Hi I'm new
I used to follow Fopperholic, primarily because we were pregnant at the same time (I've only had 1 baby so not as amazing as her). I used to think she was fairly alright, I couldn't listen to her on her stories though because her fake laugh always annoyed me. I've realised recently that she has made me feel really rubbish as a human being and a mum and that is really not okay. I also had a C-section (baby got a bit stuck on the way out) and I was told not to do certain things that she was doing. One example that sticks with me is that she had a very large bubble bath not long after she came out of hospital which is one of the things my midwife strongly told me not to do. This may have been my midwife's opinion and Nikki may have been given other information but I remember thinking "omg if she can have one (and I had my C-section a week or so before her) then why can't I?"
I also don't have any family in the area and not many friends so to see her out and about (and foolishly I thought she was on her own
) made me feel like I was holding back my baby and not letting her have experiences like her boys were. However, recently I've noticed how far behind her boys are in comparison. And I know we shouldn't compare but the reality is that everyone does! So I started paying closer attention to her videos and her photos and they do seem to spend an awful lot of time on their backs and in the cake seats. My baby hasn't kept still on her back since she discovered she could roll over
Also and this may just be me but I have never known anyone's children to have as many shitastrophes as hers!! Is it just the way they are or is it the food she's feeding them?