She’s removed her PAL highlight as well. I don’t reveal much about my daughters on social media. I haven’t with either of them. We put out an obligatory Facebook status when our first daughter died to try and minimise the number of people asking me questions in the street etc. When my rainbow arrived, we did the same to let people know she’d arrived safely and all was well. We have very minimal pictures of our daughter on social media, I think if it wasn’t for having family spread across the world I wouldn’t post her at all. But I don’t pretend she doesn’t exist, I quite often put social media updates with funny tales about her. I address her as her name within those.
I think you can remain private and protect them without feeling the need to almost pretend they don’t exist. What doesn’t make sense to me at all is that we know plenty about Teddy. We’ve seen his face. We know his birth date. We know how much he weighed, the time he was born, the time he died. Yet with Olivia, we wouldn’t know a thing if it wasn’t for ‘sharing small businesses’ and the jumper. She’s active on her account pretty much daily yet we don’t hear a thing about her daughter. If you were a new follower and didn’t go back through some of her previous posts, it would be understandable that you wouldn’t even think that she had her long awaited and wished for rainbow baby. It’s like her personality now revolves around the loss of her son.
I think you can remain private and protect them without feeling the need to almost pretend they don’t exist. What doesn’t make sense to me at all is that we know plenty about Teddy. We’ve seen his face. We know his birth date. We know how much he weighed, the time he was born, the time he died. Yet with Olivia, we wouldn’t know a thing if it wasn’t for ‘sharing small businesses’ and the jumper. She’s active on her account pretty much daily yet we don’t hear a thing about her daughter. If you were a new follower and didn’t go back through some of her previous posts, it would be understandable that you wouldn’t even think that she had her long awaited and wished for rainbow baby. It’s like her personality now revolves around the loss of her son.