I’m glad that my original message didn’t come across offensively btw but just haven’t even thought of classics since I was 21 so funny to think of it again as a proper adult as I remember being like wtf? I will be steering my now toddler away from the soft bois or girlz (is there an equivalent?) as much as poss when the time comes though.I never dated any of my fellow classicists...there was a reason for that.
(This has inspired me to look up the one attractive straight guy from my course, and he's now an actor with 56k followers on Insta and a wikipedia page!)
Congrats to yours though