Gender Discussion #111

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My immediate response to the headline 'I'm a non binary mother and I'm constantly misgendered' is NOBODY CARES. Why is this drivel in a newspaper? A non binary mother wtf.
Literally. A friend said something about JK Rowling being unpleasant, I put her straight and she went, "but what about... *insert nonsense about some individual genderfeels here*" and the entire pub heard me say "I DON'T CARE".

The best answer to the majority of this tit is so what? I don't expect anyone to give a flying duck about my personal sense of special unique identity when they're trying to live their own lives because I'm not a narcissist.
 
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I couldn't finish that tedious pile of rit. Non binary people always think they're special and unique but they all say the same spiel about not being like other girls or boys then having an epiphany and blah blah blah.
On Reddit, I sometimes start to read a thread, (in completely non-contentious areas, of the forum), and the minute I see the OP proclaiming that they are non-binary, or identify as... my eyes roll, and I read no further. It's got nothing to do with anything, and it's a load of codswallop.
 
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Sure, you can police the expression (or lack thereof) of a belief, but you can’t enforce a ‘compulsory’ belief, because however robust the legislation, it can’t control what happens inside someone’s head.

There can be compulsory compliance with an ideology, but no one can make specific thoughts compulsory (or, conversely, verboten).
They've tried that with abortion provider exclusion zones. Nobody is allowed to pray near them and people have been arrested for being in the vicinity because it is believed they may be praying in their heads. Whatever you think on the issue of abortion, believing police officers have the power to detect thoughts and arrest people for the thoughts they think the person may be having is already here. Civil liberties are truly precious because once they start to be removed from people one disagrees with, the closer one is to losing one's own rights.
 
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I hope I’m welcome here. I don’t agree with every take in this thread. I do support people’s right to transition if they genuinely feel like they’re trapped in the wrong body- it can happen. And I probably wouldn’t really call myself a radical feminist either, so I’m not a TERF in that sense.

However, I think this “non binary” thing is a load of nonsense. All it is, is tomboys or camp men trying to give themselves a fancy label so that they themselves can say they’re trans without any of the plans to undergo a transition. Non-binary is not the same as trans, trans is short for transition. People calling themselves “they” as if they’re multiple people (I know some will say, haven’t you just used the word “they” in the singular with “themselves” and “they’re”? No I haven’t… I’ve used it in the plural because there’s multiple non-binary people)- it’s ridiculous. It reduces being male or female to a stereotype.

Because let’s say you were being attacked and the perpetrator was non-binary, if somebody around you said “they’re coming”, you’d think it was in reference to multiple people and be scared for your life, and then you’d turn around and see only one.
 
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I hope I’m welcome here. I don’t agree with every take in this thread. I do support people’s right to transition if they genuinely feel like they’re trapped in the wrong body- it can happen. And I probably wouldn’t really call myself a radical feminist either, so I’m not a TERF in that sense.

However, I think this “non binary” thing is a load of nonsense. All it is, is tomboys or camp men trying to give themselves a fancy label so that they themselves can say they’re trans without any of the plans to undergo a transition. Non-binary is not the same as trans, trans is short for transition. People calling themselves “they” as if they’re multiple people (I know some will say, haven’t you just used the word “they” in the singular with “themselves” and “they’re”? No I haven’t… I’ve used it in the plural because there’s multiple non-binary people)- it’s ridiculous. It reduces being male or female to a stereotype.

Because let’s say you were being attacked and the perpetrator was non-binary, if somebody around you said “they’re coming”, you’d think it was in reference to multiple people and be scared for your life, and then you’d turn around and see only one.
I think its just a way of saying that they don't identify with stereotypes e.g. being girly and wearing pink. Of course its performative nonsense because women don't have to totter around in high heels wearing pink sparkly dresses. I think its a great shame they can't just embrace being a woman who isn't conforming.
Some maybe asexual and not interested in sex with men or women as well.
 
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My immediate response to the headline 'I'm a non binary mother and I'm constantly misgendered' is NOBODY CARES. Why is this drivel in a newspaper? A non binary mother wtf.
Yeah I don't use my married name or the title Mrs. People refer to me as Mrs MarriedtoMrPegs all the bleeping time - wheres my article in the newspaper that no one gives the shiniest rit about?

I WANT MY ARTICLE IN THE NEWSPAPER THAT NO ONE GIVES THE SHINIEST rit ABOUT!!
*huffs and stamps foot*
 
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Just came across this on Instagram and this is exactly the kind of thing many of us and J.K Rowling (Jo to us) speak about so much about gay children being convinced by people like Webberley that they’re trans. I , myself would’ve been told by “experts” that I was trans if I was a child today. But , I just grew up to be a raving gay man 😂

Thankfully I grew up in the 90’s.

 
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It beats me why anyone expects us to take weak and cowardly individuals like that specimen seriously.
 
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Who doesn't enjoy a romantic love song with a video to watch??

It's even been suggested that Euan and Willoughboy could sing a duet!

Sit back, relax and turn your speakers........down. Off. Turn them off.

 
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In the comments I found this gem. It's old, but I've not seen it before.

You can turn the volume up for this one.

 
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How can you ‘legislate for a compulsory belief’? 🙄

People can believe absolutely anything at all, no matter how incomprehensible or offensive it might be to anyone else, and there’s nothing anyone can do to change that.
The Tudors gave state mandated belief a go - didn't work out so well, really
 
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Those of you visiting the Edinburgh Festival might be interested in this - added bonus is an appearance by Alistair Campbell's daugther - should be a laugh a minute (or not).

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