was asking whether they are again protesting for so-called rights that never belonged to them anyway. Guess he has had enough of the bull as well now.
 
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Which category was he in though?
Best Actor, but still, he's parodying a woman and people will still pander to him saying he's the first non-binary to win etc etc.

I think Non-binary is going to be a label more men flock to in the rising backlash against the 'transwomen' trend, because it's an area they can claim and still parody women.

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/08/theater/tony-award-winners.html

Just look at the way he's dressed himself thinking he's an elegant woman :sick:

But really despite the fuss about being the first 'out nonbinary' to win, he's just another bloke winning an award. At least it was the 'actor' category this time, but next time there's still be some NB insisting on the female actress category.
 
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Majority of us (including you) in the LGB thread has said such from the very beginning, predicting and warning it would be this way when the collateral hit big time.
The issue is now, if LGB people now did things specific to them, they are now labeled as some kind of bigot - for not including Trans and the other alphabet hangers on.

So the whole LGB cause has been devalued and pushed aside for others who feel they are more important.

I highly doubt I'll ever attend a pride event ever again.

Until the LGB community wake up and understand they've been played for fools, and Pride goes back to a day of celebrations - then quite frankly I'm not interested.
 
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Oh yeah, that's possible - but statistically the vast majority of MP's/government would not agree with trans ideology but they are not coming out and saying that.
Most people - normal folk and MPs - don't say anything about their GC views in their work life and just avoid the issue, I am not a WS fan btw, but I am so pleased he has publicly spoken out.
If a TRA was to come up to me and attempt to shove some propaganda leaflet into my hand, regarding 'Trans rights' - specifically the right to invade women's spaces, health provisions, and sports - then I would not be so quiet.

Until people start to stand up en mass to these me, me, me bullies, they will just get even worse.
 
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If a TRA was to come up to me and attempt to shove some propaganda leaflet into my hand, regarding 'Trans rights' - specifically the right to invade women's spaces, health provisions, and sports - then I would not be so quiet.

Until people start to stand up en mass to these me, me, me bullies, they will just get even worse.
That's exactly what women are doing now. We're seeing it with the Darlington nurses, the Peggie case and more women feeling able to speak out.
I noticed an influx of new posters on this thread when the SC ruling was made, women who previously felt they couldn't even comment on an anonymous forum in case they got backlash or shunned by other Tattlers.
It's a tricky time for women, we don't have the male privilege allowing us to just tell people to duck off any time we like. Growing up we are constantly told to be gentle, be nice, be small and don't make waves. It's difficult for those of us brought up like this to break that mindset.
 
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Who knows! Actresses now say they're actors, so it's difficult to tell!
Recently it seems that the only ones who claim to be "actresses" are TW actors.

But I admit I did make the assumption that the award was in a female category, so I may be wrong.
 
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Best Actor, but still, he's parodying a woman and people will still pander to him saying he's the first non-binary to win etc etc.

I think Non-binary is going to be a label more men flock to in the rising backlash against the 'transwomen' trend, because it's an area they can claim and still parody women.

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/08/theater/tony-award-winners.html

Just look at the way he's dressed himself thinking he's an elegant woman :sick:

But really despite the fuss about being the first 'out nonbinary' to win, he's just another bloke winning an award. At least it was the 'actor' category this time, but next time there's still be some NB insisting on the female actress category.


Didn't Emma Corrin win a Tony? So not the first 'non binary' to win *deep eye roll*
 
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That's exactly what women are doing now. We're seeing it with the Darlington nurses, the Peggie case and more women feeling able to speak out.
I noticed an influx of new posters on this thread when the SC ruling was made, women who previously felt they couldn't even comment on an anonymous forum in case they got backlash or shunned by other Tattlers.
It's a tricky time for women, we don't have the male privilege allowing us to just tell people to duck off any time we like. Growing up we are constantly told to be gentle, be nice, be small and don't make waves. It's difficult for those of us brought up like this to break that mindset.
Absolutely. This is why I try and stick my head above the parapet a bit, even on social media and stuff. I've often said to someone spouting the usual TRA nonsense, "I'm not responding to you because I want to, or think I can, change your mind. I'm responding to you so other women know they're not alone when they think you're full of tit."

At work, I'm surprised I haven't been spoken to to be honest. I think it's only by virtue of mostly working from home and having a boss who couldn't give a tit that I haven't been. It's not so much that I'm principled (I mean, I try to be but I'm human) as much as I'm congenitally unable to keep my trap shut 😂.

I don't blame women for being frightened though. And I deliberately don't have a LinkedIn or any online presence that could link me to my home or work because I know these narcissistic little men are psychos. As ever, women are on the back foot and it makes me so, so angry. "Just be nice, just be quiet, just be kind, just let men define your entire experience like they've done since the dawn of history". duck off. No.
 
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Absolutely. This is why I try and stick my head above the parapet a bit, even on social media and stuff. I've often said to someone spouting the usual TRA nonsense, "I'm not responding to you because I want to, or think I can, change your mind. I'm responding to you so other women know they're not alone when they think you're full of tit."

At work, I'm surprised I haven't been spoken to to be honest. I think it's only by virtue of mostly working from home and having a boss who couldn't give a tit that I haven't been. It's not so much that I'm principled (I mean, I try to be but I'm human) as much as I'm congenitally unable to keep my trap shut 😂.

I don't blame women for being frightened though. And I deliberately don't have a LinkedIn or any online presence that could link me to my home or work because I know these narcissistic little men are psychos. As ever, women are on the back foot and it makes me so, so angry. "Just be nice, just be quiet, just be kind, just let men define your entire experience like they've done since the dawn of history". duck off. No.
Yes “be kind” is a form of submission, giving other people a pass (the irony) to act and behave as they wish. It’s a crock of tit to get mainly women to conform to societal expectations that we are care givers. duck that.
 
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Yes “be kind” is a form of submission, giving other people a pass (the irony) to act and behave as they wish. It’s a crock of tit to get mainly women to conform to societal expectations that we are care givers. duck that.
It's never "be kind" to women either, is it? We exist to aborb everyone's bull and are still told to be kind even when basic humanity is being denied us.

Also, I don't think it's kind to lie. I'm not going to tell a man I think he's a woman when it's not true. Decent people tell the truth even when it's difficult. "Kindness" in this context is just pure cowardice. Doing the nice, easy thing and doing the right thing are not the same.
 
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I've just received this email on a list I'm subscribed to.

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This very much depends on what they are expressing. Bondage? Furries? Being naked in public? Lewd behaviour?

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If a TRA was to come up to me and attempt to shove some propaganda leaflet into my hand, regarding 'Trans rights' - specifically the right to invade women's spaces, health provisions, and sports - then I would not be so quiet.

Until people start to stand up en mass to these me, me, me bullies, they will just get even worse.
Well yes, me too .... I actually said most people don't speak out about their gender critical views in work but that's great if you feel you can do that 👍
 
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Well yes, me too .... I actually said most people don't speak out about their gender critical views in work but that's great if you feel you can do that 👍
I was in a meeting at work last week and 4 of the people there were proudly displaying the progress flag by wearing pin badges and rainbow lanyards.
It's nauseating, I had to avert my eyes to concentrate on what was being said.
 
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He was a tax lawyer. I guarantee HMRC would not accept that they should allow someone to evade tax because it would hurt their feelings to pay.
 
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You've missed this corker:

"Despite turning off interaction with fans, the publication asked Nick if he believes the debate may overshadow the new series.
He added: ' I don't know but maybe it shouldn't blow over? We shouldn't just hope it will go away because if makes it easier maybe we should educate ourselves.' "
Most people who educate themselves - like JKR herself - end up as Terfs
 
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He was a tax lawyer. I guarantee HMRC would not accept that they should allow someone to evade tax because it would hurt their feelings to pay.
Worth a try, my feelings are very hurt each month when I look at my payslip.
 
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Our local "family" newspaper today has scores of pics from Saturday's Pride parade. Several of the images are of the fetish mob in dog masks.
:sick: :sick::sick::mad::mad::mad:
 
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