Gender Discussion #108

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Another delightful trans identifying male proving he’s absolutely indistinguishable from a real woman. No one would ever guess he was trans. Well apart from the fact he looks like a creepy dude, and rants like the angry aggressive man he is. Imagine finding him in the toilet, changing room or any other female only space. Nasty angry creep. Yet, according to all the pro trans supporters and those who oppose the EHRC guidelines, him and his like are the most delicate, fragile little poppets in society.
bleeping loon. Sexually deviant freak. Come change next to me mate. You’ll leave minus some teeth, but given the state of yours it won’t matter.
 
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I was fairly promiscuous in my youth during the 80’s and 90’s and I wouldn’t necessarily call myself prudish, but I only ever recall one man asking about anal in all those years and he was fine when I said no. None of that other stuff like strangulation either, I think most men were just glad to be getting a bag at all! Porn has ruined men, ruined sex and put the vast majority of women off relationships in general I think.
I agree porn has ruined sex and given men a huge sense of entitlement. But it goes further than that - the way men carry on all over the internet - the stuff they say about women. No wonder women don’t even want relationships with men anymore. rit sex and creepy views.
 
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*sigh* I have the trans tags blocked on tumblr but some stuff still slips through.

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But it's not a mental illness...

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They're so incredibly well. So happy. Trans joy. Yay.


The psychiatrists who are still enabling this, when there's so much evidence of harm and so little of benefit, belong in jail at this point.

She's not even a transman, she's a they/them. Who prescribed her T instead of therapy??? This is just so sad and so infuriating.

And I am so glad I am not 10 years younger or I might have ended up indoctrinated into the cult. 😔
 
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Testosterone in large quantities is so so bad for women. Oestrogen for men isn’t damaging in the some way.

Another example of the misogyny of TRAs. Girls really suffer long lasting terrible effects; boys grow bits which pretty much disappear after desistance. And girls undergo early extreme surgery (mastectomies) when boys have no surgery. It’s such a woman hating ideology
 
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Testosterone in large quantities is so so bad for women. Oestrogen for men isn’t damaging in the some way.

Another example of the misogyny of TRAs. Girls really suffer long lasting terrible effects; boys grow bits which pretty much disappear after desistance. And girls undergo early extreme surgery (mastectomies) when boys have no surgery. It’s such a woman hating ideology
I’ve come to realise that the misogyny isn’t a bug but a key feature.
 
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*sigh* I have the trans tags blocked on tumblr but some stuff still slips through.

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But it's not a mental illness...

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They're so incredibly well. So happy. Trans joy. Yay.


The psychiatrists who are still enabling this, when there's so much evidence of harm and so little of benefit, belong in jail at this point.

She's not even a transman, she's a they/them. Who prescribed her T instead of therapy??? This is just so sad and so infuriating.

And I am so glad I am not 10 years younger or I might have ended up indoctrinated into the cult. 😔
Nobody is walking 24k steps pacing between two rooms 🤣 this person is full of tit
 
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I'm also old-fashioned and prudish. I feel exactly the same way, and TBH I don't know why any man would want to do it to a woman, unless it is to degrade and objectivise her. The very idea is nasty to me.
I don't like my own backside let alone anyone elses, and tbh I find everything is too close for comfort 😅 I am not a germphobe but... it's all too close 🤣 The only thing that will ever go in there is piles pessaries once in a while 🤣 otherwise nope nope nope. Not for me. Never desired to try.

Fair play to those who want to but never for me.
I just hope young girls aren't subjected to pressure by boys especially when they don't feel empowered to say no. There's a lot of social pressure to have boyfriends and girlfriends so young and I can see so many probably put up with this stuff because it's perceived as social suicide to be alone. When I was at school I was completely single, the nerd in the corner, gooseberry to everyone's party, but so many in my class their whole personality was having a boyfriend or girlfriend and when they split there would be a new one days later. a lot of pressure from peers, etc.
 
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Nobody is walking 24k steps pacing between two rooms 🤣 this person is full of tit
It was 30k steps by the end.

Making it up for her 3 likes? Maybe. I don't think it's impossible though. I've hit 10k without leaving my house before and I'm lazy as duck.

An eating disorder, OCD or both could explain compulsive pacing. It can be a symptom of ADHD too.
 
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I see the Fiat 500 dwelling idiot has stated that “There has never been a case of a trans woman attacking a cis woman in a public toilet”. Well, there’s Katie Dolatowski for one, and his victims were girls.
He was at trans pride in Edinburgh this year and I couldn't see anything about him being asked to leave.
 
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I agree with all the comments about the normalization of anal for heterosexual couples being the opposite of progressive. I hate that article focusing on warning women of the risks. How about someone hammer it through men's thick skulls that the vast majority of women just don't like it and you shouldn't expect them to just put up with it? Why isn't that enough? Oh right because men can always do whatever the duck they want.

I don't like Brazilian waxes being expected nowadays either. If you actually prefer it that way, sure, whatever. But the huge increase in popularity is obviously porn related. I hate men whining that it's more hygienic to shave. You first motherfucker, whole body wax, let's go.
I read something about bikini 'trends' and it is 100% down to porn. Basically if the lady is hairless you can see the willy go in and it also makes the willy look longer.
I remember an episode of Sex and the City when SJP was convinced to have a Brazilian and people were horrified. It was made out to he such a big deal because it was weird.
There was also an early episode about Charlotte's boyfriend asking her to do anal and it was a really big deal.
I was a huge fan in the 90s and hate what it turned into.
 
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Nobody is walking 24k steps pacing between two rooms 🤣 this person is full of tit
My ADHD boy could do that making and eating a couple of slices of toast, nevermind between two rooms.

Just saw something really sad on Instagram. I've posted before on here about the - now dead - raging AGP that Mr Pegs went to uni with. His wife has a shop and has just posted about raising money for Mermaids by selling some things made by their "daughter". They don't have a female child. They do however have an autistic son who's likely traumatised by his father dressing like a hooker and then dying before he was even double figures. What are the odds of a transwoman having a trans kid? Surely anybody with half a brain can see that this is statistically unlikely
 
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I just hope young girls aren't subjected to pressure by boys especially when they don't feel empowered to say no. There's a lot of social pressure to have boyfriends and girlfriends so young and I can see so many probably put up with this stuff because it's perceived as social suicide to be alone. When I was at school I was completely single, the nerd in the corner, gooseberry to everyone's party, but so many in my class their whole personality was having a boyfriend or girlfriend and when they split there would be a new one days later. a lot of pressure from peers, etc.
I was about to say I'm glad no one at my school was like that, and for the most part they weren't. I remember there were only a handful of couples who went to formal together, and no one got teased for being a loser who didn't have a date.

But your post just unlocked a memory. 🤣 I did have this one friend who just could not stand to be single and had the most ridiculously dramatic on again off again relationship with her boyfriend, who she dated from year 8 to the year after graduation. Literally they'd break up every week or two, she'd spend about 1-3 days crying to me about how she couldn't live without him but also he was a complete hole. They'd get back together, rinse and repeat about a thousand times for 5 years. The number of times I had to bite my tongue and not just yell 'you are never going to see him again after school ends, get a bleeping grip!' 🤣
 
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I read something about bikini 'trends' and it is 100% down to porn. Basically if the lady is hairless you can see the willy go in and it also makes the willy look longer.
Yep, that's 100% what it's for and I hate when men pretend they have some other reason for having that 'preference.' 'It's just practical! No one wants hair in their mouth while eating out.' Shuuuut uuuppp. :rolleyes: A trim is all anyone needs to solve that. Absolutely no bleeping need to deal with the pain of waxing or razor burn or ingrown hairs or the itch when it grows back. duck right off with that.

Tbf some dudes shave their own because it makes them look bigger too lol. They're totally doing that for themselves, there's no way any woman gives a tit. 🤣

I remember an episode of Sex and the City when SJP was convinced to have a Brazilian and people were horrified. It was made out to he such a big deal because it was weird.
There was also an early episode about Charlotte's boyfriend asking her to do anal and it was a really big deal.
I was a huge fan in the 90s and hate what it turned into.
I've only seen a few episodes and it wasn't my thing, but from what I've seen of the trailers, the reboot/movies look a special kind of awful.

You're right, it's really not that long ago that a Brazilian was seen as a bit weird and the attitude has changed so fast. I remember being annoyed by an episode of Outlander where Claire gets one because of a (definitely historically inaccurate) 'new trend in Paris' and Jamie almost immediately finds it hot and exciting. Like come on, you've got to be joking, it's the 1740s ffs. No way he wouldn't find that weird af and Claire should have as well.
 
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There was also an early episode about Charlotte's boyfriend asking her to do anal and it was a really big deal.
I was a huge fan in the 90s and hate what it turned into.
"No one wants to be 'Mrs up the butt'!!!"

I loved SATC. I hate what they did to it, Che was repulsive.

"Im trans", no love, you're a massive bleeping idiot whos only personality trait is "complete bleeping hole"

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John Mann, the government’s independent advisor an anti-semitism, has carried out a review examining anti-semitism and other forms of racism in the NHS. One of the recommendations in his report is around the wearing of political badges and slogans on NHS uniforms.
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The chief executive of NHS England, said: "We accept all of the recommendations in Lord Mann's review and as a leadership community, we will act swiftly to implement them.”

I know the report was specifically looking at racism and anti-semitism, but it seems to me that the progress flag is also a ‘political identifier’ and I’m wondering whether these recommendations could be used to challenge the overt use of this symbol in the NHS. As I’ve said before, part of my local hospital building is painted with a huge progress flag mural which is visible as you approach the main entrance. There is also a flag pole outside which flies the progress flag 365 days a year.

As a woman who does not subscribe to gender ideology, I do perceive a bias against me and my protected beliefs. I want NHS branding to return to how it was in the 90s/2000s when I worked for them - blue and white logos and lanyards with no other agenda.

 
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John Mann, the government’s independent advisor an anti-semitism, has carried out a review examining anti-semitism and other forms of racism in the NHS. One of the recommendations in his report is around the wearing of political badges and slogans on NHS uniforms.
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The chief executive of NHS England, said: "We accept all of the recommendations in Lord Mann's review and as a leadership community, we will act swiftly to implement them.”

I know the report was specifically looking at racism and anti-semitism, but it seems to me that the progress flag is also a ‘political identifier’ and I’m wondering whether these recommendations could be used to challenge the overt use of this symbol in the NHS. As I’ve said before, part of my local hospital building is painted with a huge progress flag mural which is visible as you approach the main entrance. There is also a flag pole outside which flies the progress flag 365 days a year.

As a woman who does not subscribe to gender ideology, I do perceive a bias against me and my protected beliefs. I want NHS branding to return to how it was in the 90s/2000s when I worked for them - blue and white logos and lanyards with no other agenda.

As a woman who does not subscribe to gender ideology, I do perceive a bias against me and my protected beliefs. I want NHS branding to return to how it was in the 90s/2000s when I worked for them - blue and white logos and lanyards with no other agenda.

Could you contact Lord Mann and the Chief Exec of NHS England to say this?


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I've never understood the need for the rainbow lanyards within the NHS. If the only way LGB(and I'm even going to add the T here) can feel safe in a healthcare setting is by seeing someone with a rainbow around their neck, the NHS has far bigger problems than is acknowledged.

If you work in healthcare it shouldn't matter what a patient's politics, sexuality, age or even criminal history is, you treat them to the best of you abilities with dignity and care. Doesn't matter how you personally feel about them. It's your job. And sometimes that will be hard - a racist thug verbally abusing an A&E doctor from Uganda, treating a head wound obtained on a far right demo, still deserves treatment (and I think healthcare staff need greater protections from patients)

No one should be displaying their political leaning at work. I'm private sector and we have a casual dress code but we're allowed nothing that makes any kind of political statement. I work for quite a "woke" (for want of a better word) company but we have clients and we don't want to upset them or lose business. If you're in a tax payer funded, public sector role you absolutely shouldn't be allowed to demonstrate your politics while at work (unless you work in a political role - even then, politicians need to act in the interests of all the constituents and shouldn't be showing bias towards specific sectors of the community)

Sorry that was much longer than I thought it was going to be.
TLDR: show up, do your job, leave your whole self at home.
 
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As a woman who does not subscribe to gender ideology, I do perceive a bias against me and my protected beliefs. I want NHS branding to return to how it was in the 90s/2000s
I concur no matter who you work for your beliefs and affiliation should be left at door that’s for everyone no matter wh you work. Omo
 
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