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the fruit thats in my name!By forum they mean the forum like ours named like a Fruit farm.
He was totally baiting her. See that narcissistic grin on him? Gross. Deadbeat POSSo what are they teaching her here? You can just eat off the entire cake? I’m sure they just teased her and didn’t let her do it. Once again letting her be a prop for a picture. “Hey let’s shove a cake in abbys face and then take a picture like she is going to eat it” she doesn’t understand what they are doing. It’s ridiculous
This is all just my opinion from what I've seen. Asa mistreats Priss. He's manipulative and whiny at best and emotionally abusive at worst. If you start listening at this point, Priscilla worries about the juice getting on her car and he goes "I'll get it... I'LL GET IT" and then the camera cuts. I wonder why. Probably so Assa can continue berating Priss, we know he has anger issues.
Then when she politely mentions the pointing thing, he gets way too upset and defensive about it. She was 100% in the right to mention it but he can't have that. He doesn't just say "oh yeah" or even just say his piece and leave it at that. He goes ON and ON and ON and does not let it go. How dare she question him.
I know we don't like Priss here, but people can be shitty and still be getting misteated by their spouse. Can you imagine how exhausting Assa is? If that's what she has to deal with 24/7 I wouldn't want to do any of Abbie's care either. No mistakes or backtalk allowed or he'll be yelling at you about it for the next hour. Priss' self-esteem is in the mud and I'm sure a lot of it is how he treats her. You have to walk on eggshells around Asa because he does NOT let things go. He's quick to correct everyone around him, but don't you DARE do the same to him or you'll hear about it.
He thinks he edits well enough that he still looks like a great guy. But anyone who's been with someone like that knows the signs and can see between the lines of how he treats her. If that's what he leaves in, imagine what he edits out. He's a weak, insecure, petulant little man who mistreats his wife and son. You know....in my opinion.
Exploitation is a form of abuse.Hi I think you are right. Exploitation yes. Abuse no.
Wow. Those were my exact thoughts!The problem with her bob imo was that it absolutely accentuated how she looked as a special needs kid. With her hair longer it looks less so. It was the classic special needs haircut. And that bothered P.
Ikr.A bit off topic but why don't they sweep up those damn leaves on the patio ffs? That would drive me nuts
We know they read here so I hope they take your comments to heart. I appreciate your comments and take on the whole thing.After watching the latest vlog and the one before, I'm becoming more worried for Abbie and the relationship with her Dad lately as he is clearly not getting her at all and he's not realising that what he is saying is having an impact on her mood. He really needs to stop talking about her as though she's not there when she's within earshot. The subject of prompting and ABA really triggered her and upset her and it made her yell.
I'm really worried that this is going to escalate. My advice to him would be to discuss things like this privately in the vlogs in future, either going into another room or waiting until she's in bed/at school and then it will make her feel a little bit calmer.
I'm also annoyed they didn't distract her or suggest an activity to do at her Grandad's house when she went to the kitchen. Instead of saying for example 'Hey Abbie, do you want to play with some slime while you wait for your food?', they said to her 'Sit down!' and 'Come here'. They gave no context whatsoever.
They need to start listening to autistic adults like me and understanding the reasons why she gets frustrated and then things will become a lot easier for her. And they also need to turn the camera off straight away when she's upset or overwhelmed, particularly when she starts yelling and it will allow her to calm down and also she'll get the personal space and privacy she really needs. I wouldn't want my parents constantly filming me when I'm melting down so why should they do the same to her?
She tried to hand it to Asa several times but he was too lazy to take it from her.I just watched the newest video and I'm sorry but, if she were my child, and started throwing drinks around in my car (open drinks mind you) I would've stopped that car and made her pick that shit up right quick and in a hurry! Now that type of born in a barn behavior should've been stopped ages ago. Disabled or not, you shouldn't be able to act like a heathen. The way she was acting at the grandparents house would've drove me insane as well. Just all over the place. Summer had to stand in front of her to keep her sitting. They weren't even stopping her from stealing Summer's food until she finally spoke up and said, " she is stealing the croutons from my salad!". Honestly, I would refuse to eat in her presence. Nobody should have to worry about a "teenager" stealing their food off their plate or out of their hand. I have a feeling that they aren't sticking to the "dont steal food" thing and it's really showing. Sorry guys....just my opinion.
I actually had that same thought. I feel like his family cowers to him in a sense.
This is all just my opinion from what I've seen. Asa mistreats Priss. He's manipulative and whiny at best and emotionally abusive at worst. If you start listening at this point, Priscilla worries about the juice getting on her car and he goes "I'll get it... I'LL GET IT" and then the camera cuts. I wonder why. Probably so Assa can continue berating Priss, we know he has anger issues.
Then when she politely mentions the pointing thing, he gets way too upset and defensive about it. She was 100% in the right to mention it but he can't have that. He doesn't just say "oh yeah" or even just say his piece and leave it at that. He goes ON and ON and ON and does not let it go. How dare she question him.
I know we don't like Priss here, but people can be shitty and still be getting misteated by their spouse. Can you imagine how exhausting Assa is? If that's what she has to deal with 24/7 I wouldn't want to do any of Abbie's care either. No mistakes or backtalk allowed or he'll be yelling at you about it for the next hour. Priss' self-esteem is in the mud and I'm sure a lot of it is how he treats her. You have to walk on eggshells around Asa because he does NOT let things go. He's quick to correct everyone around him, but don't you DARE do the same to him or you'll hear about it.
He thinks he edits well enough that he still looks like a great guy. But anyone who's been with someone like that knows the signs and can see between the lines of how he treats her. If that's what he leaves in, imagine what he edits out. He's a weak, insecure, petulant little man who mistreats his wife and son. You know....in my opinion.
They should've left when they realized how uncomfortable she was then. It's that simple. They are always leaving places prematurely due to Abigail being uncomfortable so, what is the difference? The drink thing was still not cool, in my opinion. He told her to put it in the cup holder but, she decided to throw it in the floor, not once but, twice. I don't know, I'm just thinking that they have let "behaviors" go on for so long that it's going to be almost impossible to teach her not to do them. They have always been too busy calling them "too cute" to actually stop them. It's sad really. (Just my opinion)She tried to hand it to Asa several times but he was too lazy to take it from her.
She was obviously very uncomfortable in that home. It was extremely small to have that many people there, she was in distress. It is obvious her grand parents do not deal with her well at all.
Pricsilla!! GET OFF YOUR PHONE! She needs to look at these videos and just see how often she is on her damn phone. It's ridiculous!
At the end of yesterday's video P tells Ass .. she is "working". with her phone up in her face.. wonder what that actually means to her..working in trying to rope someone into her pyramid scheme? Working answering comments ? Just seems silly to "work" and be sitting on the couch with your phone in your face.She tried to hand it to Asa several times but he was too lazy to take it from her.
She was obviously very uncomfortable in that home. It was extremely small to have that many people there, she was in distress. It is obvious her grand parents do not deal with her well at all.
Pricsilla!! GET OFF YOUR PHONE! She needs to look at these videos and just see how often she is on her damn phone. It's ridiculous!
He is the king of double standards. He will call other ppl out on stuff but, if anyone tries to do the same to him he will rip their head off. I once saw where he said he was not a hypocrite. I just about pissed my pants due to my laughter. I actually commented to the person he was speaking to ," Dont you believe a word of it!!", and it was somehow deleted after a very short period of time. (Holy shit! I wonder how that happened?! Asa, do you know?!)
This is all just my opinion from what I've seen. Asa mistreats Priss. He's manipulative and whiny at best and emotionally abusive at worst. If you start listening at this point, Priscilla worries about the juice getting on her car and he goes "I'll get it... I'LL GET IT" and then the camera cuts. I wonder why. Probably so Assa can continue berating Priss, we know he has anger issues.
Then when she politely mentions the pointing thing, he gets way too upset and defensive about it. She was 100% in the right to mention it but he can't have that. He doesn't just say "oh yeah" or even just say his piece and leave it at that. He goes ON and ON and ON and does not let it go. How dare she question him.
I know we don't like Priss here, but people can be shitty and still be getting misteated by their spouse. Can you imagine how exhausting Assa is? If that's what she has to deal with 24/7 I wouldn't want to do any of Abbie's care either. No mistakes or backtalk allowed or he'll be yelling at you about it for the next hour. Priss' self-esteem is in the mud and I'm sure a lot of it is how he treats her. You have to walk on eggshells around Asa because he does NOT let things go. He's quick to correct everyone around him, but don't you DARE do the same to him or you'll hear about it.
He thinks he edits well enough that he still looks like a great guy. But anyone who's been with someone like that knows the signs and can see between the lines of how he treats her. If that's what he leaves in, imagine what he edits out. He's a weak, insecure, petulant little man who mistreats his wife and son. You know....in my opinion.
The stealing food gets me as well, especially since she constantly picks her nose.I just watched the newest video and I'm sorry but, if she were my child, and started throwing drinks around in my car (open drinks mind you) I would've stopped that car and made her pick that shit up right quick and in a hurry! Now that type of born in a barn behavior should've been stopped ages ago. Disabled or not, you shouldn't be able to act like a heathen. The way she was acting at the grandparents house would've drove me insane as well. Just all over the place. Summer had to stand in front of her to keep her sitting. They weren't even stopping her from stealing Summer's food until she finally spoke up and said, " she is stealing the croutons from my salad!". Honestly, I would refuse to eat in her presence. Nobody should have to worry about a "teenager" stealing their food off their plate or out of their hand. I have a feeling that they aren't sticking to the "dont steal food" thing and it's really showing. Sorry guys....just my opinion.
Those that featured children under the age of 13 had comments disabled, unfortunately Abbie has passed that cut-off ageDoes anyone know why they they can still get comments when so many other youtubers with kids had their comments disabled?
She has motor skill issues and lack of dexterity where her hands are concerned, however, the legs are more down to lack of stamina than anything else. They have never promoted walking very far or standing and as such she just sits or lies down wherever she is at the time!Someone in the "know", help me understand something. Why does Abbie seem to have physical disabilities as well? She seems to have problems with her hands for sure and her legs when she walks. One example of the hands is watching her try to push Sandy away.
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