Gender Discussion #108

[IKickLikeKatya]

I know my response here will make many think I'm old fashioned and prudish but I've always found the idea of anal penetrative sex absolutely disgusting.

I accept that gay men do it (and they can get on with it if that's what floats their boat) but why is this being promoted as normal for heterosexuals these days? This is being forced on young women who probably think they can't say no because everyone else is doing it.

I'm guessing that someone will pop up to tell me that I'm missing out here, but there's no way I'll ever allow a man to shove his rooster up my poo hole

Been there, done that and never again. Really, zero purpose to it for me If any man ever even asked for it again, I'd straight ass walk out and never speak to him again. Zero ducks given.

 

[Red80's]

‘Male’ anatomy

This reads like an induction manual for a new job, 'you will be assigned as male or female at birth and the doctor will you provide you with the corresponding anatomy kit for you to install at your earliest convenience'.

 

[soph30]

This reads like an induction manual for a new job, 'you will be assigned as male or female at birth and the doctor will you provide you with the corresponding anatomy kit for you to install at your earliest convenience'.

Just the idea that that image is could be a kind of 'female' anatomy....

 

[DoraMaar]

Why is it being promoted?

Porn and “sex positive”, “no kink shaming!” culture.

Porn is normalising so many sexual acts that offer next to no pleasure for women - only harm. Anal sex, strangling etc. And young people today end up thinking it’s totally normal and expected.

Trans ideology is being heavily promoted in Ireland at the moment - it's being embedded in our education system from early years - and embedded in all subjects, not just Health Education. We will be worse that Canada and Australia (combined).

It is being driven by single-agenda NGOs who are government funded. Politicians use the 'culture wars' excuse to do nothing but a couple of them have transed their children, the leader of Sin Fein has a trans 'sister'. The media is compliant and very encouraging. At least once a week there is an article about or by a trans person or a TRA in one of the mainstream newpapers.

The EU is promoting it - lots of legislation to embed 'gender' in EU policy. Montenegro and Ukraine are being considered for membership and one of the conditions is that they comply with EU gender policy (Ukraine has more pressing issues). Ireland takes up the EU presidency later this year. The EU is using Ireland to push this and and other policies such as digital id.

An example of the trans NGO attempts to push their ideology is that they want to have input to Ireland's policies on AI.

 

[minimaz]

Can anyone explain the logic of this, Emma Corrin accepting an award specifically for women while also claiming to be non-binary. I've no issue with her being classified as a woman but I just can't understand the leaps of internal logic that would make this ok for her if she actually thinks non-binary is anything other than repackaged "I'm not like other girls"
Also wasn't she one of the ones that wanted acting awards to be mixed, like why accept an award then for women

Inside Variety's Power of Women London: Cynthia Erivo, Emilia Clarke

archived 5 Jun 2026 11:58:48 UTC

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" “It’s incredibly meaningful to be here tonight amongst such inspiring women using their voices and platforms with such purpose,” Corrin said. “I’m doubly honored to be here tonight as the first non-binary recipient of the award. I think it’s crucial now, more than ever that no matter how we identify, we’re able to come together and support each other. So much change can be affected by these networks of mutual support.” "

 

[Vanelope]

She shouldn’t have accepted that award, she should have left it for women who admit that they are such. What a pick me

 

[TheMiceInTheShed]

I know my response here will make many think I'm old fashioned and prudish but I've always found the idea of anal penetrative sex absolutely disgusting.

I accept that gay men do it (and they can get on with it if that's what floats their boat) but why is this being promoted as normal for heterosexuals these days? This is being forced on young women who probably think they can't say no because everyone else is doing it.

I'm guessing that someone will pop up to tell me that I'm missing out here, but there's no way I'll ever allow a man to shove his rooster up my poo hole

I'm also old-fashioned and prudish. I feel exactly the same way, and TBH I don't know why any man would want to do it to a woman, unless it is to degrade and objectivise her. The very idea is nasty to me.

 

[Mismatched Pegs]

She shouldn’t have accepted that award, she should have left it for women who admit that they are such. What a pick me

Hard agree.
"I'm not a woman, I'm much more special than you"
"Oi Emma do you want this award specifically for ladies?"
"Gimme!!! But remember I am a very special non-lady"
I'm beginning to think she knows fine well she's a woman. But that would mean she's just been talking balls the whole time, and that can't be right surely.

She's such a twit.

 

[diamondthunder]

One of the problems appears to be the link advertising it was added onto a book club for kids 2 to 12.

Also as child who parents didn't supervise my reading I often ended up reading stuff that wasn't suitable for my maturity level purely because I was a confident reader.View attachment 4013877

Ah. Well that certainly is a duck up. I wonder if AI just randomly compiled the list or something like that? I don't know which option is more grim - someone doing it on purpose, someone not checking out of laziness, or no one doing it at all because society seems to have cowardly rolled over and accepted our new robot overlords.

Based on that page - trans nonsense aside - I still think it's fine for 15+ personally (though the stupid, infantilised, faux down with the kids language makes me want to punch a wall) but agree someone should be held accountable for promoting it to younger kids, accidentally or otherwise.

I too was an advanced reader and started young adult books in about grade 5. I think any sexual references just went over my head for a couple of years. Then when I was 11 I obliviously stumbled upon a fanfic that was significantly more graphic than anything I'd seen in a published novel. I was scared off the internet for a few months, then I decided to find out what that sex thing was all about by reading wikipedia articles.

Anyway, I'm of two minds about the whole thing. I can see why some people, especially parents, don't like the idea of information like that being in a school library. But at the same time, the reality is, kids are gonna find stuff you'd rather they didn't whether by accident or on purpose and there's really duck all you can do about it. And in fact trying to keep it from them might only make it worse. When I was a tween/teen, most adults would have agreed that same-sex romance was inappropriate for children. But if same-sex romance had been available in mainstream YA books, I wouldn't have found porny fanfic at only 11.

 

[diamondthunder]

I agree with all the comments about the normalization of anal for heterosexual couples being the opposite of progressive. I hate that article focusing on warning women of the risks. How about someone hammer it through men's thick skulls that the vast majority of women just don't like it and you shouldn't expect them to just put up with it? Why isn't that enough? Oh right because men can always do whatever the duck they want.

I don't like Brazilian waxes being expected nowadays either. If you actually prefer it that way, sure, whatever. But the huge increase in popularity is obviously porn related. I hate men whining that it's more hygienic to shave. You first motherfucker, whole body wax, let's go.

 

[petitspois]

I’ve always been a bit suss about anal sex, the anal cavity isn’t muscular like the tina and obviously contains excrement which surely kills any vibe? The whole concept of a sphincter is that it keeps something closed the vast majority of the time so it can easily be damaged.

 

[Ekathrina]

Many men like it purely because it’s harmful, damaging and degrading. There’s an entire category of vile pornography featuring women who’ve had anal prolapse’s because of it. It’s called ‘rosebudding’ or something.

 

[VC10]

Can anyone explain the logic of this, Emma Corrin accepting an award specifically for women while also claiming to be non-binary. I've no issue with her being classified as a woman but I just can't understand the leaps of internal logic that would make this ok for her if she actually thinks non-binary is anything other than repackaged "I'm not like other girls"
Also wasn't she one of the ones that wanted acting awards to be mixed, like why accept an award then for women

Inside Variety's Power of Women London: Cynthia Erivo, Emilia Clarke

archived 5 Jun 2026 11:58:48 UTC

archive.ph

" “It’s incredibly meaningful to be here tonight amongst such inspiring women using their voices and platforms with such purpose,” Corrin said. “I’m doubly honored to be here tonight as the first non-binary recipient of the award. I think it’s crucial now, more than ever that no matter how we identify, we’re able to come together and support each other. So much change can be affected by these networks of mutual support.” "

Shes like most of the luvvie actors - Hypocritical .

 

[JAR21]

I can understand gay men having anal sex, because they have limited orifices available to them, and they have the prostate up there, which gives them pleasure. But women don't, so presumably don't get the same enjoyment. And also, if a man wants to shove his rooster up an a, shouldn't he be with another bloke?

 

[Funny_bunny]

I'm also old-fashioned and prudish. I feel exactly the same way, and TBH I don't know why any man would want to do it to a woman, unless it is to degrade and objectivise her. The very idea is nasty to me.

Agree with you both, I find the very thought of it disgusting, degrading and dangerous. I know I’m as prudish as can be, but I think porn is vile, and hate the fact that it’s normalising stuff that’s dangerous for women. Especially acts that only men can enjoy. The whole strangulation thing too. Any man who gets pleasure for doing something associated with killing is sick IMHO. I just hope that these books normalising porn related acts also stress the point that’s it’s fine to say. “NO”, but that’s probably too much to expect.

 

[VeniVidiVicki]

Anyone who identifies as non binary past the age of 15 should be laughed out of the room

 

[Ekathrina]

I was fairly promiscuous in my youth during the 80’s and 90’s and I wouldn’t necessarily call myself prudish, but I only ever recall one man asking about anal in all those years and he was fine when I said no. None of that other stuff like strangulation either, I think most men were just glad to be getting a bag at all! Porn has ruined men, ruined sex and put the vast majority of women off relationships in general I think.

 

[Peter Out]

I know my response here will make many think I'm old fashioned and prudish but I've always found the idea of anal penetrative sex absolutely disgusting.

I accept that gay men do it (and they can get on with it if that's what floats their boat) but why is this being promoted as normal for heterosexuals these days? This is being forced on young women who probably think they can't say no because everyone else is doing it.

I'm guessing that someone will pop up to tell me that I'm missing out here, but there's no way I'll ever allow a man to shove his rooster up my poo hole

I think your response is a perfectly normal and compassionate one.
As for the "assigned" nonsense, I fully agree with Professor Richard Dawkins - your sex isn't "assigned", it's observed - it's right there in front of your eyes!

 

[Scotch Mist]

My daughter has a non binary female friend. Her friend basically dresses in a non girly way and in my view tries to make herself look as unattractive as possible e.g. wearing baggy shorts with hairy legs, which is a shame because she's a naturally pretty girl. However this girl is straight and had a boyfriend for a long time.
My daughter is also friends with her ex boyfriend and the ex boyfriend is attracted to women who dress in that way. It's rather like the modern equivalent of the old butch lesbian look (short hair and trousers) with added piercings, tattoos and coloured hair. The ex boyfriend doesn't like women wearing 'girly' clothes and was telling my daughter that it's unfortunate that the women he fancies are generally gay
That made me laugh and sort of proves that non binary is basically just a fashionable look.

 

[Funny_bunny]

I see the Fiat 500 dwelling idiot has stated that “There has never been a case of a trans woman attacking a cis woman in a public toilet”. Well, there’s Katie Dolatowski for one, and his victims were girls.