It would be an odd choice if they only had a baby. But they don’t. They have an older child that wanted to go. So it would make sense to go as a family… on the family holiday.
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Tbh I think it's fine anyway for a child to be raised knowing that sometimes treats are for their siblings and not for them? When I was a kid, if I didn't want to do the treat day out for my siblings, I/we had the option of going to my grandparents' house or other relatives and I loved it. I would find it really strange if someone begrudged their older sister a trip to Disney when they were a literal baby if I'm honest! It's not like it's a pattern either, if they carried on doing it when Inka is old enough to enjoy this kind of thing then I'll absolutely agree, but right now it's a one off.
Also worth remembering a lot of Alba's life will have changed from being the only child and getting all the attention to having a baby in the house who now (rightly) gets a lot of their parents' attention and that's a big adjustment for a small child. Maybe they're giving Alba an opportunity to spend the day alone with her parents before she starts school, that's important too.
Also worth remembering a lot of Alba's life will have changed from being the only child and getting all the attention to having a baby in the house who now (rightly) gets a lot of their parents' attention and that's a big adjustment for a small child. Maybe they're giving Alba an opportunity to spend the day alone with her parents before she starts school, that's important too.
That family pic they put up is really cute 
I think it’s one thing to take one child for a day out / cinema treat etc and leave the other with family which they’d enjoy more when they’re little. It’s nice to give treats to each child and 1:1 time 1000%. However, I personally think it’s completely different to go abroad for several days with only one child but that’s just my personal parenting opinion.
I generally don’t like kids but Alba is so cute. Looks like she’s having a whale of a timeThat family pic they put up is really cute
I completely agree. Each to their own but for me as a parent I just couldn't do it.
I think Rachel's kids are bloody gorgeous.
They are lucky to have anyone willing to babysit as often as they do 
I dont see anything wrong with leaving one child at home she's a baby and probably won't get it. it's albas birthday present too. We took our 3 kids 7, 4 and 10 month old to disneyland a few year ago and my 10 month old absolutely hated it! He cried for the full 3 days looking back I'd of definitely left him at home with nana 
this is what I was saying. What the hell is a 7 month old going to get out of being stuck in a pram in a loud, unfamiliar environment 🫠 it’s better for inka to be at home where she’s happy. She isn’t going to have a clue that they’ve gone. It would be unfair on Alba for them to bring Inka as she’s more demanding as she’s a baby. Waste of money if they took Inka with them.. they wouldn’t be able to enjoy rides as a 3 etc ..I’ve been Disneyland Paris and it’s not cheap.I dont see anything wrong with leaving one child at home she's a baby and probably won't get it. it's albas birthday present too. We took our 3 kids 7, 4 and 10 month old to disneyland a few year ago and my 10 month old absolutely hated it! He cried for the full 3 days looking back I'd of definitely left him at home with nana
I think everyone has different parenting styles and that's fine.
It's an each to their own thing.
I personally wouldn't. But that's mainly because I wouldn't want to be away from my kids
Also because something like Disney, I'd save until they're both old enough. Butttt also on the other hand, they have the money to go again when Inka is older. So it's still a completely different thing for most people.
For most, that's a once in a lifetime trip.
It's an each to their own thing.
I personally wouldn't. But that's mainly because I wouldn't want to be away from my kids
Also because something like Disney, I'd save until they're both old enough. Butttt also on the other hand, they have the money to go again when Inka is older. So it's still a completely different thing for most people.
For most, that's a once in a lifetime trip.
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This. Tho I suppose we all should be thankful that one of the twins has finally managed to actually do something fun with one of their childrenI think everyone has different parenting styles and that's fine.
It's an each to their own thing.
I personally wouldn't. But that's mainly because I wouldn't want to be away from my kids
Also because someone like Disney, I'd save until they're both old enough. Butttt also on the other hand, they have the money to go again when Inka is older. So it's still a completely different thing for most people.
For most, that's a once in a lifetime trip.
I don’t think it’s inherently wrong because obviously Inka won’t remember but I do find it weird they are happily away from their baby for so long. Also be sad for her looking back not being in the photos, I agree Alba needs personal time but not a whole ass holiday alone. Guess like you say they can afford to go multiple times tho.
i agree though with them being able to leave their kids to go away so much
Does tess have a girlfriend now 
Think soooo!Does tess have a girlfriend now
Sorry bit off topic. But has anyone tried this recipe?
It looks really easy and my mixer is broken but I’ve promised to make my friend’s daughter’s cake. There is no butter in it so I’m wondering if it’s going to be any good?
It looks really easy and my mixer is broken but I’ve promised to make my friend’s daughter’s cake. There is no butter in it so I’m wondering if it’s going to be any good?
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Grumbling on Insta they can’t remember life pre childrenb and they wish they could just get up and go and do things again.
sorry how many nights out / events have they been to without their children? Endless.
abroad holidays - if you include Paris is it 4 or 5? Mexico, New York,Paris and Ibiza but feel like I’m missing one …
Pull the other, I’m surprised their children recognise them for the amount of time they actually spend with them. So so sad / insulting to those parents who genuinely don’t get a minutes break.
sorry how many nights out / events have they been to without their children? Endless.
abroad holidays - if you include Paris is it 4 or 5? Mexico, New York,Paris and Ibiza but feel like I’m missing one …
Pull the other, I’m surprised their children recognise them for the amount of time they actually spend with them. So so sad / insulting to those parents who genuinely don’t get a minutes break.
I’ve heard good things about it!
It looks like a lighter sponge. I reckon it would be fine. If you’re worried though, I’d stick to a recipe you’ve used before (unless you could remake it if you weren’t happy).