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I've been subscribed to Freddy since 2017 and I really liked her personality back then. Or perhaps she was more camera-shy and reserved then, so now the side we're seeing of her is her authentic self? Either way, her behavior this past year or rather, these past few months, has gotten on my nerves.

I'm subscribed to both Freddy and Josie (Fashionmumblr), and tbh I can vibe much more with Josie than Freddy. I'm not sure how they've actually managed to foster and maintain a friendship, although I suspect that its more of a business friendship than anything. Based on what I've seen from their videos together, it seems like Freddy is just friends with her cos they're both based in London.

To me, Freddy seems catty and snarky. Her body language and speech in her videos, especially her collaborations, really shows it. The video where she did a style swap with her friend Amy (Amynevfashiondiaries), she barely, if any, complimented Amy on her outfits. Amy, on the other hand, complimented Freddy throughout the whole video. Same with the videos that she does with Coco. Coco compliments Freddy and although she does compliment Coco at times, I don't quite hear the genuineness in her tone. Freddy's always receiving but she doesn't give back is what I'm trying to say. Also, the videos that she does with Josie, she acts catty in some of it, like giving her disgusted expression at Josie's choice of outfits, words, or behavior. Her behavior is very controlled on camera and the only time that she lets herself loose results in her being sassy.

Freddy has worked at Hollister before and I'm guessing that was a part-time job so I don't know where she gets the idea that working as an influencer equates to 3 full-time jobs if she's never had a full-time job, let alone 3.

Its annoying how she makes those faces that she thinks is cute or pretty on her IG stories (you all know which one I'm talking about--the one where she posts a long-ass caption and makes expressions to go with those captions without saying a word in her stories). I find myself skipping through most of her stories or skipping it altogether. I'm not even sure why I'm still following her on IG at this point, perhaps just for the style inspiration?

Also, it irks me how she considers some articles of clothing 'disgusting' or 'horrendous' when its a normal outfit pick for some of us (like black tights, for instance). She could have worded it better, maybe say that its not her cup of tea?

Her past few videos have baffled me as well. Her personal shopper video, she said she wanted to try new styles, yet the new styles that she got in the boxes she immediately dismissed. With her sense of style, you can't really expand beyond it because her style is so boxed in tbh. At this rate, even I can guess what outfit picks she'd go for cos its repetitive. The funniest thing is when Coco chose the Asos clothes for Freddy, she claimed that the clothes weren't her style and that her style wasn't that boring. In reality, the clothes were actually her style, just not in the cutting she'd like. Freddy has this thing against her body where I feel like its hard for her to truly embrace her curves cos a few years back she didn't have them. Her clothes are always too tight or too short for her proportions. Her tops are literally bursting at the buttons cos she doesn't size up and her skirts are so mini that when she bends down in the slightest, she'll risk flashing the public.

One of her latest IG story showed her not wanting to get out of her car cos it was pouring and she didn't want to ruin her hair. That story literally triggered the heck out of me 😂

I'm not sure how JJ puts up with her cos she's always so prissy with everything. It honestly drives me up the wall so I'm thankful that I'm just a viewer and not dating her. Kudos to JJ for putting up with her all these years.

I think Freddy hasn't aged emotionally these past few years cos of her living environment. She has a hype man and hype friends, she lives with her parents who probably cooks for her, has not expanded her social circle beyond the one she's already had. I'm not saying that living with your parents is a terrible thing considering the current economic climate but the fact that she has other people doing stuff for her like cooking and cleaning. She posts a video once a week and has occasional brand deals. Compared to other influencers I'm subscribed to, it seems like she has less work to do. She doesn't update her blogs, doesn't have her own line of products to handle, I'm just trying to figure out what mental breakdown was she having this past week? And please don't tell me its from the amount of computer scrolling and research she has to do for Cyber Week....

She said she dropped out of A-levels and didn't get along with her schoolmates. Honestly, I can understand why. Freddy gives off the vibe that she's better than everyone else and no one can compare to her. I have not seen her hang out with anyone else other than her family, JJ and other YouTubers since I've subscribed to her.

I think it'd be a great help to her to get out of her influencer bubble and network with working-class people to better understand what its like to have actual full-time jobs. Back when I was still in elementary school, my mom who worked 2 full-time jobs would leave the house at 7am and come back home around midnight, and she was still able to help me with my homework and have late-night chats with me. I can't imagine poor Freddy breaking down from checking her emails, filming and editing, on top of her having her parents cook and clean for her, prancing around in her too-little outfits.

I'm sorry for the super jumbled and long rant post, its been a long time coming 😝 Also, hi Freddy if you're reading this and I know you do occasionally read on here, don't bother with the 'don't spread hate, send love' pep talk that you coach yourself through.
 
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The three full time jobs thing is somewhat insulting and laughable. She gets up md-day most days and replies to emails which is somewhat an easy job.I can't imagine she has loads each day.

She posts one video a week which at 10mins even with editing it shouldn't take that long to produce. Imagine her doing a real days work in hospital ward she wouldn't last an hour.
 
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Long time lurker, first time poster. I apologize in advance if there's any guidelines that I'm not abiding by, if there is any that I should know, please let me know ☺

I've been subscribed to Freddy since 2017 and I really liked her personality back then. Or perhaps she was more camera-shy and reserved then, so now the side we're seeing of her is her authentic self? Either way, her behavior this past year or rather, these past few months, has gotten on my nerves.

I'm subscribed to both Freddy and Josie (Fashionmumblr), and tbh I can vibe much more with Josie than Freddy. I'm not sure how they've actually managed to foster and maintain a friendship, although I suspect that its more of a business friendship than anything. Based on what I've seen from their videos together, it seems like Freddy is just friends with her cos they're both based in London.

To me, Freddy seems catty and snarky. Her body language and speech in her videos, especially her collaborations, really shows it. The video where she did a style swap with her friend Amy (Amynevfashiondiaries), she barely, if any, complimented Amy on her outfits. Amy, on the other hand, complimented Freddy throughout the whole video. Same with the videos that she does with Coco. Coco compliments Freddy and although she does compliment Coco at times, I don't quite hear the genuineness in her tone. Freddy's always receiving but she doesn't give back is what I'm trying to say. Also, the videos that she does with Josie, she acts catty in some of it, like giving her disgusted expression at Josie's choice of outfits, words, or behavior. Her behavior is very controlled on camera and the only time that she lets herself loose results in her being sassy.

Freddy has worked at Hollister before and I'm guessing that was a part-time job so I don't know where she gets the idea that working as an influencer equates to 3 full-time jobs if she's never had a full-time job, let alone 3.

Its annoying how she makes those faces that she thinks is cute or pretty on her IG stories (you all know which one I'm talking about--the one where she posts a long-ass caption and makes expressions to go with those captions without saying a word in her stories). I find myself skipping through most of her stories or skipping it altogether. I'm not even sure why I'm still following her on IG at this point, perhaps just for the style inspiration?

Also, it irks me how she considers some articles of clothing 'disgusting' or 'horrendous' when its a normal outfit pick for some of us (like black tights, for instance). She could have worded it better, maybe say that its not her cup of tea?

Her past few videos have baffled me as well. Her personal shopper video, she said she wanted to try new styles, yet the new styles that she got in the boxes she immediately dismissed. With her sense of style, you can't really expand beyond it because her style is so boxed in tbh. At this rate, even I can guess what outfit picks she'd go for cos its repetitive. The funniest thing is when Coco chose the Asos clothes for Freddy, she claimed that the clothes weren't her style and that her style wasn't that boring. In reality, the clothes were actually her style, just not in the cutting she'd like. Freddy has this thing against her body where I feel like its hard for her to truly embrace her curves cos a few years back she didn't have them. Her clothes are always too tight or too short for her proportions. Her tops are literally bursting at the buttons cos she doesn't size up and her skirts are so mini that when she bends down in the slightest, she'll risk flashing the public.

One of her latest IG story showed her not wanting to get out of her car cos it was pouring and she didn't want to ruin her hair. That story literally triggered the heck out of me 😂

I'm not sure how JJ puts up with her cos she's always so prissy with everything. It honestly drives me up the wall so I'm thankful that I'm just a viewer and not dating her. Kudos to JJ for putting up with her all these years.

I think Freddy hasn't aged emotionally these past few years cos of her living environment. She has a hype man and hype friends, she lives with her parents who probably cooks for her, has not expanded her social circle beyond the one she's already had. I'm not saying that living with your parents is a terrible thing considering the current economic climate but the fact that she has other people doing stuff for her like cooking and cleaning. She posts a video once a week and has occasional brand deals. Compared to other influencers I'm subscribed to, it seems like she has less work to do. She doesn't update her blogs, doesn't have her own line of products to handle, I'm just trying to figure out what mental breakdown was she having this past week? And please don't tell me its from the amount of computer scrolling and research she has to do for Cyber Week....

She said she dropped out of A-levels and didn't get along with her schoolmates. Honestly, I can understand why. Freddy gives off the vibe that she's better than everyone else and no one can compare to her. I have not seen her hang out with anyone else other than her family, JJ and other YouTubers since I've subscribed to her.

I think it'd be a great help to her to get out of her influencer bubble and network with working-class people to better understand what its like to have actual full-time jobs. Back when I was still in elementary school, my mom who worked 2 full-time jobs would leave the house at 7am and come back home around midnight, and she was still able to help me with my homework and have late-night chats with me. I can't imagine poor Freddy breaking down from checking her emails, filming and editing, on top of her having her parents cook and clean for her, prancing around in her too-little outfits.

I'm sorry for the super jumbled and long rant post, its been a long time coming 😝 Also, hi Freddy if you're reading this and I know you do occasionally read on here, don't bother with the 'don't spread hate, send love' pep talk that you coach yourself through.
Josie isn’t any better than Freddy though, both are equally crappy in their own.
 
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Josie isn’t any better than Freddy though, both are equally crappy in their own.
Ahh yes, I failed to mention that Josie's work ethics are questionable 😂 What I can say is that I can be friends with someone like Josie (putting aside her questionable ethics) because she's not afraid to be her goofy self on camera. Freddy gives me the vibes of someone who acts self-controlled on camera, like maintaining a persona, but is actually really snarky IRL.
 
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Has anyone seen Freddy’s latest Instagram post? I think I’ve reached my point of unfollowing!
I think she looks absolutely beautiful and I love the dress and aesthetic. Creative, feminine shoots like this is why I used to be a fan.

BUT... the pointe shoes. Don’t know if anyone else here dances/danced, I did ballet for 20 years, at one point semi-professionally. She has tied the shoes completely wrong. It might sound nit picky but getting your pointe shoes is a major right of passage. You are taught from day one how to tie them correctly, to support your ankles properly.

Maybe I’m being too critical, and that’s totally ok if you think so, but I just think that if you wear pointe shoes you should be respectful and wear them how they are meant to be worn. Not least in case some young girl copies and ends up getting injured!

What annoyed me most about the post though is that there were quite a lot of comments on the post echoing the above and she’s deleted them all and kept only comments which shower her with praise.
I managed to screenshot the below where she had replied to one of the comments really snarky.
Dance moms Abby Lee also commented saying “lovely as always Freddy but tie those pointe shoes properly”. But of course, no aggressive comment for her was there Freddy?
I didn’t manage to screenshot that unfortunately!
Her attitude is atrocious, especially considering she says she used to dance, you’d think she’d understand why people would be annoyed.
But it’s everyone else who is wrong, never Freddy, right? :rolleyes:
 

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Has anyone seen Freddy’s latest Instagram post? I think I’ve reached my point of unfollowing!
I think she looks absolutely beautiful and I love the dress and aesthetic. Creative, feminine shoots like this is why I used to be a fan.

BUT... the pointe shoes. Don’t know if anyone else here dances/danced, I did ballet for 20 years, at one point semi-professionally. She has tied the shoes completely wrong. It might sound nit picky but getting your pointe shoes is a major right of passage. You are taught from day one how to tie them correctly, to support your ankles properly.

Maybe I’m being too critical, and that’s totally ok if you think so, but I just think that if you wear pointe shoes you should be respectful and wear them how they are meant to be worn. Not least in case some young girl copies and ends up getting injured!

What annoyed me most about the post though is that there were quite a lot of comments on the post echoing the above and she’s deleted them all and kept only comments which shower her with praise.
I managed to screenshot the below where she had replied to one of the comments really snarky.
Dance moms Abby Lee also commented saying “lovely as always Freddy but tie those pointe shoes properly”. But of course, no aggressive comment for her was there Freddy?
I didn’t manage to screenshot that unfortunately!
Her attitude is atrocious, especially considering she says she used to dance, you’d think she’d understand why people would be annoyed.
But it’s everyone else who is wrong, never Freddy, right? :rolleyes:
I always thought there was a nasty streak in her.
 
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Those ballet shoes on her looked so cringy and wrong...I've never seen a toe box more stiff than that. Its funny because she likes to associate herself with ballet ("my grandma did ballet!" "I hung this photo on my wall because I love ballet!") ignoring the fact that it is a hard, gruelling sport..ridiculous.

She has so little self awareness it’s sickening. I hope once the inevitable influencer/youtuber bubble bursts she’ll be forced to get a real full time job - imagine finishing a 12-15 hour shift as a doctor or nurse or any other important, exhausting, emotionally demanding role just to see her incessant whining about being on her computer in bed for too long. Freddy, do one (1) week of real work and then let us know how those “3 full time jobs” feel.
What even are those "3 full-time jobs"? Taking pictures, putting clothes on, and talking to the camera? OH WAIT she also shops! Damn she's busy...what do we know with just our 1 full-time job 🤷‍♀️
 
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Has anyone seen Freddy’s latest Instagram post? I think I’ve reached my point of unfollowing!
I think she looks absolutely beautiful and I love the dress and aesthetic. Creative, feminine shoots like this is why I used to be a fan.

BUT... the pointe shoes. Don’t know if anyone else here dances/danced, I did ballet for 20 years, at one point semi-professionally. She has tied the shoes completely wrong. It might sound nit picky but getting your pointe shoes is a major right of passage. You are taught from day one how to tie them correctly, to support your ankles properly.

Maybe I’m being too critical, and that’s totally ok if you think so, but I just think that if you wear pointe shoes you should be respectful and wear them how they are meant to be worn. Not least in case some young girl copies and ends up getting injured!

What annoyed me most about the post though is that there were quite a lot of comments on the post echoing the above and she’s deleted them all and kept only comments which shower her with praise.
I managed to screenshot the below where she had replied to one of the comments really snarky.
Dance moms Abby Lee also commented saying “lovely as always Freddy but tie those pointe shoes properly”. But of course, no aggressive comment for her was there Freddy?
I didn’t manage to screenshot that unfortunately!
Her attitude is atrocious, especially considering she says she used to dance, you’d think she’d understand why people would be annoyed.
But it’s everyone else who is wrong, never Freddy, right? :rolleyes:
The comment from Abby Lee is still up, Freddy didn't reply but her minions did 😂
 

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The stories she posted of her younger self with pointe shoes “proving” she dances...
Her arch is so low I’m not surprised she failed as a ballerina too 🤪

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So passive-aggressive 😂 Oh look at those poor arches compared to the girl beside her..
 
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The stories she posted of her younger self with pointe shoes “proving” she dances...
Her arch is so low I’m not surprised she failed as a ballerina too 🤪

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So passive-aggressive 😂 Oh look at those poor arches compared to the girl beside her..
I’m dying. How is her arch so low. No point telling everyone you danced for al these years when I was on point for 2 years and my arch was wayy better than hers
 
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Ugh :rolleyes: Doesn’t she realise that posting all those photos just proves the point (or pointe ha!) further.
No one doubted she danced, seeing as she still clings to her school days and brings it up on the regular. It is the fact that she knows how to tie ribbons properly and didn’t anyway that annoys people. If she was such a brilliant, experienced ballerina, why not show it and tie them correctly then, rather than be disrespectful to the art she claims to love?
I think rather than posting passive aggressively, she should have actually been mature and said “hey you know what, you’re right, I didn’t tie them properly, I wanted it to look a certain way but sorry if people were offended. Please don’t actually tie your shoes this way”. Then followed with the pics. That would have made her come across so much better than being snarky.
But sorry isn’t in her vocabulary.
 
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Lol this is really amusing to me because I’m not a dancer so tbh I don’t really care how the shoes are tied in a photo (totally get why you ballerinas are bothered by it though!) but now she’s really emphasising how she did ballet for so long even I am like...so why didn’t you tie them properly if you know how 😂 what an idiot!
 
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And now she posted MULTIPLE stories recounting how all her friends thought she looked like Serena from Gossip Girl...yikes. This is like her main attribute she loves to bring up after feeling attacked. That she apparently resembled a TV show character 20 years ago.

How is her life that sad??
 
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Ugh :rolleyes: Doesn’t she realise that posting all those photos just proves the point (or pointe ha!) further.
No one doubted she danced, seeing as she still clings to her school days and brings it up on the regular. It is the fact that she knows how to tie ribbons properly and didn’t anyway that annoys people. If she was such a brilliant, experienced ballerina, why not show it and tie them correctly then, rather than be disrespectful to the art she claims to love?
I think rather than posting passive aggressively, she should have actually been mature and said “hey you know what, you’re right, I didn’t tie them properly, I wanted it to look a certain way but sorry if people were offended. Please don’t actually tie your shoes this way”. Then followed with the pics. That would have made her come across so much better than being snarky.
But sorry isn’t in her vocabulary.
Freddy's like a little kid stuck in an adult body. Heck I've met more mature kids than her 🤣 Never wants to own up to her faults, always being passive-aggressive, always getting her knickers in a twist over little things 🙄 Her other 'work' on the daily which she didn't show in her recent morning routine video includes going through hate comments on her older videos and replying them sarcastically or with her passive-aggressiveness. I can imagine this actually takes up a huge chunk of her time daily which is why she claims she's always 'busy and exhausted working' 🤭
 
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I think she actually thrives on negative comments which is why she can’t resist replying to them in the way she does. They fuel her victim complex and to her criticism is synonymous with jealousy. “Oh poor me, everyone is mean to me because they envy me.” And thinking people are jealous of her gives her an ego boost which takes her back to how she felt when she peaked at secondary school.
 
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I think she actually thrives on negative comments which is why she can’t resist replying to them in the way she does. They fuel her victim complex and to her criticism is synonymous with jealousy. “Oh poor me, everyone is mean to me because they envy me.” And thinking people are jealous of her gives her an ego boost which takes her back to how she felt when she peaked at secondary school.

This is true , I find Freddy very arrogant . I am sure she made some vile comment about her 'haters & trolls' being weird on instagram before.
 
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I hated her post with the pointe shoes 😂 I did ballet from 2-15 and although I never would have been good enough to be a professional, it’s still a love I’ve held onto ever since! I have a good friend in the Royal Ballet Company so I live my childhood ballet dreams vicariously though her! So tempted to send it to the amazing instagram models doing ballet 😂 if any dancers here don’t know about it, it’s highly entertaining!
 

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All she needed to do with the Instagram post in regards to the ballet shoes was laugh it off say ‘ohh but I thought it looked pretty’ instead she was really snarky back in the comments and that whole thing yesterday! Anyone feel she looked down on Serena/Blake Lively like it was the *worst* thing to be compared to her? What Blake Lively has that Freddy doesn’t have is that nice/likability streak running through her she doesn’t take herself too seriously. Then back onto the so called *trolls* on Instagram she said ‘is there not more important things to worry about right now?’ Says the girl who was having a meltdown about her life is ‘really hard’ a few days ago very hypocritical indeed!
 
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