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I know Tribunal Tweets can’t capture everything (and isn’t it ridiculous that observers have to prove that they are accredited journalists, whereas Upton says he’s a female and can access a single sex changing room just because of his lady feelz), but I can’t help thinking that some of the more batshit stuff is being missed:

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I'm gutted that I never managed to access the tribunal. I would have loved to listen to and look at him, to get a feel of what he's like for myself. Tribunal Tweets are great, but it's only the gist, rather than word for word, so it must miss a lot of the ridiculousness of him. It's a shame there's no facility to watch a recording of it.
 
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They're deliberately hiding evidence (or trying to) I've always been told - never put anything in writing that you wouldn't be happy to have read out to you at an employment tribunal because they can and will demand to see everything. There's no way HR at NHS Fife are unaware of this. No bleeping way.
I was told similar - Never put anything in writing that you aren't prepared to see projected onto the wall of a courtroom in letters a foot high.
 
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Surely all cases before Court need to be held in their entirety for the judge to make an accurate ruling? Stop start surely helps him?
 
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He’s such a narc that he thinks that all this is because NC “doesn’t like him”. Someone should gently explain the nature of the tribunal that ultimately, he set in motion by complaining that SP wouldn’t stay in the changing rooms while he was there. View attachment 3413682
She doesn't bleeping know you, pal. The narcissism of it - to believe that anything other than fawning adoration is equivalent to dislike or hatred.

You are participating in adversarial legal proceedings that are a direct consequence of your own behaviour you irrelevant little wick. She's not your mum or your downtrodden beige wife and has no obligation to hold your hand and tell you you're really a lady.

They're always saying "trans people don't owe you xyz" but think that the rest of the world owes them snivelling deference. Get in the bin.
 
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Sandie’s crowdfunder is over £14k now with £100s donated every ten minutes. 875+ donations.

Upton’s is at a measley £1583 with only £75 donated since 5pm. 117 donations.
 
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Same here. I absolutely loathe him. He thinks he’s so clever. I’ve met people like him who twist questions and play word games and think they are so superior than everyone else, when all the while, they are actually showing they aren’t as smart as they think.
The one that really got me was the biological woman question. His reply was along the lines of, “I’m biological and I’m a woman so yes, I am a biological woman”. He knows fine well what was being asked. He can’t answer honestly, but in twisting words, he’s lying, though I bet he feels so clever.
Also the biological sex being nebulous. How the duck did he ever get a medical degree? Does he understand how reproduction actually works? Honestly, how does he think species continue to survive if he doesn’t get the concept of biological sex being real and binary.
if anything is nebulous it’s all this gender wooo.
I would not wanted to be treated by him, not just because he’s trans and creepy, but because he’s a bleeping idiot who places ideological beliefs over scientific facts.
BIB - Same!

I swear like a docker but never use the see-you-next-Tuesday word. NEVER! It's horrible and it disgusts me so much that I rarely even think it in the silence of my head. I just don't. 😇

Today I spontaneously snarled "You gross kh^nt" - It just shot out, unbidden. :sick::oops:😲 I actually slapped both of my hands over my mouth, like a child, I was so shocked at myself. I'm now terrified that having broken my duck I'll be shouting it all over the place. 😬 😦
 
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Sandie’s crowdfunder is over £14k now with £100s donated every ten minutes. 875+ donations.

Upton’s is at a measley £1583 with only £75 donated since 5pm. 117 donations.
Now crossed £15k since my last post and Upton is still stuck on £1583

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Sandie’s crowdfunder is over £14k now with £100s donated every ten minutes. 875+ donations.

Upton’s is at a measley £1583 with only £75 donated since 5pm. 117 donations.
What a shock the screeching "be kind" brigade aren't willing to put their money where their mouths are.

I've chucked a few quid in for Sandie. It must be so stressful. A 30 year career in an underpaid caring profession, only to end up in court because a bloke in a frock thinks you looked at him funny and is annoyed you don't want to take your clothes off in front of him. The absurdity of it.
 
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Or any time to be fair
Maybe she has low self esteem? Cosplaying women aside he comes across as a selfish man prone to sulking and pettiness.
I mean sometimes my husband people me to tears but at least he's funny and knows how to behave in public.
 
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How on earth is someone expected to approach him and express discomfort while still using his approved language? You would have to say I feel uncomfortable with you in the changing room because you're female which is nonsense.

I knew he would claim that people should talk to him directly. If SP had done an official grievance instead he would have been howling that she should have come to him directly.
How can he say he’s sad they wouldn’t approach him? Sandie did approach him, and this tribunal is the result of that.
 
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How can he say he’s sad they wouldn’t approach him? Sandie did approach him, and this tribunal is the result of that.
The constant shifting goalposts. However she'd approached him, he'd have expected it a different way, in a different tone, with a different audience, at a different time.

It's clear that his idea of "respect" is total pandering to his "identity". There's no winning. Even her not going in the changing room at the same time as him isn't good enough.
 
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Did I read somewhere earlier Dr Upton saying something about just wanting respect re changing room incident? Can someone point me in the right direction of this part of the questioning, if I have indeed not made it up.
 
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