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You would hope that the people that came here just to accuse us of being horrible, anti gay, meanies or that kept failing to understand what XY chromosomes make a person.. might decide to give it a read 🤞🏻
I think there are too many big words for them. Like XY.
 
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It blows my mind that we have got to a position where people (mostly women, ffs) think it's kind to let men get on with assaulting women unchallenged.
It’s honestly kind of making me feel like anything is possible after this 😔 I’m scared.
 
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It blows my mind that we have got to a position where people (mostly women, ffs) think it's kind to let men get on with assaulting women unchallenged.
Yes it's incredible isn't it? And in my experience always women defending this crap. I haven't met a single man in my private life who thinks that dudes in dresses are women.

I went out last night for a friend's birthday and everyone agreed that the boxing was a travesty. My male friend ranted about stupid pronouns on email signatures. He said as soon as he sees a pronoun on an email signature the person is filed in his mind as a complete idiot 😁
 
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Article in the mail today. Colleagues have raised concerns about the “unlawful imposition” of trans ideology on their department and are made to feel like bigots if they object to him flaunting his fetish at work or refuse to wholeheartedly support gender ideology. Indeed! These people are wholly unelected, and in a position to massively influence government policy. They should not have such an untouchable position of power they can compel others to unquestioningly accept their beliefs and act as though they don’t even have to observe such basics as dressing appropriately for work.
From that article:

The letter, seen by this newspaper, says that they are made to feel 'cruel, prejudiced and transphobic' for not agreeing 'that any man who says he is a woman is actually a woman'.

It adds: 'Lesbians and women generally in the department are being silenced in the workplace and our rights are being undermined.'

The letter also raised issues with Tweedale specifically, who they claimed had 'played a key role in the attempted ideological takeover' of the department and 'states that any disagreement with gender identity theory is far right, transphobic and exclusionary'.

One key concern was Tweedale's apparent position as the National Diversity Ambassador on Trans Issues for DWP which the civil servant has advertised on online profiles and uses to give training on 'trans issues' throughout the Civil Service.

In response to the letter, the permanent secretary's office confirmed in an email that 'we do not have a National Diversity Ambassador on Trans Issues for DWP role'.


Responding to their other concerns, the email said: 'I can reassure you that my team and I work closely with Peter and our Departmental Diversity and Inclusion Champions to ensure that everyone in the workplace is treated with respect, regardless of differing backgrounds, beliefs, and perspectives, and in line with our DWP Values.'

Last month Tweedale was awarded an honorary degree by the University of Bradford in recognition of a career which has 'helped people through trade unionism' and also 'her diversity and equality work'.

A DWP spokesman said: 'We don't comment on individual staffing matters.'


In any normal scenario, this man would have been sacked for bullying, intimidation, sexual harassment, lying and inappropriate behaviour, ie gross misconduct in the workplace. Yet he’s been allowed to rule the roost. And the DWP have nothing to say on the matter. I’m so, so sick of it.
 
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One key concern was Tweedale's apparent position as the National Diversity Ambassador on Trans Issues for DWP which the civil servant has advertised on online profiles and uses to give training on 'trans issues' throughout the Civil Service.

In response to the letter, the permanent secretary's office confirmed in an email that 'we do not have a National Diversity Ambassador on Trans Issues for DWP role'.


This was the bit that struck me. He has apparently given himself a new and imaginary title, and assumed a role to match.

Surely this is gross misconduct?

Plus, as has been pointed out - if women dressed in this manner, they would have had "the talk".
 
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At a previous job, there was a trans woman who liked to wear fishnet tights, leather mini skirt, random baggy T-shirt and a tit quality wig. I didn’t see him every day as he was in a different department, but when I did, it would always be inappropriate.
There was a dress policy, with some young girls threatened with being sent home to change when if they wore a strappy vest top in the summer (most would borrow a hoodie from a mate to prevent this).
But the trans woman could strut about the office and not one manager would have a word.
I thought it was wrong then (before I was a terf) but this is what happens when managers are too scared to actually manage people.
I don’t give a duck about what fetishware you put on behind closed doors, but I don’t want to see it, especially not when I am trying to work!
 
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Latest Male on Female match is on now - I’m at ice skating and have resorted to updates from the Telegraph! Anyone watching?

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Just reading this very depressing story in the DM that reads like an advert for Onlyfans

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This is why so many girls think OnlyFans is an easy route to big money. I hate the way the media dance around the reality too. I doubt she’s earning £30k a month, so why the lie? And if she is, she must be doing some seriously degrading things.

If the headline had said “19 year old daughter goes into porn” or even “becomes a porn star”, well that more accurately describes what a grubby and demeaning choice this girl has made.

The comments are actually pretty good. Things like society has gone down the tube if people think bragging about selling their bodies is OK, selling their soul and their body for cash, I feel sorry for girls who have been fed the line it’s empowering, “this is another version of prostitution”…
 
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Just reading this very depressing story in the DM that reads like an advert for Onlyfans

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This is why so many girls think OnlyFans is an easy route to big money. I hate the way the media dance around the reality too. I doubt she’s earning £30k a month, so why the lie? And if she is, she must be doing some seriously degrading things.

If the headline had said “19 year old daughter goes into porn” or even “becomes a porn star”, well that more accurately describes what a grubby and demeaning choice this girl has made.

The comments are actually pretty good. Things like society has gone down the tube if people think bragging about selling their bodies is OK, selling their soul and their body for cash, I feel sorry for girls who have been fed the line it’s empowering, “this is another version of prostitution”…
I do agree with you but I’m sick of all the shame being put on the girls compared to the men that use it. Would Sammy Winward not speak to her son for months if she found out he was paying for only fans content? Even if she did, it wouldn’t make the news. Look at the support Huw Edwards initially got when people thought that was the worst he had done. He didn’t need to lose his job over it, private life is private.
 
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I'm beginning to think that a lot of people defending Khelif actually think he's trans. They're so desperate to be seen as right on and "TWAW" that it makes them unable to read and understand the case.
Quoting myself like nobody, but the more I think about it the more certain I am. They read Khelif as male and therefore assume he's trans because - despite their protestations to the contrary - they read transwomen as male. Bigots.
 
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