That's what I hate myself, people on here judging childhood trauma for their adult behavior. I've had a child die from SIDS, I've been raped, abused, beaten my whole childhood, I've serious mental health issues, BPD included, I've had an absolute horrific life and I know others have had it worse but I dont ever excuse my bad behaviour over any of it. It was my choice, my decision to do them things. Even when I've done wrong because I had a rage moment and acted out of impulse without thinking, after I calm down I claim responsibility for what I've done and try make things right. It's not an excuse for what you've done, it may be partly a reason to why you've done it but it does not whatsoever excuse it in any way.Many on here excuse her behaviour though
Gemma is an attention seeking, spoilt, childish brat. She got with a drug dealer at a young age and thought she was untouchable. She got "famous" off the chase and let it all go to her head, she blatantly started on Aoife for simply asking her to remove photos of AOIFES children after her platform had 15+k people on it, but you all want to start on Aoife and drag her down for trying to defend herself and her children? Yeah so what she let the kids near Gemma and Richie before it all happened, before it all happened Gemma wasnt being photographed for the news and people watching her every move, before it all happened Gemma never threatened the kids or dragged Aoifes name through the mud in front of 15k people. She was doing what any decent mother would do and letting her kids spend time with their father. Regardless of their fathers activities, them boys would of resented her had she kept them from him. They obviously knew who their dad was from him being around when they were kids and him and aoife were together, what was aoife suppose to have done? Tell them while they're very young (keeping in mind its 7/8 years ago) "your dad who deals drugs and is involved in illegal activities cheated on me with a scumbag so I'm not letting you go see him anymore"???? They were kids? They dont need to know that sort of information and if she had told them then youd be giving out that shes telling the kids too much at such a young age? She absolutely should not delete her social media just because some dragged up yoke is sickened her fella has 2 kids with someone else and she cant get pregnant so has to attack her mentally and try drag her down as much as she can. And she absolutely should retaliate and expose her side of the story if her names being dragged through the mud constantly.