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She reported it to the authorities 6 years ago and instead they tried and do her for blackmail.
Appalling. How many more of these cases are there that have gone uninvestigated?

I see the comments on the original post have been turned off. I appreciate it will attract some comments from some unpleasant racist people, but there is something to be said about why these offences are being committed primarily by men from a Pakistani Muslim background. It isn't racist to point out that some cultures foster attitudes towards women that enable and endorse this kind of behaviour.
 
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That disgusting pig of a man with the pregnancy fetish makes my skin crawl. How selfish and cruel do you have to be to expect women who have actually suffered the loss of a pregnancy to indulge him in such a perverse fetish. If any women supported him in this, they have serious problems. Far out, I hope that creep just rots.
 
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This summer a young woman in shorts and T-shirt was in front of me in a charity shop waiting to be served. She was tanned but had many "healed" self-harm scars the entire length of her legs, her arms were also scarred. So sad.
Yes, I have them. But I don't show them. (Too wrinkly to wear revealing stuff anyway thank God.) Sometimes I think they're a private reminder of the struggles I've survived and conquered, at other times I deeply regret doing it. And that's the other problem with transitioning children and young people: what feels like a necessity in your teens / 20s is very often something you have a completely different view on when you're older, calmer and more resilient.
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That disgusting pig of a man with the pregnancy fetish makes my skin crawl. How selfish and cruel do you have to be to expect women who have actually suffered the loss of a pregnancy to indulge him in such a perverse fetish. If any women supported him in this, they have serious problems. Far out, I hope that creep just rots.
I think it's quite common, if you look on forums for spouses of AGP men, eg the trans widows threads on mumsnet, you'll see that loads of these men 'come out' as trans when their wives are pregnant or breastfeeding.
 
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Yes. If you’ve changed your gender marker on your NHS records (which anyone can do), all previous record of your actual sex is expunged.
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and this is what it says on the government website.
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l‘ve seen TIMs showing their invitation letter on X (and crowing about getting invited for breast screening too although I shouldn’t imagine many actually go to that as it hurts like duck)

here’s the link for the government page: https://www.gov.uk/government/publi...lation-screening-information-for-trans-people
Yes but there's a difference between being invited (because the system hasn't realised) and actually having it done. I would imagine they would be turned away when they got to the appointment.

I got turned away because they had accidentally invited me 6 months too early and they only realised when I showed up so I can't imagine they would actually go through with a screening when they got there.
 
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It astounds me how we are so much happier talking about mental health nowadays but no one’s allowed to call this out for what it is
What a bleeping bleep .
And the ones who banned the Women for speaking out on it are utter bleeps as well.
 
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What a bleeping bleep .
And the ones who banned the Women for speaking out on it are utter bleeps as well.
and he’s still living in the house as his actual kids …. What a head fuxk for them too!
 
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and he’s still living in the house as his actual kids …. What a head fuxk for them too!
He won't care. Only he must be validated, in his eyes......
I feel sorry for them, lumbered with the bleep...
 
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Yes but there's a difference between being invited (because the system hasn't realised) and actually having it done. I would imagine they would be turned away when they got to the appointment.

I got turned away because they had accidentally invited me 6 months too early and they only realised when I showed up so I can't imagine they would actually go through with a screening when they got there.
I bloody hope so.
 
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The sentencing in the Mazan case / Pelicot case has been today. So many women cheering her on as she walked in.
 
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Her statement is here. What an extraordinary woman she is.

How many nights has she sat and cried with the strain of it all, I wonder? And then the next day stood up straight, shoulders back, head held high and determinedly strode the gauntlet of the press - a magnificent example to her supporters.

I'll bet (if the comments that people have reported are anything to go by) that as well as support, there has been catcalling, nasty e-mails, social media criticism etc. This can't have been easy for her.

Wonderful woman!
 
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India Willoughby is on one today. He’s made a four part short video series called something libellous like “The Utter Deranged Madness of JK Rowling” which is basically him sitting on what looks like a bus (an official day trip from the mental institution where he lives, perhaps?), holding his phone up at a stupid angle to try to make himself look feminine , and ranting about JKR like the misogynistic obsessed cunting p that he is.
 
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This summer a young woman in shorts and T-shirt was in front of me in a charity shop waiting to be served. She was tanned but had many "healed" self-harm scars the entire length of her legs, her arms were also scarred. So sad.
Sometimes it’s showing off; some of us (myself included) have been in recovery from SH so long we don’t want to wear long sleeves all the time
 
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“From the moment I got the script, I was excited to share my journey to help empower other trans youth. I knew this would be a very important conversation. Trans stories matter, and they deserve to be heard,” she told Deadline."

He was 14 when he applied for the role. So presumably he's been transed since childhood. Terrible.

"Her mother, Keisha, told Deadline: “There may be some parents out there who are not ready to have that conversation, but this is the world that we live in and everyone should be represented. Everyone deserves to be recognised. And it felt like it was just another setback for the LGBTQ community, because it’s very hard on transgender teenagers … transgender people, period.”

Woomp there it is, mom pushing the agenda. Everyone should be represented? EVERYONE? Get a grip. Also, how is it a setback? For such a small percentage of the population, trans people are featured heavily in mainstream media; I would wager they are overrepresented compared to other minority groups.
 
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