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I have always said if anything bad happens at least they'll have a video memory of it.
What's Assa gonna do? Come out with a baseball bat?
Chances are the perp will have a gun.
Then what?
Stupid ass mf'ers.
IMO.
Never fear! They're gettingin shape! Asssa can now run really fast (he feels loose!) and then Assa can pass Abbie off to Prigly in the pool swimming all those laps. Their speed, dexterity, and strength will thwart any attacks.
 
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Never fear! They're gettingin shape! Asssa can now run really fast (he feels loose!) and then Assa can pass Abbie off to Prigly in the pool swimming all those laps. Their speed, dexterity, and strength will thwart any attacks.
You're right!!
Damnit, why didn't I think of that?
 
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The only way he can get an IP address is from Google themselves. He would need a court order to do so.
Idk anything about tech. But a friend of mine is the creator of a vacation forum similar to this, he can get IP addresses. Ive seen him bat down trolls who came on with multiple accts in minutes by IP addy, and can simply block that IP. But again, idk. Just going by what Asa said when the scandal broke.
 
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Never fear! They're gettingin shape! Asssa can now run really fast (he feels loose!) and then Assa can pass Abbie off to Prigly in the pool swimming all those laps. Their speed, dexterity, and strength will thwart any attacks.
We'll see them on American Ninja Warrior soon.
 
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I am nitpicking here but everytime he says backslash for this symbol/ I just want to scream. It is not a backslash!!!!
I get it! That's how I feel whenever he opens the juice one-handed.

I dont think a carrot or broccoli have ever entered that house.

Hopefully, not the Justin Bieber cut again.

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They always had her bangs too long. I dont think she could really see. On top of everything else.
 
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Yeah if you have good skills you can definitely find out the IP address. No need for google and such. It’s actually one of the simplest things that developers and other IT folks can do. But I know Ass doesn’t have that capability.

It’s actually quite scary what these IT folks can do. I have a friend too who is quite savvy... he’ll get into anyone’s emails and phones so easily.
 
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Yes the creator of a forum or website can see the IP addresses of it's users. What I'm saying is Asa without a court order cannot access those. He can't just say "hand them over to me".
 
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Nah, I don't think that's it. Asa made a vlog about that subject and he pretty much says Abbie will most likely never be in a romantic relationship. He then tries to make himself feel better about that by asserting that Abbie doesn't NEED to have a romantic relationship.
It starts around the 10:00 mark


Very well put. This is what I'm saying when I say that I feel that Abbie does have potential and is capable of more. Yes, part of it is her IDD and ASD. But the other major part of it is A&P failing to raise her properly, failing to interact with her enough and working with her/teaching her. I agree that if she spent even a MONTH in an environment without Asshat ruining everything, she would progress so much.

As for Isaiah, I also think he could have accomplished more and grown more if he'd had more attention and interaction from A&P as well. Now, I know this is much easier said than done when there's a special needs child in the family. I realize that a child like Abbie requires more attention and focus. But I still think there are ways to make sure the other children in the family don't get totally ignored and pushed off to the side. It seems like most of Isaiah's academic accomplishments and even his interest in photography has been developed mostly on his own. In a way, that's good because it can teach independence (I know, I know... that buzzword again). But it makes such a huge difference for a kid growing up to have the help, support, and encouragement from your parents.
 
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I've noticed that difference as well. P is all loving, cheerful and nurturing when it comes to Sandy... and then cold and detached with Abbie. Maybe because Sandy is uncomplicated and easy to love being a cute puppy. P has this resentment with Abbie. I've said before that whenever P interacts with Abbie, it's like she's looking after someone else's kid.

Also with IDD, it becomes more obvious the older the child gets.
We can definitely see the evidence of this when you compare the older videos of Abbie when she was 6/7 years old and now. Back then, it definitely seemed like she was more autistic than IDD. A&P have stubbornly clung on to that and refuse to accept or acknowledge that her IDD is her primary diagnosis now.

Tonight's Vlog. "Mom went to the store to get a few groceries."

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It would be one thing if she bought that much so that they don't have to go back out soon. But you know it's all stuff like steaks, shrimp, and other various seafoods and prime cuts of meat that will be used up in like three days.
 
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I hope they don't change their minds about that and bring in a boyfriend like they found her a "best friend," because Abbie would not be able to consent to anything. One thing I have wondered is how families deal with kids at Abbie's level going through adolescence and being attracted to the opposite sex (or same as the case may be). I don't want them to exploit her further, but they've talked about her sitting on Isaiah's friends' laps when they come over. From what I see, she doesn't have inhibitions and doesn't understand appropriate touch...more reasons why she should be taught that bath time and changing clothes are really the only times she should be naked...for her own safety.

She comes off as being kind of shy. Says she hasn't had a boyfriend and is kind of soft-spoken. But isn't shy about what she wears. That's fine, people should wear what they are comfortable with. But that girl is an enigma. Her social media being mostly about Abbie is weird too.
 
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That's Asa, quick to defend Abbie, quick to put down Isaiah and make him feel awkward or that he's being unreasonable.
 
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They said it took a while to even accept the autism diagnosis. IDD is probably harder because of the stigma associated with it. And they were "anti medicine for 10 years"!? Maybe it just takes a long time for them to come around. Asa isn't one to admit he is wrong.
 
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They barely mention the IDD now. It's like they think if they don't acknowledge it completely, then it isn't true. Asa tries to attribute just about all of Abbie's behaviors to autism. He tries to make it seem like she's a representation of severe autism when that's not the total reality of it.
It takes Asa a lot more than most people to admit he's wrong. I think I may have witnessed it once or twice over the time I've been watching the vlogs. Most of the time he twists things around or flat out ignores them in order to make him look like he's right.
 
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This is off-topic, but what ever happened to that motorcycle repair shop that Asa has? I never see it in the vlogs anymore.
 
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