100% agreeThe parents are enablers and are funding the shopping because even if he got every benefit going he still would struggle to come up with the money he spent on this haul.
I do understand why/how his parents let it get to this point. I know some real life Garys but at his age it’s no longer cute and I agree with the person who said that it’s not 1980 anymore. There are work from home jobs out there that pay well. There are employers who will hire people who need accommodations. There is funding for education. His parents would need to be cruel to he kind and pull out the rug but tbh I’ve never known a family to do this. I image they fear for the “child’s” life in the short term. The big fear is that the “child” would melt down at being forced to pay rent/do a course/look for a job and they’d do something silly.
Sadly in the long term they are making it worse. I think anyone in 40s upwards with parents knows how things start to come up with parents as they age. If one of them is taken ill or needs care the money (and their time) will dry up. And when they pass, I hope they have put a plan in place otherwise he is in for a very sad middle and old age